Reputation from gruiz27 - Page 4

gruiz27 reacted to bikrchk in I feel like I lost myself , became stuck up and shallow. September 14, 2015

What @ VSGAnn2014 said! Having rejoined the dating pool in a new body in my late 40's after being obese my entire life, I can say the attention is both empowering and frightening. If you think you're headed into a bad space, you probably are. Get some help. Best of luck!

gruiz27 reacted to KattattaK in I feel like I lost myself , became stuck up and shallow. September 14, 2015

I have heard of this happening and I actually have frienda who have fallen victim to this. Be careful! Each and every one of them unfortunately have since gained their weight back. I feel this is due to not getting their minds right. The weight came off so quickly that the mind didn't have a chance to catch up. Karma sucks and is real and has bitten them in the ass. You dont want that to happen to you. Get real friends (if you don't already have any). They will help in trying y to keep you in check .Good thing you are able to recognize and own up to your shortcomings! All the best!

gruiz27 reacted to TammyDTM in I feel like I lost myself , became stuck up and shallow. September 14, 2015

It sounds like you are going down a very destructive path. You might want to seek counseling.
If you continue as you are, one day you may find yourself still looking good, but very lonely.

gruiz27 reacted to Inner Surfer Girl in I feel like I lost myself , became stuck up and shallow. September 14, 2015

Are you seeing a counselor or therapist? This is the kind of thinking a professional can help you with.

gruiz27 reacted to TammyDTM in I feel like I lost myself , became stuck up and shallow. September 14, 2015

You said, "I'm stuck up and shallow which is bad since I been at the other end.. I play with guys emotions and I love the attention I get"
It sounds like maybe men didn't give you the attention you wanted when you were heavy so now you are "paying them back" now that you are feeling yourself.

gruiz27 reacted to Babbs in I feel like I lost myself , became stuck up and shallow. September 14, 2015

Okay, then don't be stuck up and shallow?
You've transformed your outside considerably. You are gorgeous. But when I see someone with a shitty personality in a gorgeous package, it automatically makes me look at them as ugly.
Make your inside just as pretty as your outside. Beauty fades, but an awesome person who treats others with respect and dignity is forever

gruiz27 reacted to t_haii in Dry heaving June 8, 2015

Ugh I'm going on week 3 of dry heaving from hell. I'm glad to hear it will end and that it hasn't ruined my life forever it's just hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I've never been so sick in my life and I regret this surgery so much.

gruiz27 got a reaction from BubblyTXGirl in Dry heaving June 8, 2015

Sadly like a month or more.. it was a bad time and I regretted my surgery but one day I woke up and it was gone.. the medication hardly worked for me. .

gruiz27 got a reaction from BubblyTXGirl in Dry heaving June 8, 2015

I had the same problem when I was a few weeks out I had to go to the ER got ivs in me and test done it eventually went away they gave anti nausea meds , Patches, pills, and rectal pills. .

gruiz27 got a reaction from JustJaime5 in 1 year 4 months out new life♡ June 1, 2015

21 years old and I got a new chance at a new life I'm so happy.
Sw:344
Cw:174
Goal:160
Sleeved 02/06/2014

gruiz27 reacted to jaterika in 1 year 4 months out new life♡ June 3, 2015

Omg you are truly my new inspiration, I am 22 single parent and I'm at my 1 week follow up appt as I type lol. But you look great my sw was 298 my cw is 282 so I'm a bit happy about that right now since I just got sleeved Friday on 29th. Its great to see someone around my age for once so I won't feel so shamed since I'm so young. You are truly giving me hope thank you

gruiz27 got a reaction from xxjosettexx in 1 year 4 months out new life♡ June 3, 2015

what he can't be negative anyways thank you and yes u can be under 200 I did it it's possible just takes time and dedication good luck

gruiz27 reacted to xxjosettexx in 1 year 4 months out new life♡ June 3, 2015

You look so amazing!!! Great to see you doing so well! Your post gives me hope since I am of a similar age with almost the exact same numbers (sw 346 goal 160), and my doctor said I'd never get below 200 with the sleeve... June 30th is my surgery date, I guess I'll have to prove him wrong! Haha. You have done amazing work!! (:

gruiz27 got a reaction from JustJaime5 in 1 year 4 months out new life♡ June 1, 2015

21 years old and I got a new chance at a new life I'm so happy.
Sw:344
Cw:174
Goal:160
Sleeved 02/06/2014

gruiz27 got a reaction from JustJaime5 in 1 year 4 months out new life♡ June 1, 2015

21 years old and I got a new chance at a new life I'm so happy.
Sw:344
Cw:174
Goal:160
Sleeved 02/06/2014

gruiz27 reacted to imjenn in 1 year 4 months out new life♡ May 31, 2015

This makes me so happy.
I, too, am 21 and I'm very excited to begin to see more progress. (I'm not even a month out from my surgery date)

gruiz27 reacted to pamzie85 in 1 year 4 months out new life♡ May 31, 2015

Wow! Amazing! Very inspirational

gruiz27 got a reaction from jdj52 in I Want To See Before & After Pics! (Cont'd) March 16, 2015

Sw: 326
Cw:206
Sleeved February 6 2014
120 down. 50 more to go.
5'7..... 20 years old.

gruiz27 got a reaction from sassycas45 in Looking for stories of your 100lb weight loss! March 4, 2015

My surgery weight was 326 my current weight is 213. I've lost 112 pounds. In 6 months. I still want to loose another 60. I'm 20 years old and 5'7 .

gruiz27 got a reaction from VickiCat in Finally 1 year since surgery bfore/after February 6, 2015