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MsVictorious1020

Gastric Sleeve Patients
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Everything posted by MsVictorious1020

  1. You look beautiful! Congrats.
  2. I've always had an extremely high drive. With exceptions of brief periods of depression I've always been ready and open sexually. BUT since being sleeved, I have been a total nympho and there is no shortage of hot young studs to oblige. Which was a huge ego boost after being married to a lying, cheating addict that showed no interest in me. I did notice I had to get a grip and slow down a bit because all the attention was becoming an addictive rush. But I guess I'm making up for lost times. Lol
  3. Yeah I have no idea how that got attached. It's not even a pic in my phone. Lol. Thanks for your compliments. I'm trying to get right.
  4. Miss Mac, getting it back?! I never fully had it to begin with. Lmfao. But yes I do feel rather GROOVY if you know what I mean.
  5. RIGHT ON! Congrats to you! It's amazing. I just can't get used to this newfound attention. I've always been the witty fun chick. Not the HOTTIE of the group.
  6. Wow! So weird. I'm not sure how or why that picture is attached to my thread. I didn't attach it nor do I know who's picture it is. Congrats to whoever the beauty is though. Excellent progress!
  7. I got the sleeve to gain control of my health and fitness. I no longer wanted to be prisoner to my weight struggles and low body image. I have a long line of horrible family medical history and my quality of life was declining in addition to my immune system and overall health. I was fatigued and exhausted all the time. I felt 50 years old. I was developing high blood pressure. I felt disgusted with my appearance. I was tired of dieting and failing. It was the best decision I've ever made in life. I have more energy for my son. I feel 15 years younger. I am feeling more confident about the woman I see in the mirror. My health has improved and depression declined.
  8. NSV: I've recently started dating again and It's been an entirely different experience for me. I've always dated men who were older than me by a minimum of 5 years and biggest gap 13 years. Nowadays I get approached by soooo many younger guys and I'm not talking 2 years younger. I'm talking WAY younger! It's like the older ones are scared to approach me or something. I went to a bar in Denton, Texas (college town) and these adorable college kids were hitting on me and thought I was 21!!! When I told them I was a 33 year old divorcee and MOTHER of an 8 year old boy their jaws dropped right before they exclaimed almost in unison, "HOT MILF!" I know it's silly but that was the most exhilarating experience in life! I felt so alive, young and vibrant. I mean ME? HOT? 21? I just can't wrap my head around it.
  9. Thank you darling! I feel like I shaved 15 years of my life!!!!
  10. I'm literally in tears! Thank you so much! I needed to hear that. You are sooooooo right emotional abuse is toxic and sooooo damaging. I am trying to take the reigns back and fight for my health and love of self. My son needs me too much. He's seen too pain and too many tears in such a short life. I'm healing myself. I'm building myself up. It's so hard when I have to fight my own evil thoughts about myself and then fight the words echoing in my head that so called men who "Loved" me have said. Nobody deserves that.
  11. It's unbelievable. Congrats to you!
  12. I've never been this small. I never thought it was possible. By the time I reach goal I'll be in a 4!!!!
  13. My boobs and ass droop more but no really loose skin. I guess I'm blessed with good genes and I was a slow loser.
  14. By the way congrats on your huge success! You look amazing as well! So happy for you! Thanks for posting.
  15. Thank you all! I'm so pumped! I don't recognize myself anymore. I'll catch my reflection in the mirror or a building window and I have to do a Double take. I had my surgery in April. I've lost. 77.5 pounds total. I'm officially at my lowest weight as of this morning!!!! I'm soooo pumped! I tried on my string bikini that I've never been able to wear and it actually fits! I'm 14.5 pounds from goal and beyond thrilled at what's to come.
  16. Thank you so much! You have no idea how much those words mean to me. I've been going through literal fiery pits of hell! I want to focus on me and my son healing.
  17. Thank you all so much I always tried to take care of myself regardless of size but I've never truly felt beautiful. I still struggle with body image issues. Plus I've always gravitated towards abusive men who put me down so that makes it worse. I'm trying to break the cycle and be healthier and love myself. I'm going back to therapy and psychiatrist. I appreciate your compliments.
  18. I started at 16/18. I'm short though. So I was a big girl.
  19. I can officially and comfortably fit a size 6. I know own 4 articles of clothing in that size. Hahaha it just amazes me. I just got this skirt from express on clearance. I'm so ready to rock it!

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