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Hi Mandy!! I'm a Decmbe 17th sleever!! Woo hoo! I wish you the best of luck!

Jessielynn- yes, I have experienced the same circstances. I am now almost 3 mos post-op. My husband & i have been together for 13 years now. Right after surgery I was a bit of a b@$#h because he would eat whatever he would want in front of me & I was still adjusting to my sleeve & felt he wasn't being supportive. He would say things like...when you get skinny, you'll leave me & get a boyfriend. We finally had to have a sit down, heart to heart talk. I explained that I didn't have the surgery so I could get skinny & leave him but that I had the surgery so I could live a happier, healthier life to give us more time together. Well, since our talk, he has become more supportive & now that I've lost 41 pounds, he is always complementing me on how great I look & how skinny I'm getting. He's even been on board with the healthier eating.... My suggestion, have a heart to heart talk with him. Ask him to express his concerns & be open with your feelings also. Best of luck to you & I hope everything works itself out

Mine says it every time. He is constantly smothering me, saying he sees the way men look at me and he's afraid I'm going to leave him. It's definetly him being insecure but I told him if he can love me at my worst, then he deserves me at my best. He tends to get a little snippy when we aren't intimate for a day or two, I think it's him being insecure. Maybe just talk to him and ask him why he's acting like that? He probably is scared you are going to leave him. Best wishes.
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i'ts so exciting to see how many is having there surgery in Dec! I dont know how many people has made comments though aww you wont be able to enjoy christmas dinner no but it doesnt bother me because its the best christmas present i could get this is coming from people that hasnt walked in my shoes having weight issues ! congrats with everyone

Im looking for dec sleevers im getting sleeved dec 17th would to hear from ya'll

Excited, anxious and a little apprehensive but i know this is the beat path for me! Best wishes to all fellow sleevers...what a nice christmas present for me! Thank you bc/bs and Dr. BenMeier