TinyMamiOf3kids

Hello... I seem not to be able to keep the peace... This is what happen. Hubby has a friend,and his friend is 66 years old. They were in the basement talking,and I happen to go down stairs to look for a scrap book since I didn't remember how many students my now 5 year old daughter has to send a few pieces of chocolate birthday cake. There was a social security conversation that hubby involve me in,and not to get into so much details hubby got up set with me because he feels I took his friend side since he said you are very slim,and I said yes I know,and ask my weight,and I reply 109 he said your going down to 100lbs. I said no I'm actually trying to gain a little weight. Hours pasted,and hubby came up for dinner,and that's why he said I took his friend said simply cuz he said I was slim. He then continue on & on like over 2 hours of arguing with me over this. Not only this but my 16 year old has a project due tomorrow,and she has to get up in front of the class with her crew they have team work,and talk about mental illness. Hubby heard the word world wide oh boy... He started saying my son doesn't have mental illness. I explain no one said my son has that. This is a project she has to present tomorrow in school. She wanted to get my opinion about it. It didn't end there. He continue saying only in this country doctors make up stories saying people have all kinds of problems so they get SSI and a lot of people haven't even work. Then he continue to say my son gets help cuz his father works(it's our children but since he accuse me of being with TOM DICK SALLY) they are my kids. They are only his when it comes to filling taxes or showing them off in public or saying my son has blonde hair. Continuing: all his life,and still works so my son is entitle to get help. This conversation took a long time as well. Money Money Money.... All my teenage years then 20's and now in my 30's till recently I put my kids first. Now it's my turn to have my surgeries. My 16 year old have been looking for a job with no luck. She doesn't want to depend and count on my money since she knows I'm even picking up pennies in the street to save for plastic surgery. I did my calculation,and after my surgery I will have money left over. I can give her $500 which will go towards whatever she needs for school. I can then continue saving for surgery. If she needs more or something else as time passes I can give her more. I rather her not work right now. Jobs are hard to find as it is,but I also need her to take care of me next year after surgery. Right after surgery I can give her all the money she wants,and need. Plus give her a reasonable allowance per week. The only money she gets it's weekly,and it's from the bottles I cash in. So if I make $10 that's all she gets. Until I don't have the full amount for surgery I can't afford to give her extra money. I'm still waiting for my mother to pay me back ugh!!! She had till May and we are in May,and she has excuses after excuses,and it's only $1000 but I lend her this money last year,and I gave her till may 2013 to pay me back half,and the other half in May 2014 I'm still waiting,and she knows I'm having surgery. SSI is early this month so lets see if she is gonna pay up.

Medically needed bad rash & such my ins cover but remember I started at 211 pounds. My skin is not to that point that I'm going to develop a rash to qualify for my ins to pay for plastic surgery. I have saggy hanging skin but its to my eyes looks horrible everyone else I show says my arms look fine. In my eyes it's not fine that's why I'm getting it fix only so when summer comes I can show my arms instead of hiding them. I want to wear real shirts not Capri all my life. Bikini not one peace bathing suit. Lingerie with my perky boobs. Tight jeans with added curves. I want to feel & look sexy so I'm paying for what I want. I wanna take a nice shower dry up put on my lingerie having my new perky boobs flat tummy nice round butt nice arms& look good all over. I'm planning on dealing with this acne issue & do bleach whitening hair extension lip lining. It's not over I have a lot of work to do with out ruining the summer for my kids. Oh about 2 spider vein removable.

I do think the life style lift is true

Oh my 12 weeks post up. Good luck best wishes let us know.

Put your head phone on & blast the music & go window shopping.

Good luck & speedy recovery

Omg you have a big juicy butt. I love it!! Your looking awesome.

I'm sorry this marriage couldn't be save. I wish you all the luck in the world. I have my share if issues it's on a 50/50 right now. My focus is on my plastic surgery since I put everyone 1st then if after next year total body change(for me not him) I see nada change. I'm gonna save enough to get my own place & if I have to file for spouse abuse so be it cuz someone saying your f. Incg around on a daily basic it's getting on my damn nerves.

I do. This is the reason my plastic surgeon recommend I gain weight cuz I have extra skin and only enough fat to fill my boobs. In other words I don't have enough fat to transfer to my butt & places to curve me up. So come April I have 4 months to gain 10/20 pounds you won't notice since it will be sucked out.

Did the surgeon give you a diet plan?

I consider dumping number 3 you know number 1 is pee number 2 poop number 3 liquid poop yuck!

Glad you found each other lolz

You can do this. Think soon you will be skinny.

I didn't hear that & in fact when my bariatric surgeon see me he will say I lost 100% of my weight. I'm sure he will be proud of my progress.

I never had plastic surgery. My only surgeries are 3 cesarean and gastric bypass. Thanks for the compliment according to my surgeon I don't look so bad for a person that lost 98 pounds in 11 months. The more I look at my self the more I actually love my self just not the skin. I look pass that and focus on wow! I can now wear a size 1 I don't look so nasty like I was thinking before. I just want to look & feel better. I honestly can't live my life with saggy skin flat butt & saggy boobs. I'm very sexual & if I can get a job off the books as a waitress making top dollar cuz I look good alright!!

I'm back to 113 scale must have made an error yesterday bought new Capri size 1/2 so if I gain I would be able to wear this size

I'm paying 5,500 out of pocket. My ins only covers WLS not plastic surgery

Wow! 6 years I should be asking you some questions I'm 11 months post up I wanna know how much you weight before & now? Have you had any plastic surgery? Did your spouse leave you? Did you tell ppl? Do you have kids? Your age? Did you finally reach goal? How do you feel now after 6 years?

This sucks! You must have a great job to have over 20g for surgery. Took me a long time to save for my boob job then still saving for next year. Insurance company sucks! Glad your doing this for you. You will feel good. Hope you get some money back from stuff you were cover threw ins.

I gain weight I'm now 119 pounds from 113 I'm not worried or doing anything about it but exercise. As long as I don't go over 125 pounds its all good plus I'm getting fix next year so if I gain weight it will get suck out lmbo

Me too shhh between us lmbo

I will take a decent photo of my boobs now but it will have to wait till August. So I can have the before and after photo.

Instead of 35000 I'm paying 23000 for a total body make over & the surgeon is willing to take monthly payment until 1 week before surgery is schedule. Right now I'm paying 5500 for boobs with my own body fat no implants silicone stuff. This is getting done with a USA plastic surgeon

Next year 2014 having lipo & skin removal. On my tummy not a tummy tuck.