Bigdogdad

No, but my husband has lost 60 pounds over the last year and a half by joining the gym with me. exercising 6 days a week, and eating a lot less refined carbohydrates .

Yes, @lisacaron has

Yes we have! We were banded 3 days apart from each other and it's GREAT. Having your partner on the same page as you is a big help. There are things you will do differently and you will each have your own journey but you will understand each other and where you are coming from. Do you plan to have the same type of surgery? Feel free to PM me if you like.