My ex-lover has an issue with me getting sleeved in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A Posted August 10, 2016 1. Agree. Ex for a reason. 2. Thank goodness you are a woman fully grown who can make her own medical decisions. 3. Walk away and don't look back. 4. Why would you care about someone who treats you that way? 5. Congratulations for making a wise decision about your health and quality of life.