I can't take it anymore. My marriage is going down hill. I'm being excuse all the time of sleeping around. I can't go get cafe I'm taking supposedly 4 hours yeah right!!! If I go to the market that's another issue. I'm going to get my plastic surgery done there is no stopping me. I can pay my own bills after my surgery. I don't have much bills left to pay so that's a good thing.

Well it's ashamed I wasted my whole life since I was a teenager with a man that has treated me like crap & had 3 kids.

I'm ready willing and able to move on with my kids & finally be happy. I'm aging & if I continue in this relationship I'm going to become depress if I can't even shop with out being accuse of sleeping around. I'm outta here before I turn 40 that's my plan.

Sounds like a good decision. Wish you could do it alot sooner. The guy hasnt been nice to you or your kids for awhile!!!

Praying for u and the kids! (Hugs)

Hoping you find the strength to make yourself happy.....

Sounds like a good decision. Wish you could do it alot sooner. The guy hasnt been nice to you or your kids for awhile!!!

Your right. He behaves for a few days and back again with the same crap.

Praying for u and the kids! (Hugs)

Thanks

I wish I could leave now but money is first. He owes me money and I would be stupid to leave now him oweing me. Also I'm getting the whole amount of the income tax return for February. So with that money I can pay for all my plastic surgery. I'm doing a few things 1st then the rest for next year.

Smart decision Mami

Smart decision Mami

I have giving it my all. Even if I become an old mate I will be a happy old mate lmbo

I have giving it my all. Even if I become an old mate I will be a happy old mate lmbo

Lol I know that's right how long have y'all been together

Lol I know that's right how long have y'all been together

17 years

17 years

Wow that's s long time have y'all tried counseling or like sitting to talk to see what's the problem

Wow that's s long time have y'all tried counseling or like sitting to talk to see what's the problem

We did and the therapist gave up on him. Now father & daughter are in therapy and yet the therapist gave up on him again. He only wants to talk about work & fishing not the issue to better there relationship as father & daughter. It's difficult see my hubby isn't from our time & he was raise the woman stays home does all the chores & cooking & raising the kids. The man works & pays the bills. So there for I do stay home but I had a job but hurt my back so the doctor disable me now I also stay home since as I mention before I have special need kids so meetings & doctors appt and such it's best if I'm home. I know what's going on. I don't mind cooking I love it. I hate chores but it must get done. I drive everywhere. I drink Starbucks. I get my nails done twice a month & pedicure less often but it gets done. Eye brows. I do the shopping grocery & clothing.

My issue is.... Hubby is accusing me of sleeping around. With who? Idk I don't have time for that lmbo I have a busy life to even look at another man. You can put up with but so much. He needs to stop cuz he's about to lose his family over this stupid s***

We did and the therapist gave up on him. Now father & daughter are in therapy and yet the therapist gave up on him again. He only wants to talk about work & fishing not the issue to better there relationship as father & daughter. It's difficult see my hubby isn't from our time & he was raise the woman stays home does all the chores & cooking & raising the kids. The man works & pays the bills. So there for I do stay home but I had a job but hurt my back so the doctor disable me now I also stay home since as I mention before I have special need kids so meetings & doctors appt and such it's best if I'm home. I know what's going on. I don't mind cooking I love it. I hate chores but it must get done. I drive everywhere. I drink Starbucks. I get my nails done twice a month & pedicure less often but it gets done. Eye brows. I do the shopping grocery & clothing.

My issue is.... Hubby is accusing me of sleeping around. With who? Idk I don't have time for that lmbo I have a busy life to even look at another man. You can put up with but so much. He needs to stop cuz he's about to lose his family over this stupid s***

Lol mami you is to much but i completely understand raising special needs kids is a full time job hell raising kids period is so I see y yu say yu don't have time yo be looking for another man. I was in the same situation a while back but vice versa I had to change because they say the one accusing is usually the one up to something so when the tables turned I couldn't handle it then I eventually stopped and things getting better

Lol mami you is to much but i completely understand raising special needs kids is a full time job hell raising kids period is so I see y yu say yu don't have time yo be looking for another man. I was in the same situation a while back but vice versa I had to change because they say the one accusing is usually the one up to something so when the tables turned I couldn't handle it then I eventually stopped and things getting better

Men are nuts!

It's annoying me... I'm being told I disappear when the kiddos goes to school and come home at 10am from having sex. Smh wtf!!!

At 7:30am-8am after the bus arrive I go to Starbuck it's 5 minute on car to drive there. I'm back in all together 10 minutes I believe. So I don't take long. Get cafe say hi to all the barista & return home.

The only way I would take long is if I go to the market to food shop but depending on what I'm buying & which market I'm heading to depends on the time I come home. I never take extremely long anywhere to be accuse of having sex with anyone.

What does don't let anyone steal you means??? I don't feel I look that good that every men out there wants me.