formyboyscabnmac
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formyboyscabnmac got a reaction from lenabeena in I am selfish...possibly for the first time in my life.
I feel the same way. In the past my doctors made me feel as though I needed to lose weight because society demands that. I definitely made my decision to have surgery because I want to be healthy and feel better. This decision is a personal one because we are the ones who will experience the whole thing. It's okay to be selfish for once and do this for you. Good for you!
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formyboyscabnmac got a reaction from lenabeena in I am selfish...possibly for the first time in my life.
I feel the same way. In the past my doctors made me feel as though I needed to lose weight because society demands that. I definitely made my decision to have surgery because I want to be healthy and feel better. This decision is a personal one because we are the ones who will experience the whole thing. It's okay to be selfish for once and do this for you. Good for you!
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formyboyscabnmac reacted to douchewafflebear in I am selfish...possibly for the first time in my life.
Humor me.
BE SELFISH.
do it for you
you and you alone.
doing all of this for someone else makes it about someone else.
ALL OF THIS IS FOR YOU.
nothing pisses me off more - since I was a very young kid - feeling like I “needed” to loose weight for someone else...for society - for a certain clothing - for a “look” - for prom, for graduation, for college, for that job, the engagement, the wedding dress, the pictures, the honeymoon, the pregnancy, the kids, because the TV says I should, because PEOPLE Magazine says I should, all the time for someone or something else - I am doing this for ME...NOT for my husband...NOT for my kids...I’m doing this for ME...and me alone...this is year of ME. Sure they get the byproduct of my ME-NESS...and they get to enjoy the new ME but not for one second am I doing all of this for anyone but ME.
xoxo.
LOVE ME.