TwinsMama

Same here...exact same situation except mine won't stay down long enough to get in a car. Comes right back up. I would suggest you try a few bars. Some can be high in carbs so really watch those. I've had luck with Atkins (Meal Replacement not the other ones) and CLIFF. Luna for a special treat (but they are women's bars so prob not your speed).

I'm going to have to stop reading your posts in public...now I'm the weird lady laughing out loud...literally!

Congrats!!

Your tummy is still healing. Please don't have any more. I know it feels good to eat them, but that guy didn't realize it could kill him. The last thing you want is to get sick or worse from a few bites. Don't beat yourself up. Just keep on trucking and you'll do fine.

Yes, that's my new full. Pressure in the chest that feels like something heavy is sitting on me.

Nope, everything I've read/been told was to avoid Pasta, rice, etc. for at least 6 or so months...better to avoid for life. As a side note, my nurse in the hospital told me about a guy who died after surgery. He had it done with another Dr (he was about 6 weeks out) and was told not to eat any pastas, rice, etc. Well he couldn't resist and had some. Messed up his stomach bad and they couldn't get it closed up in time. He died on the ER table. She was literally in tears telling me about how it hit her hard.

I did for weeks actually. I would say as long as you're walking, there really isn't much else you can do.

If you're just looking for a program, I think anything with some sort of weights, band, etc. will do. Everyone here does different things to tone. Try to figure out something you enjoy. Maybe try a few different things. Once you find what you like, then you can come up with a regular schedule. The key is to be sure you like it enough to continue once you've been sleeved.

I was 3 weeks out and thought I was going to die...even with hubby being gentle.

Congrats, keep up the great work!!

Great work, congrats!!

Depends on your program, insurance benefits, etc. If there is an advocate program with your insurance, you'll need to call member services and ask them for the information. You can also check online.

So crazy, mine was 6 months too but still it had the 1 extra month. You're right, each Dr is different.

For me it was 30 day rotations. So the second one jun-jul, jul-aug, andaug-sep. Each program is different so you may want to go and call your Dr.

You may have to have proof you've been at the higher BMI for a period of time. People gain all the time to get surgery and insurance companies are on to that now.

My Dr told me to wait at least 2 years post-op to do any other procedures. She mentioned I may want to consider a reduction once I lose the weight. I've always been even (hips and chest) but she said after having kids and breastfeeding, I may find that my loss up top is not as proportioned with the bottom half.

I didn't know that. I've used smooth move (years ago) during a detox. Wow, thanks for the info. Edited to say: didn't know senna could do so much damage. Did know there was senna in there.

I read about this. I just had to do a peace offering to my hubby because I've been a bit "extra" post-op. How long did your mood swings last? I'm thinking of trying to figure out some stress-free activities to do to calm myself down. This is the pits.

Also could be gas. I had the worst gas pain in my back, shoulders, and chest. Keep walking and sipping.

Congrats, you look great!!

Stole the words right out of my mouth...and to think I really believed this peasant life was beneath me!

Ohhh so smart...I'm so doing this.

So very true. I had to get used to that. I was embarassed when I was in a meeting and there was a pause and my tummy made noises. I sooo wanted to fall through the floor. Good thing the guy next to me said he was so hungry...everyone assumed it was him. I think he was just being kind (new guy on the team). Bless his heart!

My doctor said that while Protein is important, if you have problems getting fluids in, focus on liquids first. Then if you have any room/energy left, try and do a few shakes. I would say, if you can get your liquids built up over time, then you can worry about your protein. You're pretty far out so my advice may only work for newly pre-ops, so call your Dr. S/he may be able to give you a few tips. Even though complications are rare, most Docs know how to help you with them.

Awww, hang in there. Give it time. I know it feels like everything is going wrong, but believe me, you'll look back on this and realize this was just one more of those "things" to get past. Best wishes to you!