Mytime45

ok ladies I need some advice on this topic... Here the deal am 47 year old been married to the same man for 28 years.. I love my husband very much he is a good man, he love me too but were is the passion in our marriage. I remember feeling hot passion only a few year ago now it like when he kiss me I don' feel that anymore.. Do any body now how to get it back. or maybe am going through manpause....?

Can u do peanutbutter on pureed diet?if so with what would u eat with?

Thank, all those idea sound great...???????????? So good to knw!

Can someone tell me again why we can't use straws? Have anyone started back use them and how long the u wait?

Can someone tell me again why we can't use straws? Have anyone started back use them and how long the u wait?

I ate soft scramble egg, and i felt every bite as it went through my stomach is this normal? ?? Will it get better. Yeasterday, i had refried bean it ok.

I am 14 days post -op and I and take liquid and creamy Soup well so I thought I try soft boiled egg, I chew very well. also cut in small pieces every time I swallow it sort painful as it pass through and little cramp for few second. I told my doctor a week ago test me for leaks and said I was just tight give me prescription and told to stay on clear liquid for 3 more day. I wondering if this happen to anyone else should keep take it slow or tell the dr again.. oh my stomach make all kind of sound it kinda funny....

Wow thanks, i will give up the eggs for while.

I been very emotional too. want to cry at different things. well stated to get out the house and driving, walking now so it better now. I guess anyway should be back to work next week... so far so good I guess weight loss moving slow only lost a 4 pound since been home 14 days post op.. don't know what the stall is about, try not to worry i read it normal to stall to let your body caught up while it healing. people tell me they can see in my face and low body my stomach is still large not happy about that. well maybe my walking will start to change things .....

Can't believe that.I would talk the cheif of staff of that hospital. I would even call fox 4 news that horrible the way they treated you..and your mom..some body need to be held responable that... sorry that happens to you..some one had recommended that set surgeon to me..i started to change so glad i didn't. ...

Jesseybear,please be careful .i was told not to lift over 7 pound which is a gallon of milk..don't put strain on your sleeve..cause you can cause yr self a leak moving to fast...if you haven't. Read the complications of a leak it is horrible. ..i knw u young and feel great..but knw you just had major surgery.Good luck on your sleeve......enjoy your new life.

So good to hear thing are going so well for you, take it one day at time and everything will be alright.....Good luck to you...

Wow!!!!!you may need to slow down...dont forget you just had major surgery. ..glad. you doing welll.

I am 5 post op was having the same issue, i had sever back pain and groaning in my stomach think it was gas too. But it was spasm in my new sleeve had to get a prescription to get my stomach to stop spam out. I dont take chances i call my dr and am glad i did..cause gasxstrip and walk wasn't. help me. We are all different. ..this was major surgery we had....dont let thing go on call yr dr....goodnite God blesss everyone..

I am 5 post op was having the same issue, i had sever back pain and groaning in my stomach think it was gas too. But it was spasm in my new sleeve had to get a prescription to get my stomach to stop spam out. I dont take chances i call my dr and am glad i did..cause gasxstrip and walk wasn't. help me. We are all different. ..this was major surgery we had....dont let thing go on call yr dr....goodnite God blesss everyone..

Just relax you will be fine..u dont need to go in to surgery with all that stress in stomach...do what ever it take but get your self in a state of calm.mediate, pray do what you need to do but be relax wn you get to hospitals. .good luck am 6 days post op am going fine...

Hey guys it mytime45 here, I am 4 days post op and I am doing fine. I did't have a lot of pain when I came home. until my incision blocker wore off. but the pain meds help so much no nausea vomiting thank God my stomach was so sore just trying to cough or laugh at my crazy family...anyway feel so bad for all of you that have to deal with that.. I am very sore as I had hernia repair also I am taking everything slow my hubby went back to work today, and I felt like crying this is the first day alone since the surgery, everyone back to work today.. and am feel what have I done cause I swore I am hungry not just head hungry my stomach is growing so hard at every thing I drink am still on clear liquid I hating chicken broth and ispure. but I thank God thing are as well as they are now, these food commercial on T V is driving me crazy. I even been dreaming about eat food so weird anyway I have lost 26 pound since I started this journey.

I am doing ok I was sleeved on 9th come home on the 10th very little pain until my pain blocker wore off than that another story but got my pain med to help me out. Staring to feel the pain at the incision site. they gave me abnormal wrap to wear it help a lot so my stomach don't feel like the bottom about to fall out.. and way this a very serious surgery and I hope everyone has some one to help the to recovery be cause you will need the help.. please don't try to do this alone.... but I have been blessed on nausea or votiming. it hurt like hell to cough, or laugh though am so burnt out on broth cant stand to smell it ...Everything went well no complication thank God all is well with me and I praying of you. I feel some type of rumbling in my stomach ever time I drink eat something. I feel like gas though.. I haven been able to sleep in my bed since I got home. Lucky I brought a recliner couple months a go it has help me so much... . just ready to get a Protein shake I hate this i0spure crap.. Good luck and speedy recovery everyone ..walk walk walk everyday it get better take it slow...

I think you should go to ER TOO.. because you don't wasn't get a leak they are horrible from what I read on this site.. please take care of your self....your family need you to be healthy...good luck ok

Thanks you guys for all your well wishes....

Well, my big day is almost her wed april 9th it came so fast. I love this site and I was feeling so positive about my wls until I read the post about leaks and complication .. I didn't know it was so bad I wasn't nervous about this at first...but I have faith that I was be alright.. so sorry to hear about the thing that some of you guys have been through...But on a positive note I am ok..... I would love to have an april 8,9,10 buddie to talk to after surgery. started clear liquid today sooo hungry but it almost over one more day.. surgery is at 10am ..please pray for me as I will be praying for all of you. thanks so much guys......I cant tell my family how I feel cause they well wont me to back out.. and I don't wanna do that I wanna see were this ride take me....weeee.........my time 45

hey yolicous1 I feel you girl, I would say make sure you drinking a lot. and taking b12 it help me a lot...and my vitamins. 2 day left for me before surgery and that it start over again...

My date is wed the 9th, am calm for some reason, am ready the preopt diet has taught me that i can do anything if i can do that for 14 days. I am pump though.am just little worried if i will be able to workout cause i have a herniated disc in my back. But am walk my ass off. Good. Luck and God bless all the april sleever....

hi I am April 9th sleever also, it is very exciting, getting ready for this life change everyone talking about...the pre-op was little hard the first couple of day. U just have to find what works for you and I was ok. am ready, ready ,ready, I am all smiles about april9th good luck to all the April sleever .

congrats you on yr way..keep the good work