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shellyd67

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  1. Also Shellyd67, I have some advise for the Constipation because mine used to be really bad as well (a downside for a high Protein diet). I take a colace about 100mg every other day, it's a stool softener not a laxative so it doesn't makes you go or give you cramps it just makes it easier to go. I also take 2 tablespoons of metamucil free and clear fiber (odorless & flavorless) inside a 16 ounce Water bottle everyday. I started this regime about two weeks ago and this helped me tremendously. I use to spend 30-45 min in the restroom due to constipation now I go every other day and usually 10 min or less. Everyone is different so try it and let me know.

    Thanks [emoji4] I feel like I own stock in Miralax lol

    I certainly helps but I have an issue now and then.


  2. I'm officially 6 months post op today and I have never felt better !!

    Now, I will discuss the good, the bad and the ugly.

    There are just so many positive things that have come from this surgery.

    The good:

    1. I am off all medication

    2. I no longer need a CPAP

    3. My knees feel so much better

    4. I have energy out the Wazoozoo

    5. My self confidence has sky rocketed

    6. I can fit in an airplane seat with no issues ( Going to Jamaica in May)

    7. I can stand and walk for hours without even thinking about pain or fatigue

    8. My family relationships are even better

    9. The stylish clothes I can wear

    10.I hopefully saved myself from an early death due to obesity

    The bad:

    NOTHING

    The ugly:

    Constipation

    I am down 104 lbs so far. I should weigh 141 lbs at the most, to be in a normal BMI range. That means 79 more pounds to go. Wish me luck !!!!


  3. I had my sleeve 9 weeks ago. Things are going great, I've had a couple bad days but nothing major to complain about. I've lost 40 lbs in two months. So I am feeling really great with no regrets.

    As we have all just gone thru the holiday season with lots of opportunities to fall off the wagon, I had no desire to eat anything bad for me. My in laws, mostly my mil and sil were so extremely rude throughout the holidays. On thanksgiving my mil announced at dinner I had had surgery and that's why I wasn't eating much. My husbands entire family was there. I was so mad. I chose to keep my surgery quiet. It's a personal matter and I tend to be a very private person and I didn't want all the attention. Well I know my mil was hoping for someone to make some rude comment Bc even before the surgery she was very rude about it. But it back fired on her and everyone was praising my lose and my decision. I could tell she was mad.

    Well two weeks later we have my sons bday party at a local arcade. They had pizza and cake. I ate a healthy lunch before we left for the party. My mil once again announced in front of my sons friends and their parents that I wasn't eating Bc I had surgery. I was pissed. Then when I was serving cake to everyone a little while my sil says "I'm sure you are regretting your stupid surgery now. You know you want cake!" At that point I was done with both of them. I told her I was very happy with my "stupid surgery", I have no regrets, and I have no desire to eat sweets so if she could kindly keep her negativity to herself I would appreciate it. As soon as I left the room they both started talking crap about me to my ex mil who is like my mom. She shut them both down very quickly. Even she wasn't excited about my surgery but she has always been supportive.

    So now we are at Christmas, my husbands family is talking to me about my weight loss and how good I'm looking and asking how things are going. Both my mil and sil kept interrupting making rude comments, bringing up how I had a bad day recently so it wasn't worth it, how the holidays have to suck for me Bc I can't eat like a normal person, and how they can't see a difference in my weight (I've gone down 3 sizes), and so on. I finally pulled them to the side and told them they need to cut the negative, rude, unnneeded comments. I told them they seem very jealous and hopeful for me to fail and i didn't appreciate that from people who are claiming to be family. If it continues we would no longer take part in their family gatherings.

    So my mil turns around and tells my husband I was being a b***h (sorry for the language) and threatening to disown them. My husband was clueless to most of these comments and incidents other than the thanksgiving incident. And on thanksgiving he told her she was rude and disrespectful and it needed to stop. I filled him in on everything else and was furious. He called her and told her I had every right to say what I said and to be mad. And he stood by me completely.

    I'm sure this will not be the end of it. But it's getting to the point I just don't want to be around them. Or I am gonna turn into that mega b***h she claimed I am. Anyone else deal with this kinda stuff from family or friends?

    What a bunch of jerks !!! ????????????????

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