sheilarae

Thanks...yes some insurances really give you the business but I finally got over the hump. I'm really excited..more worried about failure..I'm reading stories about ppl not losing when they don't have 100 or more lbs to lose..

My ins wouldn't even discuss it. I charged $12,000 to my credit card and did it any way. I've gone down two dress sizes and lost 35pounds so far in 3 months. I don't care about the debt. It's not as important as good health.

Wonton Soup broth was divine right after surgery! And I'm now a "smeller." If I smell something I know won't agree with me (i.e. donuts' date=' pastries, breads), it satisfies my craving. Strange, but true![/quote']

I smell it and say, " Wow, that's a great candle!"

To late dawnie dawn...lol I hv not watched the cooking shows in months .since I sleeved that's all I look at. ..well that n animal planet. ..smfh

I keep watching CVC. Wishing I could by this and buy that that! I did buy a scarf as a reward. I'm looking forward to a year from now when I can actually buy some clothes. For now , I'm planning wardrobe!

Well school started this past week and as the week went on my back hurt and hurt. Wednesday morning I got out of bed and couldn't walk. I hobbled to the bathroom to take MEDS and put on an icy/hot patch. After an hour of hobbling and sitting. I got myself dressed and off to school. I even used my cane. The fibro was in full swing as was my arthritis. I've already decided that if it gets that painful this week I'm stopping at the Spine & Joint ER care. My pain level was a 10 for most of the day unless I was sitting. On a good note, I lost 4 ponds this week! I found jeans on sale for $7 so bought what I thought I wore and they were huge! I had a 3-day weekend and slept through most it but will begin again Tomorrow.

I am 6 weeks out. I have lost 25 pounds but only a couple in the last 3 weeks. I don't weigh daily but I wonder if my metabolism just won't lose. My age maybe? I'm 63. I can't exercise aerobically now because of severe back pain.

My clothes are looser too. Especially the pants. My abdomen still feels large. I am now 5'3" (lost 2 inches these last 3-4 years) and was 263 when I started the 2 week pre surgery diet.

I kind of thought the pounds would slip off. So I am a bit frustrated.

I posted that during the summer when I was off work. I started back with kids this past week and I feel terrible. I'm 62,by the way. I teach 4 year olds and all week I couldn't walk when I got out if bed! I hobbled around the house for over an hour befor MEDS and an icy/hot patch on my lowere back made it even possible to get dressed. I'm frustrated too. I thought I would lose bookoo pounds in the beginning so going to back to school would be less painful. I was wrong. I lost 20 on the predict and after, 1 pound a week

I think you made several great points here. Your insight of this WLS is so very helpful to me and I am sure others who are just getting ready to start this wonderful journey. Thank you for your posts.

Yes, I too, love hearing from Cheri!!

Being the slowest loser in town (lol) I am starting to feel grateful of the fact. As I've said before' date=' I'm still not at goal - but of so close to my surogeon's goal - and I really think that this has stopped me regaining anything other than holiday weight.

It has given me the, reluctant, opportunity to focus on my needs, the way my body responds to food and exercise and how my mind works ... I have had to do a lot of self reflection and self analysis to get to this point of acceptance.

Ok, I am not going to fart and lose 50lbs over night! That's cool with me now, 3 years later.

I never take me sleeve or my body for granted any more; it needs respect! I get that now, regardless of what the pesky scale says.

Does all this mean I don't want to lose more - hell NO! I'm desperate to get to at least 154 - I'd love to see 135 but now I realise that if this doesn't happen I'm no less worthy of being a good person! The scale used to dictate my mood, not any more... don't get me wrong, when I see a low number, especially a new low I am happy... but if I see a bounce it doesn't put me in a a bad mood or a dark place anymore.

I suppose what I am trying to say is that being a slow loser makes me/you/us appreciate each and every scale victory and non scale victory alike!

Remember, the scenic route is beautiful![/quote']

Good thoughts to remember. Thanks.

I have been on my liquid diet for about 2.5 weeks and I have ran of of creative ways to make somethng other that Protein powders and Soups. Does anyone have any suggestions for something savory????

I tried a sample packet of nectar Cappuccino flavored. Dont like iced coffees so didnt think id like it but it was a delightful change !

Congrats on goal! What an awesome achievement! I have started noting the weight I was from last day of the month from the previous year - lets see for last August I weighed 222 lbs. - and this year I weigh 50 lbs less. I will take it! I am going to continue to try and stop comparison with those fast losers and just be mindful of my own progress and success - and the fact that I am not piling it all back on - which is what has always happened in the past. Just going to be that better version of myself and keep slogging away at it <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt='' />

Ditto.

Oh, and each meal should be about 15 tiny bites..zi use a baby spoon.

I'm 9 weeks out. I basically eat Protein and a little veggies. But I'm finding it hard to give up my oatmeal. I cook two servings at a time so I can have a break in cooking...do the same with eggs and cream of wheat. What did your dr say about calorie limits? Mine said between 600-800. I've been sticking to that. Easy to do because I'm never hungry. Basically I eat by the clock because if I don't. I'd even eat less. Ive lost 1 pound a week since surgery, 20 the months before with the South Beach Phase one. I'm thinking I'm not eating enough calories. Ill bring it up to my dr in two weeks. But was curios about you all do.

I like Welches Lite peach juice and Oceanspray crab-lemonade. Sorry, I'm not a fan of apple juice.

ok...had to share with people who get it.....I managed two walks including a trip to the grocery' date=' I managed half a Protein Shake and half a gatorade so far today after sleeping till 11am. I managed to POOP!!! only three days post op!!! and I showered and have a clean dressing and clean jammies......pretty proud of me today <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/wink.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt='' />[/quote']

Wow! I'm glad it's going we'll!

I'm back!! surgery went really well' date=' I'm home and doing really good. Slept for about 13 hours last night, but am so glad to be with my family.

First day out of surgery was tough, but I think it was mostly the morphine...once I stopped that silly stuff I have felt so much better.....sipping away on my fluids and working toward my first walk of the day.....

So happy to be on this side of the table!!!!![/quote']

Yeh you!

The thing is' date=' I'm not in any pain. I really wish I didn't have to go back on them. But with those blood results, I'm sure they will put me back on everything all over again. That's the depressing part. I think I am supposed to start them either this week or the next.[/quote']

I guess if the MEDS help slow down the progression it's worth it. I hope you don't have many yucky side affects. I just started taking anxiety MEDS. Don't like the side affects. Plus I'm suppose to take it with food which means I eat something right before I get in bed.

For my first blood tests back today post 3 weeks from surgery. Good news: my thyroid dosage needs to be reduced' date=' yay! Bad news? My CRP and Rheumatoid Factor are still way high, which means I need to get back on the RA drugs as soon as I can <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/sad.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt='' />[/quote']

When can you go back on the MEDS? Hope it's soon!

I am a lover of Accupuncture for pain control. It has made such a difference in my life. It was my go to before the surgery to help me with the auto-immune conditions. I have not needed it since surgery so I am Blessed! But if I need it that will be where I am headed before the serious meds. Hope it helps!

Blessings ~ Melody (BlessedFun2)

I've never tried that. Sounds hokey but I may have to try it. I wonder if my ins will pay. How do I find one that's not a crazy?

Hey! Pray surgery goes well! Soy sauce' date=' Lactose intolerance, egg sensitive, no oats, bran, barley, rye etc. let me know how you are. Blessings![/quote']

How are after surgery?

Kids start school Monday so ill know more then. Ill have 20 four year olds!! We've been in meetings this week and I've been having panic attacks. Tired of dealing with them on my own so my dr put me on an anxiety medicine. I start it tonight. Sure hope it helps. I have 3 more years before I can retire.

Lol!! It's mAssage done by people who are aware of the special circumstances with physical problems.

I've been using heat right now for the RA. I just don't know what to do for the lupus' date=' nothing helps. It's just miserable!!![/quote']

I'm sorry. Try deep breathing Have you tried medical message ? I was thinking of trying that.

Oh man' date=' I have been doing so good these past few weeks. Yesterday I had a horrible lupus flare and then it happened again today. My RA is also acting up. I wish so bad I could take a methotrexate shot, but I can't.[/quote']

I know what you mean. When my fibro flares up its all i can do to get out of bed in the morning. Are there alternative things to do? Relaxation, ice, heat, stretching...anything that helps with the pain? Any other MEDS for a temporary fix? Hopefully you will be able to relax some. Of course there's always exercise

(Yea, right!). I've found that as I lose weight, the pain is not as bad. Hopefully that will be the case with you.

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so you are getting to be a pro!!! How are you feeling almost two months out?

I'm feeling pretty good. Got rid of 2 MEDS, have more energy, rarely feel hungry. I start teaching 4 year olds in a week. So the jury is still out regarding how I feel on the job. I'm going to miss my naps!!

I have a new bra size...36 long