DeezJeanz

UK what wud b cute, if u must explain it, ? Make u up some business cards which explains what'd u tell them!! Hand them one and keep it movin' , just a thot:). Gl, Dee Dee

This is truly my last reply...but have u all noticed how all of us are fussing bck nd forth about what blindsided wrote nd then rewrote? Have yall noticed how on a Saturday like today, we r still fussing about a maybe truth or not AND YET, blindsided is nowhere to b bothered? Imho, I feel that unless you are physically or legally involved( keep it private), we shud all move on, ik I am! Truth or not, we can't do anything about it, this is her fight that she brought public, we bit, nd now she's gone. Again, I'm done reading it and posting. God saw the truth and He will decide vengeance on the parties involved, regardless. Gl nd thx to all for sharing ur wls stories, I can't wait to share mine!! Happy Saturday all, Dee Dee

Oh my Lord, you look fab!! Did u have any plastics for skin bc it all looks gr8! I love the tats, did u get them done over the surgical marks, too cute:). Yes, what are and was ur stats plz? Thx, Dee Dee

Haha, cute pic

I'm n Chesapeake, still jumpn threw the hoops!! Gratz nd gla:))

Awesome job:))

Lookn good, Wtg!!

Again, don't punish urself for her decision! You seem to have always considered her wishes nd supported her, nd now that u need her support, she flakes. That is not fair, but unfortunately, everyones hearts are not the same. One thing else I'll say, Ty 4 sharing nd I hope that we will and have given u some support. Stay strong, and keep puttn ur needs first for a change, you deserve it! Dee. P.s., do u still see the wls therapist? He/she may be good to talk too, esp since ur feeling guilt about it. Just a thot:))

Hello there and I am sorry to hear about your situation although it is a sad one, ik that you will make it through this! I don't want to make you tell all of your business but it makes me wonder that with a 10 year relationship why you guys never committed to marriage. And if you are honest with yourself take a step back and go over the years and see why you guys never made a permanent commitment,whether it was you or her. Because although she's making it seem like it was because you changed and she can't handle it, after being with someone ten years you would think that she could have talked to you before cheating on you!! Basically what I'm trying to say is that, don't let her turn your success story into a regret story because of her wrong choices! I pray that God helps u get threw this, take one day at a time, just like with the surgery. You are a healthier u. Nd if som1 blames you getting healthy for them not lovn u anymore, and cheatn on u, then you will be BETTER OFF WO THEM!! Good luck, n God Bless you and know that you ARE A DIFFERENT PERSON, ONE THAT U SHUD BE PROUD OF... As WE R OF U:). Dee Dee

Lolol

At my seminar, the surgeon, psych, nd nut all spoke and then asked if we had questions. I brot 29 questions and added more as I listened, they lol'd at me but I was prepared, nd everyone benefited from my questions:) so yeah, bring them:)) gl

I'm smiling BIG for u, I'm excited for nd with you! I'm still hoop jumpn, so one-day I'll share the losers bench with you, hope to c u then doing gr8 and wurkn it, lol;)

Many prayers for you nd ur success, a prayer for your wl nd surgical team and many prayers for ur recovery...keep us posted:)) Dee Dee

Congrats!! ), Dee Dee

Gob Bless you and may His will be done for you. I'm glad too that ur doc is going the extra mile nd that ur putting ur life first. If they can't do it, then I pray that ur doc can help u another way, but as stated and prayed for, may His will be done honey. Hang in there! Xxxx, Dee Dee

You look amazing, tho I'm sure u hear it a lot:)) congrats nd thx for pic, I'm 5'3 so it gives me an idea of how that weight might look on me, again thx nd congrats!! I'm still preop hoop hopping:/

Aweeeesooommmee! Grats:)

Yes, my preop surgeons visit, I asked that question of weight gain w the sleeve bc I'd seen a lady who had gbs n gained it all bck n then some...he said yes, w any1 of the surgeries mentioned, u can gain it all nd more bck IF U CHOOSE to make the SAME BAD CHOICES AS PREOP, the surgeries are all tools, aides, to help us succeed, NOT MAKE US SUCCEED, it is still going to b up to the patient to make the tool work w u, not for you:) hope that helps nd makes sense to u. If u think its going to stop you from making bad choices, u shud rethink ur decision, the only thing that can do that is wiring ur mouth shut, then ud prolly die:/ start learning all u need to know about how to use the new tool, sleeve, prior to getting it. I mean, u can't know how to build a house just bc som1 handed u a hammer, it won't build itself, right? And u can't build a better more healthier you wo knowing how to work w ur sleeve. So gl to us all:))