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My VSG experience at one year post op:
I was sleeved on August 21, 2012 in Lancaster, PA by Joseph R McPhee IV, MD. My highest weight was 249 lbs, and I am 5’5”. At the time of my surgery I was 48 yrs old.
The full liquid pre surgery diet that my surgeon requires for 1 week helped to prepare me for my post op 2 week full liquid diet. After that, then I had a 2 week puree/soft food diet. At 4 weeks post op I was allowed regular foods as tolerated. Each surgeon is different, so follow their designated plan for you.
YES, you will most likely be sore after surgery, it’s normal, it was major surgery after all. Yes, you will most likely have reflux and pain in your shoulder from gas. Yes, the first 4 weeks after surgery basically sucks. BUT, it’s ONLY a very small portion of time in our very long lives, look at it that way. Before you know it, you’ll be recovered, barring any major complications. Follow all instructions from your surgeon, to prevent leaks and any major issues that might arise if you choose to do what you want to do.
Remember, you did NOT gain all this weight in a year, and most likely will NOT have it all off in a year unless you have less than 100 lbs to lose. So many people that I see here get so discouraged and say “I ONLY lost 10 lbs this month, is this normal?” Or, “I am in a stall, now what?” Our bodies need to recover and need to catch up and when else have you lost 10 lbs in a month, and not gained it right back? Calm down, quit whining and just keep doing what is right and it will all be ok. MOST of us have gone thru MORE than ONE stall and they last weeks upon weeks, so again, stop whining.
When I see posts that say “50 lbs GONE FOREVER” and the like, it makes me cringe!! This surgery is NOT a be all/end all to our weight issues. It’s a forever change in attitude and diet and exercise. It’s for life. If you think once you lose any weight you are NEVER gonna gain it back, you better get more help because IF you do gain it back, then what? As my surgeon says “one in five of his patients gains weight back”. Make sure you aren’t that ONE patient.
Many do not work out/exercise at all. I find that for me, although trust me the gym is NOT one of my favorite places to be, it helps me mentally to wrap my head around the whole ‘change’ in lifestyle. The gym or exercising helps with energy and helps with burning calories and helps with strengthening and helps with toning as you lose the weight. I’m not saying it will get rid of all loose skin but it definitely helps with overall health and muscle mass. I am at the gym 5 days a week with 50 min of cardio/the arc trainer and 3 days a week I add in 15-20 min of strength training. I burn like 600-630 calories doing the cardio, each time, which is awesome.
I found that after the 6 month mark, maybe because I didn’t have hundreds of pounds to lose, that the weight loss slowed down A LOT even with being at the gym 5 days a week. It did not discourage me though from continuing on with the gym and how I was eating. One month I lost 1 pound and a few months 3 and 4 pounds, and at month 10-11 I lost ZERO pounds. There is no rhyme or reason to it and I still kept losing inches. My suggestion is to do what I do and that is this……track with myfitnesspal or a similar app, everything that goes into my mouth I track. And, I take my measurements every 2 weeks faithfully. I also weigh myself daily ONLY ONCE though. Do what works for you, once a day, once a week, once a month. I don’t think it’s good to do it though more than once a day. Even with losing slower after the 6 month post op mark, I also know that I did not gain, so there’s the positive.
I would suggest if your surgeon has a support group to attend them. My surgeons’ practice has a support group every month and I go faithfully. It’s a wealth of knowledge and there are so many who can share with you what they have learned and you can also pay it forward to those who are starting their journey.
The sleeve WILL prevent you from putting too much into it at any given time, you will pay that price, although I never threw up, I knew when to stop. If you push beyond that point, get some help from your surgeon or nutritionist or psychologist since you obviously are over eating even with this. The sleeve WILL NOT prevent you from putting whatever you want into it. Sure, you can eat ice cream all day long and other NOT good slider foods. So, if you want to trick it and do that, then why bother having major surgery. Again, get help with your relationship with food first. You can and will gain weight again IF you do not realize that this is NOT a miracle cure for your eating issues.
At the beginning of my journey, I bought what I thought was a ‘goal outfit’, and it was a size 8 skinny jean and a small dressier blouse/shirt. Not realizing that sizing over the years has gotten bigger. Back in 2005 when I weighed 142 lbs I was a size 8 jeans. I fit into my ‘goal’ jeans at 165 lbs so, yes sizes are bigger these days, not sure why?? I am currently at 160 lbs at ONE year out, having started at 249 lbs. I thought at a year out I’d be at 149 lbs with a bit more to lose, BUT I am happy to have lost almost 90 lbs since starting this journey. Like I said before, we did not gain it in a year, so please have realistic expectations, and do not compare yourself to someone else who is your height and starting weight. For me, I know that I am hypothyroid and it makes it harder for me to lose weight even if it’s being regulated by medication. I think a goal outfit helped me to visualize where I wanted to be and kept me continuing at the gym and eating properly. It might help you as well!
I just had my 1 yr follow up appt today (8-21-13) with my surgeon. He said to follow the rules of 80 grams Protein and 90 grams of carbs per day, and 1500 calories per day as well. I’m not even at those calories per day now. I get between 800-1200 calories per day total due to burning 600 calories 5 days per week. I know I want to lose another 15-25 lbs although he thinks I’ll be good with 5-10 lbs more. As I said above, I weigh 160 lbs now and want to weigh between 135-145 lbs. He also said that throughout maintenance to expect to fluctuate 10 lbs, but to watch if it goes above that 10 lbs. He said to revisit what I’m eating and see what the reason is that it goes above that. He also said that the expectation with the sleeve is that we lose 70 percent of our excess weight, I have reached 76 percent, so I’ve gone beyond the expectation. I hope I continue on to have it go to 100 percent of the excess weight!!
I hope this post helps some of you with your journey, and I pray that each of you is successful in your journey to get to where you want to be so that you can enjoy all the things that you want to do.
Karen
This pic was taken before surgery 249 lbs
This pic was taken today 8-21-13 160 lbs (almost 90 lbs lighter)
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Awesome progress, you look amazing!! How in the heck does your cell phone case match your shirt? Or is it an optical illusion LOL. Thanx for sharing such great success.
Karen
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Caffeine is typically allowed after one month, check with your surgeon. Caffeine is a diuretic, stimulates gut motility and increases appetite, it also isn't good for the healing process.
Karen
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Awesome progress!! You look beautiful!! Congrats and thanx for sharing!!
Karen
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For me, I found that after my 7 day required full liquid diet pre surgery that I was actually grateful for doing it because it prepared me for what I was in store for the 2 weeks following surgery, FULL liquids. It wasn't a hard transition then to do that for 2 weeks after and then the 2 weeks of puree/soft foods. Again all surgeons are different with pre and post op diets. Best of luck to you!
Karen
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You look fantastic!! Awesome job!! Thanx for sharing!!
Karen
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Congrats on your awesome success!! WOW 121 lbs in a year is amazing. I am all but 11 months post op and have lost 87 lbs total, lost zero pounds this past month so I don't even know if I'll get to the 90 lbs lost mark by 1 yr out end of August. We all lose at different paces, so I am still happy. Thanx for sharing and much continued success with maintenance, you look fabulous!!
Karen
Changing B4YourEyes reacted to this -
I'm 5'5" and heighest weight was 249 lbs. I am almost 11 months post op, and I didn't lose anything since last month and since the latest pic was taken, which is what I weigh now, around 162 lbs.
First pic is pre op July 2012, then Oct 2012, Dec 2012, Feb 2013, April 2013 and June 2013, so every other month basically since surgery on 8-21-12.
Karen
TES reacted to this -
You look fantastic!! Congrats on your success and thanx for sharing!!
Karen
IweightNoMore reacted to this -
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I'm not sure, I didn't get a card. You could just order an appetizer or what you normally would and take leftovers home. That's what I've done since I've had surgery, it has worked out great so far. Unless you don't like leftovers then that wouldn't be so good for you.
Karen
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You look GREAT! Definitely don't look your age!!! Congratulations!
Thanx, that is nice of you to say!! :-)
Karen
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Great success, you look fantastic, congrats to you and thanx for sharing!!
Karen
MCM13 reacted to this -
I never had acid reflux until after this surgery. I was sleeved on 8-21-12 and had it from day 1, my surgeon kept saying it would subside, I was on 3 Famotidine (prescription strength Pepcid) until 10-8-12. So, it lasted all but 7 weeks after surgery. I remember the exact day I didn't need it any longer because it was so bad and then all of a sudden just stopped. After that day in October, I've only needed to take maybe one pill a month due to something I may eat.
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Yes, as long as you are off your pain meds you should be good to drive. My surgeon said I could drive the day I came home which was 2 days after surgery IF not on pain meds. I drove 5 days after surgery.
srboyd86 reacted to this -
Agreed........ONE day you will be one of them.....just not the complaining type!! Vent anytime that's what we all do every now and then :-)
Karen
Rox and abranewme reacted to this -
You look fantastic, I'm sure you'll get to goal, no rush. As they say to us, we didn't put it all on in one year, so don't be disappointed if you lose slower and it takes longer than a year. My surgeon says typically 1 1/2 to 2 yrs to take it off give yourself. I am losing slower as well since month 6th, but realize that it might be better, giving me more of a chance to tone up as I go along, being at the gym 5 days a week now for months. You look beautiful, Celebrate that!!
Karen
dar1983 reacted to this -
Awesome!!! Congrats on your success!!! Thanx for sharing!!
Karen
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You are looking fabulous! Here is an example of why you should not look at the scales. My son and his friend are both 14... Both are 5'11" and both are 175 pounds. However my son works out doing mma and is in a lean size 32 pants where his friend who does not work out is in a size 36 pants. My son didn't understand how they weigh the same amount, and are the same height but his friend is so much bigger around. Muscle, while it weighs the same amount as fat, takes up less then half the actual volume as fat does.
My point is that while the scale may not be moving your body may be exchanging fat for muscle and therefor the scale may not move, but your size will still get smaller, and you will appear thinner. So when you are feeling discouraged it is a good idea to measure yourself, and pay attention to how your clothes fit. Good luck girl! You are looking amazing!
Thanx for wording this so accurately!! We see so many say "Muscle weighs more than fat", when it actually doesn't, a pound is a pound whether it be feathers or muscle or fat or coins. Kudos to you!!
Sassygirl06 reacted to this -
You are correct, go to the camera is a great idea!! And, I can see that you don't need to 'look' very far to see how 'far' you've come!! You look amazing, so pretty!! Congrats, and you've reminded me to do the same when I lose so slow each month now.
Karen
LaBelle509 reacted to this
1 year out PROGRESS from August 2012 Post op Peeps!
in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
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Just wanted to start a post from ALL AUGUST 2012 post op VSG peeps to let everyone know how WE are doing after ONE full year POST OP. Post your pre surgery weight, height, surgery date, weight now AND your own personal 'goal' weight, and PLEASE post some before and after pics THEY are ALWAYS awesome to see!! CONGRATS to us ALL!!
Here are my stats:
Pre surgery: 249 lbs
Height: 5'5"
Surgery date: 8-21-12
Weight now: 159 lbs (90 lbs lost)
My personal goal weight: 135-145 lbs
Pre Surgery Picture July 2,2012 (249 lbs)
Post Surgery Picture August 21,2013 (159 lbs)
Karen