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ChelceyA

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    ChelceyA got a reaction from stacey3272 in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    I do believe you have forgotten your own words.  You claim those who go to Mexico are just trying to save a few bucks.  Most people in the US have no bariatric insurance.  They either go to Mexico or they sit at home and die of obesity.
     
    I would caution you to be careful when you choose your words.  You have done this repeatedly lately.
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    ChelceyA got a reaction from evco2010 in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    To my knowledge Kuri and Huacuz have not been to trial yet.  I am unaware of Almanza being arrested, just that his recovery homes were shut down.  The plastic surgeon has been to trial and he is in prison now.  
     
    Another bariatric surgeon (not in TJ) is also in prison, actually... 7 of them are.  Not all bariatric surgeons though, for organ trafficking.  
     
    In the US their med mal pays out, in Mexico they go to prison AND their med mal pays.
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    ChelceyA got a reaction from evco2010 in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    To my knowledge Kuri and Huacuz have not been to trial yet.  I am unaware of Almanza being arrested, just that his recovery homes were shut down.  The plastic surgeon has been to trial and he is in prison now.  
     
    Another bariatric surgeon (not in TJ) is also in prison, actually... 7 of them are.  Not all bariatric surgeons though, for organ trafficking.  
     
    In the US their med mal pays out, in Mexico they go to prison AND their med mal pays.
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    ChelceyA got a reaction from LindafromFlorida in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    You have to get down to basics. How much does it cost the surgeon to do a surgery. The cost of staples alone is astonishing. The cost of the hospital, the cost of paid and trained staff.. you can't do it for $3500. It is impossible. Surgeons that do cheap surgery tend to use black market supplies, veterinary equipment from China, etc.
    You get what you pay for, that is the bottom line. You want cheap surgery? You take risks. We are talking common sense here.
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    ChelceyA reacted to skullcandym91 in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    All ive been told is that bariatric surgeons should have one or more of the following...
    FRACS, FASMBD, FICS, SAGES, FACS after their name. Dr Illan has MD which in NZ means he is only a medical doctor. Basic surgeries only.
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    ChelceyA reacted to I will what I want in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    I would take great pause in going to a surgeon that employs a known felon.
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    ChelceyA got a reaction from LindafromFlorida in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    Bingo!
    I really really like you.
    Read loud and clear. I absolutely double dawg DARE her to do that to me. Go ahead, darlen... I'm waiting.
    Oh for God's sakes! SHUT THE FUCK UP!
    Yeah, let's chat about Illan. He's a cheap surgeon, he cuts corners to make cheap surgery. He is unsafe... yeah, I wrote it! He is a chit, inexperienced surgeon in a chit city doing cheap surgery.
    Shut up for God's sake.
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    ChelceyA reacted to *susan* in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    Oh goodness, thank you so much for making me realize that. Yes, you are right, it is much better to back down, allow Omar to continue to take advantage of his patients, make inappropriate sexual advances to those who clearly don't want it, and to satisfy his personal sexual needs with insecure, woman he meets through his job instead of being a real man and finding woman outside of his job. Yes, you are right, lets just allow him to continue to victimize woman.
    Here is the read deal, IF Dr. Illan truly cares about his patients, and IF Dr. Illan truly cares about his reputation, once he sees and hears all the facts, which I can assure you he will, then he will fire Omar so fast, Omar will not know what hit him. And IF Dr. Illan does that, he will have my utmost respect and support.
    However, IF Dr. Illan is presented with all this information and continues to keep Omar in his employ, then he is as guilty as Omar and whatever happens to him and his reputation is his own fault, NOT the fault of this thread, NOT the fault of the victims. HIS OWN FAULT. It is his responsibility to ensure the safety and wellbeing of his patients.
    I will continue to speak out about this and will continue to defend these woman until Omar is no longer coordinating for anyone, or working in the medical field for anyone.
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    ChelceyA reacted to Madam Reverie in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    May you all (and by 'all', I mean the Cabal of individuals who would seem to be 'fundamentalists' when it comes to the Baja clinic and their coordinating staff), be THOROUGHLY ashamed of yourselves.

     

    You leave me agog at your actions.

     

    If anyone needs any legal counsel as to potential options (albeit I'm not American, don't specialise in the laws of the internet (but have friends that do) and am not state-specific - although it wouldn't take me long to work out your statutes and the laws of the internet are fairly transnational anyway), I would be happy to provide any help or assistance I can.

     

    US Citizen? Whitney? Wow.. tread carefully now.. I do believe you have found the line and stepped WAY over it.
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    ChelceyA reacted to *susan* in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    I continue to find it astonishing, sad and shocking what levels the Omar worshippers will stoop to simply because they believe is something did not happen to them, it could not possibly happen to anyone else. It just continues to reinforce the level of influence and power he has over these woman. It is scary and cult-like behavior.
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    ChelceyA got a reaction from Luvin_Life125 in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    Does anyone else wonder if "Thin MAN" or BWhite is really Omar?  if you reread some of these posts it is almost bragging, not defending.
     
     
    I'm still left scratching my head trying to figure out who is real and who isn't.
     
     
    Sooooo, are you a lawyer or a judge?  Which one?  You speak from a position of formal education on the topic so I was just wondering which is your field of expertise.
     
     
    Give it a Break.  Illan made a fully informed choice to hire a known gang member, felon, with a known history of taking advantage of vulnerable women alone in a strange country for major surgery.  He knew Omar had been fired for this very behavior from another surgeon.  But hey... Omar can get him $$$ so who cares about the patients.  It's the bank account Illan cares about.  He gets what he gets.   I plan to personally see to it that the proper authorities are notified of his business practices.  Don't blame the ladies here, blame ME and I don't even have a dog in this fight.  But I'm going for it anyway.  Someone needs to stop both Illan and Omar from such horrific lack of ethics and I decided I want the job.  Call it self appointed if you wish.
     
     
    Honey, I would urge you to leave Kelly out of this.  Kelly makes Omar look like a saint but that is a topic for another thread.  I would suggest you not 'go' there and instead, keep that tail between your legs and head out as you have repeatedly promised.  You have already clearly demonstrated that you are in so far over your head people point and giggle when referring to you.  You do more for the Susan supporters than you do your best booty call partner, Omar.  You have done him so much harm I was even wondering if these are people posting in support of Omar when really they are trying to harm him but I rethought that.  You simply are not intelligent enough to pull it off.  You really are an Omar groupie.
     
    You have made many accusations but you have been completely and totally unable to defend those accusations.  That is because you are a liar.  A dishonest, booty call partner, liar.  You have outed yourself, shamed yourself, harmed your buddy Omar and due to social challenges you don't even see it.  HA!  You do make me smile when I read your rantings.
     
     
    So what?  Your point?  What you are suggesting here is that not only is Omar exempt from basic Medical Ethics, so is Illan. Guess what?  He's not exempt, neither of them are.  That is a reality you will have to deal with.
     
     
    Damn sure you do!  When it comes to Medical Ethics it most certainly DOES matter and your worship of those involved do not change reality.
     
     
    But you wouldn't be suspicious of a US surgeon?  Honey, you might not want to have anymore surgery of any type anywhere.  You are too naive.
     
    I never fail to be amazed at the naivety of people when it comes to doctors anywhere.
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    ChelceyA reacted to LindafromFlorida in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    There is a finding checked by the federal court judge in his order concerning Omar which states "the defendant has a significant prior criminal record."   These documents are public record.   In the US, we are lucky to have diligent employers who do background checks.  
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    ChelceyA reacted to *susan* in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    This post will remain open until I request that it be closed. That will happen once appropriate resolution has taken place.
    If we close it down now, it will disappear and that is what the Omar Worshippers want. And, we would be doing a disservice to potential patients of Dr. Illan if we do not warn them about Omar as long as he is still in the employment of Dr. Illan and Baja Bariatrics. In the meantime, you can unsubscribe and refrain from opening it if it disturbs you.
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    ChelceyA reacted to VSGAnn2014 in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    WHOA!
    Why in the world would ANYONE have anything to do with any of you Omar fangirl nutjobs?
    Why would ANYONE join your Illan / Omar Facebook fan group?
    Why would ANYONE maintain ANY kind of relationship with Whitney (her full name and family members' pictures and names are on Facebook for all to see!)?
    Why would ANYONE employ a person like Whitney -- who would behave this way on social media?
    You folks may or may not be certifiably crazy.
    But you are all certified white trash.
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    ChelceyA reacted to LipstickLady in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    I appreciate your story and commend you for realizing what you were getting into and "playing the game" anyways. That said, you say he's a typical man? Uhm... no. Not so much. If this is the type of man that is typical in YOUR life, I feel for you and I say that with all sincerity.
    I've met very few men in my life (once past the sorority/fraternity days) that this behavior is typical of. In fact, most men I know prefer to be with one woman, in a loving partnership, having outgrown the "player" stage while in college. In fact, even when living in the sorority house, the "players" were far less common than the REAL men, those who actually had respect for the women in their lives.
    "Men" who act like you've described are nothing more than self centered narcissistic children, and that's OK, as long as they are not breaking any ethical codes, which I do believe is the issue here. REAL men are a whole 'nother breed.
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    ChelceyA got a reaction from LindafromFlorida in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    Sorry, I don't believe this.  Merely being in the country illegally is not something they put you in prison for and call you a felon.  Are you sure his GANG affiliations had nothing to do with his prison time?  The taxpayers have paid dearly for him, I hope he rots in Mexico.
     
     
    You were in a hotel in TJ after surgery so you were a patient.  It's not like you went to TJ to visit him, you were a patient.
     
    Question for you, what other Medical Ethics are okay for Omar to disregard?  I mean, the rules don't apply to him so what else shall we excuse regarding Omar's behavior?  It doesn't matter one single itty bitty iota if you were willing or not.  It changes nothing.  HE should have had enough respect for you and his job to keep his penis where it belonged.  But he doesn't, he doesn't respect anything or anyone.  Honestly, the more I read the more disgusted I am with Illan.  I came here without strong opinions of Illan one way or another.  I have very strong opinions now.  Now I am just becoming angry.
     
    Sorry, your defense of Omar is to hate the game, not the player.  You honestly don't understand the seriousness of this.  I actually don't hate the game, to each his own.  The player, he needs to be dealt with by Illan or I am pretty sure people are left with going after Illan.
     
     
    It shouldn't even be your choice.  That's what you don't get.  MEDICAL ETHICS!  It's something that matters to the rest of the world.  Omar shouldn't even have given you the opportunity.
     
    Honestly, this isn't rocket science.
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    ChelceyA reacted to *susan* in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    Speaking of recently created profiles, hello pot, meet kettle!
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    ChelceyA got a reaction from *susan* in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    Bingo! Medical Ethics does not just apply to the doctor, it applies to the entire staff. The doctor is merely responsible in the end. I think it is clear that the doctor is aware of this behavior and he's doing nothing about it. You can like him as a surgeon, heck, you can credit him for your own hard work in losing weight. It does not make it right to allow this to continue when you ladies have the power to do something about it. Put the screws to Illan to fix this problem! Be the solution, not the problem.
    I would hope ALL these women file formal ethics charges for these behaviors. If not, you are only helping him to continue the behavior. So far the women I have seen that are telling their stories are taking partial responsibility for their own actions in these incidents. Being a responsible adult means fixing our past errors, not pretending like it didn't happen.
    Let's see what Illan is *really* all about. Prove to us that he actually cares about patients. Do something or acknowledge you don't care what your doc is made up of.
    As for you, Maestrita- Put up or finally shut up and go away. If you can defend your own claims, by all means! Do so! Susan answered your questions, now pay up hunny. It's your turn. If you do not we can know you are totally unable to do so. And btw, Latin Lover is NOT NOT NOT a racial slur. I work with a ton of Latino men. I swear to God, the next 10 guys I see I am flat out going to ask them, is "Latin Lover" a racial slur or a compliment? We will let THEM decide.
    BTW, what are you? I am about ready to come up with a racial slur for you but I don't know what you are. White? Mexican? Italian? Or just overall gang groupie with benefits?
    I still do not know what anyone sees in Omar. First we have his silly name, then we have his photo. I swear, he had to use drugs or something to seduce these woman. Seriously, eww. A vulnerable patient chasing, convicted felon, (apparently) still wanted in the US, an illegal alien, and proud founder of a Latino gang. Good grief. What a disgusting POS. Not only did the taxpayers have to pay his undeserved education (and likely food/medical as well) but we had to pay for his crimes and prison time. What a treat for the US.
    Bleh.
    Let's DO something about this. We can talk about it for another month and that will do nothing. Let's DO something about it.
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    ChelceyA got a reaction from *susan* in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    Bingo! Medical Ethics does not just apply to the doctor, it applies to the entire staff. The doctor is merely responsible in the end. I think it is clear that the doctor is aware of this behavior and he's doing nothing about it. You can like him as a surgeon, heck, you can credit him for your own hard work in losing weight. It does not make it right to allow this to continue when you ladies have the power to do something about it. Put the screws to Illan to fix this problem! Be the solution, not the problem.
    I would hope ALL these women file formal ethics charges for these behaviors. If not, you are only helping him to continue the behavior. So far the women I have seen that are telling their stories are taking partial responsibility for their own actions in these incidents. Being a responsible adult means fixing our past errors, not pretending like it didn't happen.
    Let's see what Illan is *really* all about. Prove to us that he actually cares about patients. Do something or acknowledge you don't care what your doc is made up of.
    As for you, Maestrita- Put up or finally shut up and go away. If you can defend your own claims, by all means! Do so! Susan answered your questions, now pay up hunny. It's your turn. If you do not we can know you are totally unable to do so. And btw, Latin Lover is NOT NOT NOT a racial slur. I work with a ton of Latino men. I swear to God, the next 10 guys I see I am flat out going to ask them, is "Latin Lover" a racial slur or a compliment? We will let THEM decide.
    BTW, what are you? I am about ready to come up with a racial slur for you but I don't know what you are. White? Mexican? Italian? Or just overall gang groupie with benefits?
    I still do not know what anyone sees in Omar. First we have his silly name, then we have his photo. I swear, he had to use drugs or something to seduce these woman. Seriously, eww. A vulnerable patient chasing, convicted felon, (apparently) still wanted in the US, an illegal alien, and proud founder of a Latino gang. Good grief. What a disgusting POS. Not only did the taxpayers have to pay his undeserved education (and likely food/medical as well) but we had to pay for his crimes and prison time. What a treat for the US.
    Bleh.
    Let's DO something about this. We can talk about it for another month and that will do nothing. Let's DO something about it.
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    ChelceyA reacted to I will what I want in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    Maestrita, you wrote, " I did defend Omar. He's not a saint, but he's not who's been painted here. He's had a hard life, and he's made some bad choices, but he's not a predatory, either. "
    So why is it you don't believe the experiences of the three women who posted in this thread? In a thread you started back in January you rightfully asked people to respect your experience of not being informed by your doctor about the complication rate with the band. You were right in that thread to defend your own experience and I applaud you for standing up for your experience. However, in that same line of thought, it is hypocritical of you to now disavow the experiences of these women for whom he is a predator - and for you to say otherwise is just like the people who jumped all over you about being upset about your experience with the band. You can't argue with their experience. Please don't let your survival mechanism get the better of you - you are a teacher and have a history in law enforcement - you are clearly smart and well educated. Something about this has gotten you personally hooked. If you had a great experience with Dr Illam and Omar, the experiences of these women don't diminish you or your great experience. I hope you find some clarity and peace around your friendship with Omar.
    People who are considering having surgery with Dr Illam have a right to know his coordinator is a felon. It brings into question the wisdom and clarity of thought he uses to run his practice. For some it may make no difference at all. For me, I would never use a doctor who employes a felon.
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    ChelceyA reacted to LipstickLady in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    Does anyone else snicker when someone says they are leaving/not posting again/blah blah blah but you know they just can't stay away? Snort! Oh the draaaammmmaaaaaa!
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    ChelceyA reacted to Madam Reverie in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    Your hypocrisy actually makes me want to vomit (and trust me, since I've gotten myself a much smaller stomach, I don't like to do that).
     
     'Most have been glossed over' - yes, by you, they have!
     
    You will attack the charges laid by others, but you completely gloss over mine - insisting that you demand answers for questions which are frankly, non-sensical (you would understand that, if you'd actually paid any attention to the actual content of this thread)
     
    Dude, do us all a favour. Don't ask for responses to questions, like you have the right to demand them, without first accounting for your own assertions and behaviour.
     
    'so I'm going to ask them again' - I'm still asking, and all I'm getting is tumbleweed!
     
    'and I'll keep asking them' - Yes, so will I!
     
    'There should be no problem addressing them, because unlike the barrage directed at me, these questions do not sink to the level of insult and false accusation'  - HAHAHAHA, you make me laugh. You make me laugh more than I have chortled on this site for the longest time! Smell any hypocrisy in that statement? Yes? No? <carries on chuckling>
     
    ' I'll cut and paste them again now so that you don't have to go find them.'  - HA! But you couldn't do that for me, hey?
     
    I would like you to substantiate the assertions you made about the reports of misconduct being fabricated and sounding 'oh so similar' to previous reports about other doctors' misconduct...
     
    Until you do that? >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> There's the freekin' door.
     
    Oh, and don't think I'd be one of those 'gals' that you think you can intimidate through bandying about spurious claims to being ex LE or even a teacher.
     
    Some of us here are well educated enough and well versed in taking people like you to task.
     
    Call it a quid pro quo...
     
    So... until you answer the request I made for you to substantiate your assertions (seeing as you think you're impervious to being held accountable to the same standards). 
     
    Move on chickadee, you're filling up my visual space with utter bollocks.
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    ChelceyA got a reaction from LindafromFlorida in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    VSG Ann... I have to call BS here!  What you have been told is utter nonsense.  Have there ever been women who did that? I'd imagine so.  Is that the norm?  Heaven's no!  If you are going to Mexico with your best friend and you are both having surgery, might you go to a mall to see what a Mexican mall is like?  Of course, but that is the norm, not as described to you.  I question how much time the odd author really spent in Mexico and just who the heck she was hanging with.  It's not regular people.  Most of us went, we were afraid, nervous, excited, we didn't really know what to expect.  THAT is the norm. I went to a mall, I had the time, I felt up to it, I wanted to see a Mexican mall.  Period.  Most of us are like that, certainly not as you were told.  That was to justify Omar's behavior as something the women wanted, damn sure not reality.
     
     
    You are absolutely free to deny anything you wish, but anyone that goes to the extremes to defend such a man is more than just a friend.  Infatuation?  A groupie?  A booty call partner?  Not sure.  I just know damned weird when I see it.
     
    While I would prefer you continue posting on the topic because you are proving more and more the dynamics that go along with Omar and his (ahem) "friends" I think it is best in your case to just back off and not help him anymore if he is honestly your friend.
     
    Com'on, let's face it.  You are in over your head.  You are being called on your behaviors, you are being asked to defend your own claims.  You know as well as the rest of us you can't do that.  So just put your tail between your legs and move on before you shame yourself more than you have...  not to mention outing yourself as you have.
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    ChelceyA reacted to LindafromFlorida in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    Like I previously said.  There are many, many more, many who will never come forward.  They are married, afraid, have children, embarrassed, and have seen the abuse here.  Why in hello would they put themselves in this arena.  Whoever you are, at least contact Susan.  You never have to go public, just talk to someone.  God Bless.
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    ChelceyA reacted to *susan* in Dr. Jalil Illan with Baja Bariatrics and Omar Acosta - A Warning   
    There is so much I want to say, but ya know how you have those days where nothing has gone right and you're this close to just blowing up? Yes, I'm there. And if it happens here, it won't be pretty. I am so tired of the fan club defending a man who gets his rocks off on preying on vulnerable, innocent victims just because they weren't unfortunate enough to have it happen to them. This man is about as low as they come. If you all could see the new information that has been shared with me today, you would just vomit. He is disgusting. A pig. Mankind in its worse form. I can only hope what I have learned today can be shared with all of you soon. He is actually proud of himself and bragging about what he has done and gets away. Of course, the Omar Worshippers will continue to deny it. They will continue to try and discredit and bully the victims. They will continue to try to convince you I made this all up. Go for it. Because in the end, I have the proof, I know the victims and we are doing what we need to do both publicly and privately to have this situation death with.

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