I think we've all felt that way at one point or another. You've identified the issues and have had success in the past. Use that as a positive and have that same success again!
I use the B-vitamin patches from PatchMD and I love them. I don't use the multi-vitamin patches, but after my first set of labs, everything was in the normal range so I guess they work well and I personally have no issues with irritation, although I'm sure everyone will react differently to them.