KindaFamiliar

As I've stated in other threads, I told everyone before my op... I'm talking EVERYONE!!! Not because it was the 'right' thing to do... But because it was what I chose to do... As it happens, I now tell FAR fewer people... Of course, people ask how I'm losing my weight... I tell them how I'm doing it... Strict portion control, paying attention to what I eat and twice daily (mostly) exercise... That's the truth... Sure, I had surgery... But the reality is, I can still put weight on despite the sleeve... So it's the attention to diet/exercise that is allowing me to lose weight... Of course, if someone asks if I've had surgery, I reply with a resounding "Oh dear God yes!! It's the best thing I've ever done!!!" So as far as in concerned, say whatever the f*ck you want... Lie... Don't lie... Tell half truths.... Who cares? We owe nothing to anyone except ourselves and our loved ones... If we can live with how we tell our stories then the rest of the world can kiss our collective arses..

Is it possible that all the ladies who, with their new found 'hotness', are buying new clothes (jeans in particular) post some pics? Not for me of course... I'd not be so bold as to suggest such a thing... I'm thinking more about inspiring others to blah blah blah... I guess if the fellas wanted to as well that'd be ok.. But meh... Anyway... What say you ladies?? How about some 'inspiration'?? Yours non-pervily Kinda

Great job!!!! Brilliant!!!

I don't count calories daily... Not really anyway... I do it once a week... I load a day's worth of data into MFP, check all the appropriate info, then eat the same each day for five days (M-F).. The reality of my 'diet' may vary by 100cal or so a day on occasion but the system works for me... The idea of logging every day does my head in... Of course, it can be tricky if there's a morning tea on at work or something... But everyone there situation so it's rarely a problem... My thought is that you've gotta do what works for you... But do so in conjunction with your doctor...

Great stuff!!!

Looking good... Keep it up!!!!

Is it odd that were never really comfortable with attention? When we're fat, we're always removing or restricting ourselves from social situations for reasons which, either directly or indirectly, involve some level of discomfort based on people's reactions t'ward, and interactions with, us... During the losing process, we remove or restrict ourselves from social situations for reasons which, either directly or indirectly, involve some kind of discomfort based on people's reactions t'ward, and interactions with, us... Upon completion if the process**, it seems that to some degree, we continue to remove or restrict ourselves from social.... well, you get where In going with that... So... What's the answer? Surely we didn't do all this work just to end up healthier, lighter and fitter, but still hermitting ourselves away? It seems like a whole lot of trouble to go to in order to remain as f**kd up as we ever were, but to live longer!! What about therapy? Well it help? Support groups? Maybe develop a brand new arse-kicking personality... I only ask these questions because I'm genuinely curious... You see, in 13 months out, 70ish% of my way to 'goal' and am not having any issues that are even remotely similar... Yes, the pre-op issues are pretty generic and stock standard... But from there on, my experiences, or my reaction to them, is completely diffetent... I've made it quite clear to anyone and everyone exactly where I'm at, how I'm doing, what's great, what sux... The whole lot... Only if they ask of course... I don't care how many people ask me how much I've lost or joke about my lunch or ask what I'm drinking (F****NG SHAKES) . I don't care that people stare at me now... I don't care that the talk about me behind my back.. I just don't care.. Why?? Because I'm doing a f***ing fantastic job of saving my own life!!! I was a pretty damn good human being before I started losing weight... Now, at 230+ pounds down, I'm an even better person than I was before... And you know what??? I'M NOT DONE YET!!!! So I say ask me your inane, repetitive questions... Stare at the (still) fat dude sweating and grunting as he lifts weights at the gym... Deride the tiny plate of fish that he's having for lunch... Because ultimately, your opinion matters not a pinch.. Why? Because I am me... And not only do I like me - I am proud of me!!! Sincere apologies if I've gone off track, missed the point of the thread or make no sense at all... This all just came out and I couldn't stop it... **This part is an assumption based on hearsay and anecdotal evidence.. I am not yet at this part of the process...

Embrace and enjoy the fact that you're not required to do a pre-op liquid diet... I did it for a month and it SUUUUUUUUCKED!!! Just follow what you doc says and you'll be fine... All the best to you!!!

I gag mine down with my post -gym eggs in the morning...

I've no advice or anything for you.. I simply have congratulations for making the decision and taking these steps... Welcome...

Yep... Even now at 13 months out... Not often tho... But when it happens, I certainly know about it..

Is that flower not somewhat uncomfortable?

@@bayougirlmrsc Re the text message thing I'm no longer allowing texts from @@Elode (or anyone for that matter). People were under the impression that I was some piece of meat, here simply for their gratification and pleasure... So I put a stop to the messages... For I am no such thing... I'm a person... A person with thoughts... A person with feelings... With hopes and dreams... I'm a person wi.. Ok ok... I'm fooling nobody... I AM a piece of meat... I AM simply here for the gratification and pleasure of others... I am Jason... And I know my place... Thank you

Congratulations mate... Well done to you!!

Please note that I was the first to 'like' the above post so that means I care the most...

We're gonna get along juuuuuust fine...

How west are you? Dogs, Eels, Tigers or Panthers?

Just stalked your profile... Got nothing... Where in NSW are you at? We might be neighbours....

@ You'll be right... I survived an Australian sleeving... And so will you... Contact me any time if you need anything...

Good luck to you all... The pre-op diet can be a harsh few weeks.... Just stay focussed and strong... And come in here to vent every time you have to... There's a ton of support here for those who are doing it tough... Keep it up!!!!

It's probably a little low... Of course, I'm no nutritionist... Do you not have one? Or at least access to one? Maybe give the surgeon's office a call and see if they provide that as part of their follow-up service... Or if they can at least recommend one... Good luck.. Let us know the outcome...

Welcome!!!

Sorry to butt in... As I've posted elsewhere, if you're struggling with the liquid/purees not making you feel 'full' try crunching on some ice.. I found that my brain assumed that, as I'd not chewed, I'd not eaten... That way you can chew on something that won't upset your sleeve... It also has the bonus of helping with your Water intake... Thanx... Jason...

@@Elode Oh stop it... You know I've nothing but love and caring (tolerance) for you... And you love it!!!!

Oh will you just go already!!!???!!! Oh will you just go already!!!???!!!