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trevntaysmom

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  1. Posted

    Loved this topic, and got alot of good info. All ive wanted to do since surgery is have sex. So now im all heated :)

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    Now I know some people have experienced this before. I have been lucky thus far with the amount of support i have gotten. Yeah I had a few friends try to ask me if there were any other ways. Other then that my friends and my family' date=' most of it, are extremely happy for me.... and scared! Well from the get go my sister was not a fan. She didn't want me to do it and wouldn't talk to me for about two weeks after deciding to do it. Well I'm now 1 week post op and she still won't speak to me. I texted her to ask her to call me, to talk about Christmas, no answer. She then calls my mom and I yell to my mom to tell her i need to talk to her. Her response was ' I don't want to talk to her" Well then my mom got mad and I cried. I have not cried at all this whole experience until then! Long story short she continued to be mean and rude to my mom threw text messages. Her words where. " She just gave up, I have lost all respect for her" Does she not know this is not giving up. This is a tool to help me further my weight loss goals. Giving up, are you fucking kidding me. For the last week every second of every day I have to think about what I am putting in my mouth. How far I've walked, how much i pee and poop. This was not giving up. This was making an ENTIRE life change! It blows my mind that such a smart women can be so childish and mean. If it was a friend of a stranger i wouldn't care so much. She's not only my sister but my best friend. I'm sure others have similar stories and sorry but I just needed to rant! <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':)' /> Thank you all for all the support. This site has truly been a blessing!

    <3 Samantha [/quote']

    Well personally I think if she was your sister, and best friend and if she loved and cared about you, that she would support any decision in your life regardless of she thinks the decisions are rt. or wrong. You need all the positive enforcement you can get right now to stay on track. I would definitely try to sit her down and talk to her about it, and tell her that you love her and how important she is to you and that you would like for her to support your decisions..it might be hard for her to adjust at first, but if she cares he will be there for you. Hope it all works out for you. Just stay positive and keep your head up.

  7. Posted

    December Surgeries

    Clairelou lou- Dec 1st Coventry' date=' England

    jls2012- Dec 3rd Greenville, SC

    lindamarie- Dec 3rd Santa Rosa, CA

    NikiG- December 3rd Christiana Hospital Newark, DE

    simplysouthern26- Dec 3rd, Dr. William Johnson, Johns Creek, Georgia

    TeamMom- December 4th, Ohio

    charrison27- December 4th, Dr. Asad, Erie, PA

    msixkiller- Dec 4th Bailey Medical Center, OK

    mrsblues- December 4th Silver Cross Hospital (Joliet, IL)

    Wannabepintsized- Dec 4th San Antonio, TX

    lisamcgowin- Dec 4th, Dallas Tx with Dr. Castro

    jpr99- December 5th, Rochester General, Dr Anthony DiBenedett

    Kathmandu- Dec 5th Highland Park Hospital, IL

    mkruit- Dec 5th Akron, OH

    Jessica143- December 5th ..Wareham MA

    Vicki Loichinger- Dec 5th St Francis Hospital Indianapolis, IN

    rarah- Dec 8th Coventry uk

    Charde- December 10th Portsmouth Naval in Virginia

    Denyelle- Dec 10th Traverse City, MI

    cogburn- Dec 10th Allentown Pennsylvania dr Leonardo Claros

    hotgal77- December 10th St. Lukes Roosevelts..NYC..Dr. Ninan Koshy

    beans- Dec. 10th in Wareham, Mass

    kdl0452- Dec 10th Kissimmee, FL..brother's surgery same day

    redoableme- Dec 10th!! Vista East in Waukegan, I'll

    Linda9009- December 11th

    Jodimc- December 12th, Fayetteville AR, Dr. Roller

    charlismom229- Dec 12th. Dr. Small in Hagerstown, MD

    TDee- Dec 12th Edmonton, Alberta (CAN). Dr. Karmali

    2bhlthy- December 12th

    jamicrow- Dec 13th Madison, WI

    thisshizzibananas- Dec 13th, Dr. Anthony Petrick, Geisinger Medical Center, Danville, PA

    fireandice36- Dec 17th

    Irishone127- Dec 17th Dr S. Trang. Einstein Hospital, Elkins Park, PA

    jaymi - Dec17th

    Mi2- December 17th

    Nicole K- Dec 17th Boston, MA

    Blue Chevy- Dec 18th, Toronto Ontario Canada

    Joan VanDorn- Dec 18th Bailey medical center owasso Oklahoma

    Khuff- December 18th Grand Junction Colorado

    mommys2boys- Dec 19th

    tkd259- Dec. 20th Raleigh, NC. Dr. Tyner

    snow25- Dec 20th Greenville, NC

    Amanda M- Dec 21st

    LaShawn2m- Dec 27th[/quote']

    Trevntaysmom-Dec. 19th Dinwiddie,, Va.

  10. Posted

    I'm on the 19th. The only thing that really freaks me out is the possibility of going home with tubes and drains in me. Makes me quezy...

    I got rescheduled today to tomorrow. I felt the same way and so I asked the doctor about it. He said he no longer uses the drains because he had so many people with complications from them. He says he realized people didn't need them. So I'm excited about that. But good luck for you, I'm sure everything will be fine.. :)

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