I planned to keep mine a secret but my boy/bestfriend told his family and I'm not sure how many other folks!!! Ugghh!! His mom always cooks for me and he had her cook me a special dinner before surgery! She's a great cook. But after I always eat so little she must have thought I don't like her cooking anymore. Bad thing is they speak Creole so he told her one day, he says at dinner one night, babe how much weight have you lost since surgery???!!! Whattt!!!!! I could have killed him, but like a good sport I said oh about 25....then began a million questions but they were cool, they just said don't get too skinny!