RozzieJ

I agree with the other posters, there is nothing that I will miss!
Things I can't wait for:
Not worrying if a chair/ladder/swing will hold my weight.
Skydiving. It's something I've always wanted to try but my weight has kept me from doing it.
Not using a seatbelt extender on an airplane. I feel so ashamed every time I fly because I have to ask for one before I even get to my seat. In conjunction with that, not trying to make myself as small as possible in order to try and keep the other passenger next to me from feeling smothered by the fat chick they got stuck next to.
Shopping in a boutique. I love the cute trendy clothes but they never have anything in my size.
Tying my shoes without having to prop my leg up on the bed just to reach the laces.
Wearing super cute high heels!
I could go on and on. I'm trying really hard to have the surgery by the first week of November because if I can't, it'll have to wait until next January because of my job. The sooner the better because I'm so ready to start living my life the way it's meant to be lived!

Judgmental looks from people!
Everyone telling me how pretty my face is but if I would only loose some weight
Not fitting in a chair!

So, he will no longer be attracted to you if you lose weight?
Tell him that if he misses your fat so much, he can get a can of Crisco and he can cuddle up to that.
Seriously, he married you for your inner qualities, didn't he? What has fat got to do with it?
Someone else said that he is an insecure man who is trying to control you so that only he finds you attractive, so he can keep you. He really is threatened by the thought of losing you once you get trim. I do not know how to make him feel less threatened. He needs counseling. He sounds as if he has been "sharing" with other male friends who have planted within him scare stories about wives who have left their husbands after becoming fit.
That guy needs help.