Caradina

I would do it on EBay in lots. (ie: Pants lot: 12 pair of pants from (list stores) size 14..) Do them in groups based on type and size. It'll still be several auctions, but less than each piece by itself. Then lay the whole lot out on your bed, snap one pic, and start the bidding at like $5, with no buy it now. You'll be amazed.... (I've done this before when I lost alot of weight... I unfortunately gained it all back, so I regret this huge blowout. I plan to do it again though, once I'm sleeved.)

I honestly think you need to file a formal complaint against the doctors that violated HIPPA. We often let it go and they do it over and over again.
I'm sorry you're having a difficult situation with your Dad - Dad's get scared and they tend to lash out when they get scared.

If you want to do cheats, I can not even convey how much your cheats should be safe, wise food choices. Like maybe a slice of turkey or cottage cheese or Soup. When I read 'popcorn' I think my heart literally stopped! Please don't put yourself at risk!