The Candidate

Go get 'em #9grammy. Here's to the start of your brand new life! We'll be thinking of you!

Go get 'em #9grammy. Here's to the start of your brand new life! We'll be thinking of you!

Ok I'm almost ready to walk out this door and onto a new chapter in my life. Thank you for all the help over the past 7 months, I really appreciate the honesty and tips.
Guess I'll be talking to you from the other side soon.
Linda

@9grammy if you can why not book a day at the spa tomorrow or maybe just a massage? I bet that will work wonders with the jitters and headache. It's no wonder you're all tied up in knots. Do something nice and relaxing just for yourself tomorrow. Make a point of it.
As for others saying things to make you reconsider, remember this: you are the sole legal owner of that body you're in. Others opinions are just that: opinions. And unqualified ones at that because no one has clocked any hours in that body except you. You're the only one looking at this from the inside out. You know exactly how many times you've tried and succeeded only to regain. And at our age especially, no one but you knows the amount of physical pain you're currently in. For myself that's the clincher.
You have made an agonized but fully informed decision to have surgery and now you're following through. It's okay to rethink that decision too, right up until the moment they wheel you in, and if in the end you decide not to go through it then that's the right course of action to follow. But don't let anyone else who isn't you have any weight in your ultimate decision. Best of luck.

@@beachgal2935 Hello there! Another pre-op sister, so glad to make your acquaintance! It really is wonderful to be here in this forum, chatting with people my own age who are going through the exact same experience. I find I'm having many days, especially at work, where I just drift off in a daydream for a moment or two thinking what my future is going to be like.
I'm surrounded by 20 and 30 something's at work, and I imagine when I get get that secret "what if" goofy grin on my face , they probably just think its old age gas. :-). Don't get me wrong I love them to death, but they have no idea of the daily aches and pains of just getting through the day in this obese body, and they think old is 35!

@@traveler60 so sorry to hear about your broken ankle. Sometimes it feels as though life is working double against us doesn't it? We've finally got our future and health on course, and we're working so hard for this amazing goal, and then something like this happens!
Since your surgery is in Mexico and so I'm assuming your a self-pay, have you considered postponing it a bit until your ankle mends? I know the mere thought of putting it off for even a minute longer is sheer agony, but it's something to really consider. I'm honestly worried about you.
Traveling alone for surgery is hard enough, and with crutches it'll be even more of a burden. The biggest consistency post-op I've heard tell is exhaustion, which again will be amplified by dealing with a serious foot injury to boot (no pun intended). Do you have a walking boot or a cast?
I'm not trying to discourage you in any way. I would be depressed as well if I was dealing with that on top of everything else, doubly so being this close to surgery. But waiting a little longer for a best end result might benefit you more in the long run. I'm concerned about your welfare that's all. I apologize if I'm intruding too much. I'll be thinking of you! Best of luck either way!

I had mine about 6 weeks ago. I don't remember anything because they were also scoping the other end too. Just hope they did not use the same scope. Lol. Just kidding. They would have cleaned it first.

Especially ER docs are the most inexperienced in the entire hospital. And they are all generation Y or Z or what ever the heck is after the normal people who are used communications face to face. He would have rather texted or snap chat than actually spoken to you. It's not his fault, blame parents, society and his shotty medical school education which obviously let him skip out on the bedside manner lectures!

Hey guys, to answer your question about mushies, it's not as bad as it sounds. Today I had one soft scrambled egg. I only ate 5 bites but it was so good to chew. Other options are cottage cheese, yogurt, and even meat but it should be ground in a food processor. Sounds really gross but someone told me to use a rotisserie chicken with chicken broth and it's pretty tasty. I'm going to try not to concentrate on the" look".
it was also recommended that I try the fruit baby food only, They said it's surprisingly good. Creamed Soups are also inc in mushies. Still researching it . I'm going to check the popular recipe blog from eggface for suggestions.
Have a great weekend everyone.

@9grammy if you can why not book a day at the spa tomorrow or maybe just a massage? I bet that will work wonders with the jitters and headache. It's no wonder you're all tied up in knots. Do something nice and relaxing just for yourself tomorrow. Make a point of it.
As for others saying things to make you reconsider, remember this: you are the sole legal owner of that body you're in. Others opinions are just that: opinions. And unqualified ones at that because no one has clocked any hours in that body except you. You're the only one looking at this from the inside out. You know exactly how many times you've tried and succeeded only to regain. And at our age especially, no one but you knows the amount of physical pain you're currently in. For myself that's the clincher.
You have made an agonized but fully informed decision to have surgery and now you're following through. It's okay to rethink that decision too, right up until the moment they wheel you in, and if in the end you decide not to go through it then that's the right course of action to follow. But don't let anyone else who isn't you have any weight in your ultimate decision. Best of luck.

@@beachgal2935 Hello there! Another pre-op sister, so glad to make your acquaintance! It really is wonderful to be here in this forum, chatting with people my own age who are going through the exact same experience. I find I'm having many days, especially at work, where I just drift off in a daydream for a moment or two thinking what my future is going to be like.
I'm surrounded by 20 and 30 something's at work, and I imagine when I get get that secret "what if" goofy grin on my face , they probably just think its old age gas. :-). Don't get me wrong I love them to death, but they have no idea of the daily aches and pains of just getting through the day in this obese body, and they think old is 35!

@@traveler60 so sorry to hear about your broken ankle. Sometimes it feels as though life is working double against us doesn't it? We've finally got our future and health on course, and we're working so hard for this amazing goal, and then something like this happens!
Since your surgery is in Mexico and so I'm assuming your a self-pay, have you considered postponing it a bit until your ankle mends? I know the mere thought of putting it off for even a minute longer is sheer agony, but it's something to really consider. I'm honestly worried about you.
Traveling alone for surgery is hard enough, and with crutches it'll be even more of a burden. The biggest consistency post-op I've heard tell is exhaustion, which again will be amplified by dealing with a serious foot injury to boot (no pun intended). Do you have a walking boot or a cast?
I'm not trying to discourage you in any way. I would be depressed as well if I was dealing with that on top of everything else, doubly so being this close to surgery. But waiting a little longer for a best end result might benefit you more in the long run. I'm concerned about your welfare that's all. I apologize if I'm intruding too much. I'll be thinking of you! Best of luck either way!

Hi Candidate and ladies
Yes I have the jitters and a heck of a splitting headache for the past 3 days, with the neck pain to follow. I'd say I am excited and nervous all at the same time. I've even wondered if I'm doing the right thing! The amnestiologists told me I didn't look like I needed this and she shook her head saying they were getting smaller and smaller all the time. But I have lost 16 pounds and it feels good losing that. But there is always the but... If I don't get this done I will gain it back and more! So yes this is the best for me.

@@traveler60 so sorry to hear about your broken ankle. Sometimes it feels as though life is working double against us doesn't it? We've finally got our future and health on course, and we're working so hard for this amazing goal, and then something like this happens!
Since your surgery is in Mexico and so I'm assuming your a self-pay, have you considered postponing it a bit until your ankle mends? I know the mere thought of putting it off for even a minute longer is sheer agony, but it's something to really consider. I'm honestly worried about you.
Traveling alone for surgery is hard enough, and with crutches it'll be even more of a burden. The biggest consistency post-op I've heard tell is exhaustion, which again will be amplified by dealing with a serious foot injury to boot (no pun intended). Do you have a walking boot or a cast?
I'm not trying to discourage you in any way. I would be depressed as well if I was dealing with that on top of everything else, doubly so being this close to surgery. But waiting a little longer for a best end result might benefit you more in the long run. I'm concerned about your welfare that's all. I apologize if I'm intruding too much. I'll be thinking of you! Best of luck either way!

Today is day 4 of my 2 week preop liquid diet. Its a little rough going but I am doing it, and so happy that I am making it happen. I have lost 5 1/2lbs as of this morning, I wouldn't have believed it if I had not seen it for myself. 10 more days to go on the liquid diet. I have been mixing beef broth and low sodium V8 juice and heating it in the microwave and it tastes like vegetable Soup. I drink this once or twice a day and have chicken broth also. I am not sure the V8 is allowed but it shouldn't hurt anything because its very low in carbs. How is everyone else doing on their liquid diet? I am looking forward to hearing from others.

@@beachgal - I have an Up24 - been using it for a few months now. Wear it every day!!

Hi everyone, not been here for a couple of days and looks like I have some reading to catch up on.
First, my cousin who had 4 bypasses on Tuesday is doing very well. She was up today and walked around the nurses station. Swore to no more smoking as did her daughter and husband. She will be out of ICU tomorrow.
I am done with all medical tests required, at least I hope they don't throw anything else at me. I have to get my A1C checked when I go to my dr next week. And I have the psych evaluation on Tuesday. Last thing is the oral surgery I have to do on NOv 13th. Then I will meet with the doctor again and the nutritionist. I am hoping to get this done before the end of the year, but just have a feeling it may be after. Awfully close to the holidays and people being off work.
I have to get my A1C down a little more before it is checked next week. I've been having a Protein Drink for Breakfast and salad or my main meal at lunch. If I do the main meal then I have salad in the evening for dinner.< /p>
Since I had to fast for the cath test I have not been very hungry since then so I am taking advantage of it. But still having something so my body does not think I am starving it.
@@Kathy812, how are you feeling ? How long do you stay on the liquids ? Do you get the wonderful Jello yet ?

@Jackbult, I love that term: Holy Crap What If Club! You should look into having that trademarked. I think I crashed your membership, hope you don't mind. :-). Even though my surgery is many months away I often find my mind wandering into the what if future. It's a very nice place to take up residence, dreaming of how much our lives are going to change for the better!
I have faith @@mom of 2 poodles that your approval is already in hand! You too @@LisaLou30 Congratulations!

Maybe that's all part of the magic designed to finally get us healthy again. You have so much to think about, so much you have to remember and do; there no room for anything else. And all the while you're going about your day in this strange brand new body. You've read all the instructions and yet it's still like unraveling a complex mystery. It must be in equal terms exciting and scary.
But before you know it you'll be there. In that place you've been hoping and dreaming about since the very moment you made the decision to have the surgery. I can only imagine how tough it must be for you, but you sound like you are doing so well, and I'm so very happy for you!
Remember to take a moment everyday and cherish how hard you've worked to get where you are now. How much progress you've made and how many more successes you have coming your way. Some so special you can't even dream of them yet! You deserve it!

Congrats @@Kathy812 for officially becoming a post op! I'm sorry you had to go through so much pain, but I'm so glad you're feeling better now. I appreciate the truthfulness. I for one don't want anything surger-coated, prepare for the worst, but hope for the best as they say. Please keep us updated on your progress from day to day, the good along with the bad.
Hello @@Queen of the crop, looking forward to reading your blog!

Way to go Nate! I've not had my surgery yet, but you only have to turn around a bit to see all the successful stories here! You're next! I'm so very happy for you! You're so young and you have a wonderful exciting new life ahead of you, never forget that.

I'm so happy for your successful surgery and thankful for your honesty. How could it not hurt when your organs are being manipulated and stapled during a 90 minute procedure?! Not to mention the after-gas pains from the air they pump into your abdomen. Maybe, like childbirth, those memories fade when you look in the mirror 6 months from now and don't recognize the slim new you At least that's what I'm hoping for! Please keep us posted with your progress and know that we're all here to support you.

Maybe that's all part of the magic designed to finally get us healthy again. You have so much to think about, so much you have to remember and do; there no room for anything else. And all the while you're going about your day in this strange brand new body. You've read all the instructions and yet it's still like unraveling a complex mystery. It must be in equal terms exciting and scary.
But before you know it you'll be there. In that place you've been hoping and dreaming about since the very moment you made the decision to have the surgery. I can only imagine how tough it must be for you, but you sound like you are doing so well, and I'm so very happy for you!
Remember to take a moment everyday and cherish how hard you've worked to get where you are now. How much progress you've made and how many more successes you have coming your way. Some so special you can't even dream of them yet! You deserve it!

@@swimbikerun thank you for the definition of PPI!

@Jackbult, I love that term: Holy Crap What If Club! You should look into having that trademarked. I think I crashed your membership, hope you don't mind. :-). Even though my surgery is many months away I often find my mind wandering into the what if future. It's a very nice place to take up residence, dreaming of how much our lives are going to change for the better!
I have faith @@mom of 2 poodles that your approval is already in hand! You too @@LisaLou30 Congratulations!