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ThikNjuCee

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  2. Posted

    I will talk to you now as if you were my daughter:

    You are wonderful and a treasure. It is a priviledge just to be around you. If the man doesn't treat you with respect and kindness he disqualifies himself' date=' he is unworthy. Deal with him as you have to for the sake of your child but give him no access to your emotional well being. Love yourself, darling, be good to yourself and expect others to do the same, you deserve it.[/quote']

    Thank you so much!

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    And we all could probably relate. Those harsh word were meant to keep you dependent on him. Hoping to pull you Trigger Button? It didn't happen! Yay!

    But I'd get my own food. Take that mini break for you. You deserve it!

    And or bring a snack bag of that Water and items you like.

    You getting Diva Ready!

    After all' date=' You would nt have him pick out that Diva Outfit that you planning to get would you?

    [/quote']

    Sure wouldnt! And I wont be going out with HIM either!

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    You are giving him too much power' date=' when you allow someone that you are no longer in a relationship get you riled up like this you are doing yourself a disservice. Now you know you can't ask him to bring you anything. Since you have a child together and you undoubtbly will be seeing him when he drops your son off, be proactive-make sure you have everything you need in your home for your Pre and post surgery. Most importantly focus on yourself and ignore his nonsense. Good luck.[/quote']

    I see him every day unfortunately....we work together.....and YES I have given him too much power over my emotions. I was only asking him to go to the store when it was too busy for me to leave my area.....we work in a clinic....I was easier for him to go out because of his position.....but from now on, if I don't have it I don't need it until I can get it myself. Thanks for the well wishes ????

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    Well he def needs to get over it because we have been over for years.......as far as him being worried about me getting "checked out" lol he always had that problem because even as a big girl ive gotten "checked out" by male and female alike. I understand what you guys are saying tho. It just hurts to find out that the support you thought you had was never really there......just means I'm stronger than I thought, cuz if I can have a bottle of Pepsi in front of me and just hand it back without even a sip I CAN DO ANYTHING!!!! Lol ????❤????

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    My old PCP was the same way.....he tried in all ways possible to deter me from the WLS. Then one day he flat out said don't ask because I will NEVER give you clearance for it. It was personal reasons that he doesn't refer ANY of his patients for the WLS. I changed my PCP and at my follow up visit from my annual physical my new PCP asked me if I had ever considered having WLS. I almost cried when he brought it up because I had been afraid of his reaction if I brought it up first. I am beyond grateful for my new PCP he has def been a life changer for me!

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    Soooo I knew up front that I would have some nay Sayers when it came to my surgery. I expect the "easy way out" comments. But what I didn't expect was the hostility that I get from my son's father. Granted, we are no longer a couple....but we work in the same facility and see each other EVERY DAY. We have recently ( within the last two years) learned to be friends after being apart for 6yrs. We have spoken about me having the surgery and he said he would support me in any way I needed. He said he was " all for you being healthy for our son" . Now I've noticed that if I ask him to pick me up a bottle of Water from the store.....he brings back Pepsi (I've had no soda since Sept). If i asked for a piece of fruit or yogurt.....he brings me a pack of Ring Dings. At first I thought he was just being absent minded, but Friday we had this big blow out argument over something that had NOTHING to do with me or anything important....by the end of the argument he showed me exactly how he feels by calling me everything but the child of God....first choice being "fat b#%^h" come to find out (from someone else) he doesn't even want me to have the surgery because he is only attracted to BIG GIRLS! I honestly don't care what he is attracted to because unless he'll freezes over we will NEVER be a couple again. But if I am doing this for health reasons, how could someone be so selfish and try to sabotage what I'm doing because of what they like? Arrrrrgh???? I just had to vent...........

    Ms skinniness and ProudGrammy reacted to this

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    You had to do six month with a nutritionist?? Who are you insured through? Congrats on being so close!!!

    there are three people on my job getting WLS and all of us had dif NUT requirements from our insurances.....MetroPlus Gold ony required 3 mos. from me......while GHI wants 6 mos...

  22. Posted

    Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear that. Was the anesthesiologist not watching or what happened? I'm sorry that happened to you.

    Well according to my mom our fam has a history of throwing up from mild anestesia........fine time for her to tell me this!...she said more than likely thts what woke me up....i remained calm and they finished....it was just very uncomfortable

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