Randi

I can relate - when I was in grade school ( and overweight with two skinny sisters) one of my Dad's larger friends used to say to me "Thin may be in, but fat is where it's at" and give me a little pat on the back. THANKS!!! Then, when I lost a bit too much weight in high school my grandmother used to say "hey, you're not so fat anymore". I'm 49 and these things still hurt when I think about them. But you can't let what other people think or say control your life.

That is an awesome story. It made my day - you are such a good writer!! I hope that things get better for you soon! I'm 49 got my sleeve done on April 19th in Dallas so we aren't too far away ( in age or in distance)

I have these too. I am thinking it's because we couldn't wash as well as we should have because sometimes it I scratch them they go away. hope that wasn't TMI!!!

I'm at 2 months and it does get better. I don't gulp, just try to take long sips.

That is amazing!!! you must be one smiling lady!!!

I'm so sorry that your family isn't supportive. This really is your decision and it's a good one - you are trying to get your life back!!! I don't know if you follow Dr. Oz, but he had a show that discussed weight loss surgery and totally supports people having this if they are more than 100 pounds over weight. He says that you would have surgery if you had cancer, right? Being morbidly obese is a disease just as much as cancer is, so the smart thing to do is to fix it!!! I hope that your boyfriend is supportive because you will need that!! I wish you the best of luck!!

Don't stress, you'll be fine!! I cheated 3 times with chicken breasts and had a very successful operation. I too have fatty liver disease and the doctor was hapy with my surgery. I just would be careful to just do liquids for the 48 hours before the surgery.

Oh boy can I relate. I am just over 3 weeks out and this was a very painful weekend for me. It had been over 5 days and I was in a lot of pain. Took 3 ducolax and that only helped a bit, but finally last night I got relief. I will pick up some miralax and see if that will work going forward. Before surgery I had no issues and this scared me a bit. Thanks for the good advice here on a bit of a sensitive subject!!!

Hello everybody, I had my pre-op yesterday and was told that because my liver was too big I had to be on a liquid diet for TWO weeks, not just one. I've had 2 protein shakes today and am starving. How long does it take to get used to this????

That's awesome news!!! I have talked to so many people who have had this surgery and they are all having good luck. I am worried about the liquid diet, but if I just keep my eye on the prize, I'll be fine!! Thanks for your inspiration!!

Thanks - that makes me feel a whole lot better. I hate being the elephant in the room!!! Less than a month to go. I really appreciate all the help this site provides!!

My day is April 19th and I can't wait!!! Does anybody seem to feel heavier and heavier every day as their surgery is approaching? I couldn't stand to look in the mirror before, but now it's horrible!! I have my pre-op on April 4th and am ready to start that liquid diet NOW!!!

I'm very impressed that you have kept up with your liquid diet. I will have to be on it for just one week so now I know it's possible!! I've had other surgeries before and don't remember getting bored at ALL in the hospital. I was sleeping the whole time, having visits from the nurses and doctors, or just trying to get out of bed and walking. I would suggest just bring a book so you have something if you need it. We're all doing the right thing for ourselves to get healthy - and you're doing great!!! Good luck and keep us posted!

I am not a big salad eater either, so great news for me!!! Bad news is I love carbs.

OK - I'm new to all of this. What are tips on getting through the liquid pre-surgery diet?

Hi there - I'm getting sleeved on April 19th and wondering if anybody else out there is scheduled for around that time period? My doctor is Dr. Kuhn at Medical city. Just looking for a buddy to go through this experience with together. Randi

Like your blog. I am scheduled for surger on April 19th and starting to get nervous. I'm 49 years old, 260 pounds and 5'3". Reading all this information is very helpful and encouraging. I can't wait to start getting out of this fat suit!!!

Hi there - I am getting sleeved on April 19th and am also starting to get anxious! Fortunately I have friends who have gone through it and say that it was the best thing they ever did. Stay strong and you'll get through it!!!