TinyMamiOf3kids

Hope it's over soon

That's so awesome

Happy birthday & yes enjoy your cake.

Thanks for your reply. It's going in the shredder.

I'm very interested in your surgery. Did insurance help pay for anything? Why 2 more yrs till your lipo & lower body lift? Expensive or you wanna keep saving money?

I don't have a bill collector after me lolz but I been getting these papers saying I can pay all my bills at once making one monthly payment. Question: does this affect my credit score? Do credit score company look at this? If I don't owe such a huge amount why I'm being send this paper?

Thanks everyone the school thing is in November. Dunkin donut only have middle eastern ppl working there.

Congrats on surgery. How are you feeling? Having any other surgeries?

I put up this subject cuz I feel like we beat our self up all the time but there has to be something good that happen during the time we were overweight. Let me start off... 1. I had my last 2 kids being fat 2. I was fat when I got married 3. I enjoy my food 4. Nothing was hanging on my body 5. My hair was super long & thick 6. Didn't have dry skin. 7. Big boobs 8. Big butt

I went to visit my sister. Hubby came. When we were home he is talking about how good she looks. Okay I have a lot of sisters but my sister turn 30 not her the one that's 29(we don't get along) her... Hubby saying she looks good we are talking about a 200 plus pound woman. Saying at least she don't look sick. She looks heathy in other words I look sick. No body looks good over weight. A little chubby ok few extra pounds ok over 30lbs nope!

Me!!! I need a total body make over. Apron belly bat wings saggy boobs butt thigh. Had it all plan out for June 2014 but due to marriage issues. Moving out is top priority. Surgery is left for maybe 2015/2016 before I'm 40 hopefully

Does he really love me? I think to my self. I thought I was super woman & I do it all but I guess maybe I been missing something. I'm tired of this man!!! He decided after he made no plans to go fishing today when we were suppose to go to visit my sister for her 30th birthday as a surprise. Now I'm going alone as if I was a single mother to 3 kids. Well afterwards I will take the kids to city island. Why pay the toll twice?

Hello it's not impossible to get back on track. You have to log on your food. Basically pretend you just had surgery & start with liquid & soft food.

I was past 2 months when I started eating. I was never hungry. I had to force my self to eat. Now at 15 months of course I don't have this issue.

Don't be hard on your self. You are doing wonderful. You may lose slower but that's great cuz if you lose fast you will be saggy like me

Good luck & I guess it's up to the individual to make which ever surgery work for them but for long lasting results & of course it's more work for us it's going with the RNY.

They say with RNY. You lose 90 percent of your weight. If I'm going to have Wls I rather do the full surgery that I will experience it all. I'm glad I had this surgery I haven't had any complication & I'm 15 months today.

Congrats

Every single night for about 1 week we been arguing over nothing. I started collecting bottles for extra cash & now that seem to escalate things between us. He accuses me of always being out & seeing other ppl. I will leave this marriage but I'm to proud to go to a shelter & not knowing what will happen to my material things. I can't leave 17 years of marriage from one day to the other. I have 3 kids lots of school papers & emotional attachment to all my kids stuff. I can't walk out leaving my many photo albums. How do you start over from scratch? Up date: I edit this post. I'm not staying until my daughter is 21 years of age. We are planning on leaving when she graduate high school age 18. We decided to do what he wants to keep the peace in the house. We will clean daily keep everything organize. Basically make these last years comfortable for us. Throwing in the towels.

I have a 16 year old daughter who have been looking for a job since she was 15. Was told over & over must be 16. She turn 16 still no job. She must have apply to over 100 jobs application to be turn down. Now she is being told even when they have "help wanted" we aren't highering or must be 18 or 21. Disappointed child of mine ask me to plz post this on my weight lost group to see if someone can get her a job. She has work experience. She walk dogs. She worked in an office. These were summer jobs not permanent work. She is still in school entering 11th grade honor role. Respectful. Doesn't steal smoke or do drugs. You can trust her with money she's always on time. We live in NYC queens area. Thanks let me know PM me if you have or know someone who needs a helper to make a few bucks.

I'm slim all over lost my butt & boobs

2 years

I didn't start out the day of surgery 197 I'm 5foot. I'm 34 years old. Since I wasn't omg the biggest person having Wls I figure it wouldn't affect me but guess what? I do need a lot of area fix. I'm not a fan of exercise & it won't bounce my body back so I'm not killing my self with exercise. I will go back to working out simply cuz it's something to do but after surgery is when I will exercise to keep in shape.

When ppl regain unless its just the slip up after lap band it's simply cuz they got too comfortable & went back to stuffing your face. This surgery doesn't make you skinny. You make your self slim by what you put in your mouth. If the brother saw him self gaining he could had put a stop to it seek help & get back on track but he decided he loves food & just doesn't care. Don't compare your self to others. We either fix what we don't like about our body by having plastic surgery. there is no other way not killing your self with exercise will lift your tummy or just learn to live with it.