msmisaacs

Whoops posted too soon. Hoping I put up big numbers because I had a "fight" with my dr before surgery. He came in to my pre-op and told me l had "done nothing to prepare for surgery" because I hadn't lost enough weight. I lost 16lbs pre-op and I was so angry and upset when he said that. I hope to go in there and shut him up!

I hope your diabetes is gone too! It will be in no time - just keep doing what you're doing. One of the hardest parts of this is behind you - making the decision to do it.

Any time! If you ever need to vent feel free - you can always PM me too. I have my 1st post-op next Tuesday

Far as Protein I can get maybe 30 grams a day but the Protein causes me to cough up a mucus like substance as if I had a cold. I have a small feeling of regret like what did I do myself and other times I feel okay. My husband tries to encourage me and tell me I will do great but rightnow my pain has not gotten any better. My cousin tells me I will feel like this in the beginning but once the pain stops and I get healthier I would see the benefits and feel amazing. I have had laporascopic surgery before and was fine within a few days. Now having a 1, 5, and 7 year old who needs me everyday makes the healing process harder even though I know this was a longer and more serious surgery procedure then before. I think im being impatient and just ready to atleast be pain free.

My cousin ask had this surgery and said for her 2 weeks post-op she regretted it almost every day. Then she had an epiphany at her post-op check up and it turned everything around for her. She had lost 20lbs and co-morbids were gone already, and she just started sailing through. I know every day can be different but just think what an amazing thing you've done here - put your health first so you can be a strong, healthy, present mom to your kids! I have a 2.5 year old and a 4.5 year old and I am so glad I'm setting a positive example for my kids, especially my little girl. I'm also happy knowing I am taking back years of my life so I can watch them grown into healthy adults.

Trust me, I know I won't be this positive every single day, but that's why this board is here - so we can lean on each other. Let yourself go through the emotions - it's all part of the journey, but you will come out on top! Just think, six months from now this phase will be a memory - you'll be eating more variety, feeling better and down several sizes. All good things to look forward to!

@@msmisaacs, I was shocked to find out that your new pouch is so high up in your chest. I still have that chest pain when I eat too much or drink too fast.

I checked with my surgeon and sure enough that is exactly where your new stomach is.

You do get used to how your tummy feels when you drink too fast, don't chew properly or eat too much. You will learn you are in control of those things and you will learn to manage it.

Good luck!

Relief! Thank you! This is what I've learned by reading a bit from other posts today, but it's good to get the confirmation. I've also felt a little weak today, like I had a hard workout without food - am assuming it's because of low blood sugar from lack of calories - does this sound right to you? I felt faint in the shower but better once I sat for a bit and rehydrated.

Are you feeling better now? What were the symptoms like when you felt dehydrated? Are you able to eat at all?

How are you feeling today? Did or do you feel emotional? My emotions are all over the place and completely out of nowhere. I was feeling so excited up until today. Ugh

I feel pretty good in general, but I've definitely had my moments where I wasn't as "up." My husband and I always used to put the kids to bed and then eat dinner - usually takeout of some sort - and I miss that. Not the food as much as the social side of it, but I'm trying to replace those times with better times minus the food. Physically feel better - not getting much Protein but I'm doing my best to get 30-40 oz. Water per day and focusing on that.

You doing ok? What kinds of things are you feeling?

Are you feeling better now? What were the symptoms like when you felt dehydrated? Are you able to eat at all?

Welcome! I had my surgery 2/2/15 ended back in the hospital just shy of 2 week out for dehydration.

That's scary! How much were you drinking each day? I am struggling to get in more than 30 oz.

I am starting on week 5 and I am using that feeling to let me know that I am eating or drinking too fast or am full. What I do when I get that feeling is wait 5 to 10 mins, if it does not go away then I am full and I stop eating, if it eases then I try another bite, but a smaller one or another drink. It can be hard in the beginning to get used to the new signals that our body is using to tell us to slow down. I still have issues with eating or drinking too fast. Luckily, I have not gotten sick, but I have been close a couple of times.

Keep up the good work, you will figure out what your body is telling you!

That makes a lot of sense to me - I started my Water this morning with tiny little sips - even smaller than the small ones I had been taking, and I dont feel the knot in my chest. It must be that I was taking big sips before and that was aggravating me. Great advice - thank you!

I still get that feeling, and I'm a little over 3 months out. I used to get it much more frequently when I was newly-post op, and from what I've read about it, it (for me anyway) seems to symbolize an irritation of the stoma- the little entry point from into what's left of your stomach. It's much smaller now, and when I ate/drank too fast or took too big of a bite/swallow, I'd get that knot like feeling right under my breastbone. What's even worse, is it would make me want to throw up so badly just to get rid of the feeling (sorry if it's TMI here) but I simply couldn't- of all things, getting on the treadmill and walking briskly was the only thing that helped.

Now that I'm a bit further post-op, I've gotten pretty good at gauging what's going to give me that feeling- nearly all breads and meats- boo! Hopefully for you it stays as a symptom of your healing body & goes away

Thank you! I couldn't gauge what the feeling was all about but this makes a lot of sense. I am trying to take teeny tiny sips and it still sometimes gives a little pang but not as bad as it was initially. Hopefully this will loosen enough over time to be more comfortable but not enough to allow too much in!

I'm glad you're starting to feel better! I am sure going back to work will bring new challenges but just remember this is a life-long change so you have time to make the adjustments you need to get it "just right." You'll have to let me know how it goes being back - I am very curious! I am slated to work from home starting next Monday and go to the office next Wednesday assuming dr clears me at my post-op visit on Tuesday, so I'd love to hear how your experience is.

I am feeling pretty good in general, only issue is (I think) my pouch healing - feeling some soreness in my chest after I ate/drink so I need to go really slowly or I feel pain there. I'm trying to get out and about as much as I can (I have 2 young kids) but I live in the Boston area and we have been slammed with snow this winter, so walking outside isn't really an option.

Help - just had RNY 2/23 and feel like I swallowed a big glob of Peanut Butter all of the time, especially after drinking Water. Is this gas pain? Me being full? Seems so high up to be full but I know with my new "system" I will have new sensations. Any help or similar stories you can share are much appreciated!

Hi Hazel2915 - how are you feeling? Was your surgery smooth sailing? How are you tolerating your diet? Would love to hear about your experience.

Since I'm basically a newbie here I'm just trying to wrap my head around all the emotions, frustrations and happiness. I guess it would be nice to be able to talk to others that have been down this path. Voice concerns and questions... What to potentially expect. Etc...

Right there with you - looking to connect with others on this same path. I had RNY on 2/23 so I haven't been down the road any further than you have but looking to share experiences with others who understand the process. Hope you are feeling well!

Hi all - just had RNY on 2/23 in the Boston area and would love to connect with others just to talk through some of this stuff. Finding it hard to find support on these boards...

Oh interesting, good to know! I thought that could be it but it's so high up I was doubting myself.

Ditto - feeling better than I thought I would but definitely still have some pain - it's all up in my chest after I drink especially, and I can't tell if I'm full or if it's gas. I guess I'll figure it out one of these days!

Hello Ladies. I had my bypass done on 1/26/15. I am down almost 30lbs but it has been a hard road for me emotionally. I feel like I will never be myself again. My emotions and hormones are all over the place. I told people of my decision mostly after I already had it done. I did this for me. To make myself healthier for myself, my children and my grandchildren. I am 45 years old and I have alot of living left to do! lol

Jean Marie - hold on to the positive and beautiful part of what you said - you have a lot of life left to live and people who love you, and need you. It is a hard road but we can help support each other through it. 30lbs is fantastic!

@@MrsGibson711 - how are you feeling? Any better?

I can relate. My mother in law and I had a huge argument because she insists it is her "right" to tell her family about this. I was dumbfounded - this is my body and its up to me what I do with it and who I talk to about what I do with it!

I often receive comments at work like,"You are a completely different person!" and "I didn't know that was you!" And yes, it makes me feel good. But a part of me thinks that they shouldn't get it twisted, I'm still me & they'd better recognize

Yes!

Thank you for sharing! I am still waiting for approval, but I cannot wait to be on the other side. I also intend to take off 6 weeks, even if it is just to get my mind wrapped around the eating, drinking and Vitamin taking schedule. In my job, I tend to be dragged to meeting after meeting, without concern over "did I get a break or lunch" today. One day I told my department manager I wasn't going to attend one of the meetings, because I didn't get my lunch. She said....I never get my lunch, it's one of the sacrifices you have to make to be a manager here, (my doc would not agree). So, at least I will be able to have a Protein Shake or something in a case like that. But you can probably understand why I want the full 6 week.s I need to de-stress too. And Congratulations on your success. You are an inspiration!

I can totally relate - I am a manager and constantly scheduled start to finish in meetings, without time for lunch or Water breaks. I just Ahmad RNY on Monday so I'm nervous about my schedule when I go back, and want to make sure I have enough time and support to eat and drink the way I need to. I had only planned to take 2 weeks off but may work from home for some additional time so I can make sure I start on the right foot.

Click the 3 lines at the top left next to timeline. Then click on the icon of the person at the right top hand. Then just hit the picture symbol below your blank profile pic and go from there.

For some reason I don't have the "person" icon - maybe I need to be on my computer vs. phone? Thanks for trying to help!

I feel pretty good now - walking around and one gas x chewable per day has made all the difference - that gas pain was rough! It still sort of feels like I swallowed a big glob of Peanut Butter - not sure if it's because I am full or if that's still some gas working that's trapped. Definitely going to take some time to learn what is what in there!

Hi all - I had RNY on 2/23 and would love to connect with some of you. I have told a few friends and family members about my decision to have WLS but am not sure anyone can really understand this path without walking it.

Would love to connect! Also, how do I post a "profile picture?" ????

Its day one of post op from RNY surgery! Very uncomfortable but managing. Mostly the pressure from the air pumped into me during surgery. All looks good and can't wait to get home to begin my journey! Staying comfortable with meds. Up and sitting in chair sipping Water 25ml every 30mins. Hope this gives some of you a glimpse of what to expect.

I had RNY on 2/23 - would love to stay in touch so we can share war stories!

I'm so glad that many of you have had an outpouring of love and support! Unfortunately that's not reality for all of us. I choose privacy. I choose to keep my decisions closely guarded and away from others opinions and judgement. The reality is I'm not ashamed and I still don't feel it necessary to shout it to the world. Like someone said...I didn't announce my cervical cancer so why would I this? Hipaa exists right ???? I think everyone should do what's comfortable for them and there's no right or wrong ❤️

Exactly - my MIL was on this crazy campaign to tell her entire family and I was furious with her. I haven't even told some of my closest friends. I am very proud of my decision and happy I did this but this is my body and I consider this a very private experience. Only people who are going through it or have gone through it really get it.