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NothingUpMySleeve

Gastric Sleeve Patients
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  1. When my mouth is just starting to really enjoy a flavor--then HOLD UP, tummy is full.

    Someone above mentioned they couldn't lose weight on 1200 calories before sleeve. I was the same way and I could tell one dr I had was very skeptical and probably thought I was sneaking midnight burritos or something. I do not lose weight if I eat more than about 800 calories, which is pretty easy with the sleeve but was so hard before. No one is ever willing to believe this--the simple fact that it is definitely possible to become overweight even if you're not a "big eater". Whew, rant over.


  2. I basically try to follow my diet instructions but I'm less perfect with it now than I was the first 8 weeks. Everyone's got their own style. Sweets make sick, so it's not to hard to avoid them.

    I am a lot better at being disciplined now with food. Partly due to reduced hunger and partly because I actually see results now. I think the sleeve has changes beyond restriction and ghrelin that they'll discover someday...


  3. The best advice I got about sad spells was just to lie down and let yourself feel it without distraction, and then you'd get bored in a few minutes and want to move on. It works a lot of times.

    I'm not a vet, but I joke about how I will feel a bit adrift at goal weight--it's like dieting was my life's work, and what will I do once it's been accomplished? (I'm sure I'll figure it out,lol, it's just weird to think that such a big, consuming thing will be checked off my list!)


  4. I am feeling so sad right now, and I know I should let it go but it's hard. I've lost almost 40 lb, and my husband has been nothing but supportive.

    He's been traveling a lot the past four months so he actually hasn't seen the changes a lot. Well today I came out of the closet with just my jeans and bra because I needed a shirt from the dryer. I caught him staring at my stomach with like confusion and disgust and he asked, "So, is that just...skin on your stomach...or what is making it all...wrinkled...will that go away?"

    Then he kind of caught himself and said, "wow you are losing weight, you must feel good," in that kind of fake good cheer way.

    I know he didn't mean to make me feel bad. We are close and he never made me feel bad about the pregnancy weight. It's just so unfair--we both gained weight with two hard babies and two management careers, but I am the only one left with a ruined, gross body.

    My scars are horrible, my hair is falling out, I have ugly stretch marks and wrinkly belly button from the babies. In some ways, I looked better fatter. I weigh 149 right now, and my goal is 125. I will need a Tummy Tuck and boob lift, but I am scared of more pain and more big ugly scars. I know this was for health and not just appearance, but I just feel hideous right now.

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