Thank you RJ, that really helped. Attitude is so much of this effort and success.
Can you tell me why you'd do the by-pass instead of sleeve?
I'm pretty anxious about having the surgery but do feel I have no choice and will be so limited in my final years (I'm 64) that I will do this fear and all. Also, if I don't my husband is going to be taking care of me in ways that weight loss will prevent.
Thank you again, baj