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RickM

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  1. RickM

    Carbs, Weights, And Sagging Skin

    I have found that some complex carb (like a slice of whole grain bread, maybe 25-30g carb) a couple of hours before a workout gives me some added endurance in the pool, but it doesn't seem to do much for me on strength training workouts. Both are in the 60-90 minute range. I have an overall carb rate of around 100g per day on 1000-1200 calories.
  2. I did not do a pre-op diet other than the usual day before surgery thing. It all depends on what your doctor wants to do. There's lots of variation in doctors' practices - some require a couple weeks or more of liquids, some a couple weeks of restricted calories and/or carbs, some require a specific amount of weight loss pre-op, some have different requirements for different patients and some have no particular pre-op diet requirements.
  3. It depends in good part with where your starting point is - if you're 180 now, then 100lb is probably rather ambitious, but if 100lb is roughly the amount of excess weight that you are carrying, then it is quite a reasonable goal with the sleeve. There are many women on these boards who started out in the low-mid 200's and around 100lb to get to a "normal" BMI range for their height. I'm down close to 100 now after a little less than seven months, and within a few pounds of my goal. That said, people do vary and some lose slower than others and some may have a hard time losing that much - it's hard to predict ahead of time. The overall averages for the sleeve are in the 70-75% excess weight loss range, but that's an average, and includes those who start at over 500lb and lose to 250-300 and are much healthier even though they may not be "normal" weight, it includes those who aren't compliant and eat the way they did before and come up short, and includes those who lose 100% or more of their excess. In short, 100lb is quite do-able and not overly optimistic.
  4. I've set my goals based upon body composition, aiming for 15% give or take a bit (given the flakeyness of body comp measurments) body fat, which is midrange of the "normal" or "fitness" range for men (equivalent to low to mid twenties for women). That means that my scale weight target has shifted some as the body comp changes with the weight loss and some muscle mass is inevitably lost along with all of the fat, but for the lean mass that I am still carrying (within 10 lb of goal now) I will still be an "overweight" 27ish on a BMI basis, but to be a "normal" BMI would make me too lean to be healthy.
  5. My wife stayed home on FMLA for my surgery and post-op time; she milked it for more than I needed the help (in part from her memory of having a harder time with her WLS a few years ago), but it was therapeutic for her to be away from work for a while longer!
  6. You shouldn't be letting other people decide what your tastes are - Protein shakes vary all over the map in taste and texture; what's yummy to you may be ghastly to someone else. The important thing is to get in the protein that you need. To me, variety is a key, and I was lucky to be able to tolerate a variety of protein rich foods early on so that I wasn't overly dependent upon any one tiring source. Greek yogurts are a good protein source at around 10g per 4oz serving while standard yogurts are about half that - I would get awful tired of yogurt if it were my primary protein source, not to mention that I don't get along well with plain yogurt. I have used protein shakes for years and have evolved blends that work for me in providing a good level of protein and a pleasing taste; likewise with yogurts I have evolved blends that work for me - I find that the commercially available no fat yogurts are also sugar free and have a lot of artificial sweetener taste to them, and I don't care for the level of sweetness added to most products. So, I have developed my own blend of plain and sweetened vanilla greek yogurts (about a 3 to 1 ratio now) that works for me, particularly with some added fruit and nuts. Likewise with the protein shakes, they can be blended with fruit or other flavors to enhance them - I often add a little unsweetened cocoa powder to enhance the chocolate flavor and cut the sweetness of the protein powders. I also blend the Protein Powder and greek yogurt into sugar free pudding mix to make a protein rich snack. I haven't needed protein shakes to meet my protein goals since fairly early on but still use them at times for specific uses (usually strength training recovery, as they are a good source of rapidly absorbed protein) and because I like them (or at least my blends) and are part of the variety that I maintain. Do some experimenting and see what works for you!
  7. Some docs do a low carb diet as part of their program while others do not. Likewise, some patients choose to do a low carb diet in addition to their doc's program. It's up to you what diet you want to follow as long as it meets your doc's program requirements - some people find that the ketosis state that's induced by the ultra low carb diet helps to boost the weight loss, or rate of loss, that they are getting from their WLS while others don't find much if any difference, and some find it detrimental to their loss. I never bothered trying to keep low carb, other than minimizing the simple carbs/sugars, preferring the better nutrition offered by as balanced a diet as I could have within the volume restrictions and Protein requirements that we have and never suffered any significant stalls - I've only had one week that was not a losing week over the six months plus since surgery and am less than ten pounds from goal. Indeed, that past couple of months I have been shifting some calories strategically to complex carbs to better fuel my workouts which helps burn more calories. So, both lower carb and higher carb can work to enhance the loss performance of your sleeve - it's a matter of what works best for you. Stalls are a normal thing, particularly around the three week mark (give or take some depending upon whether or not one was on any significant pre-op diet) and are usually broken, if not by time, then by changing something - intake levels up or down (not a lot of options there when so early out), or composition of intake or similar changes on the exertion front (also fairly limited when early in the process) or just by sticking it out. Your body is adapting to its new environment and it takes longer in some than others, but with the caloric deficits that we are running, it can't last forever.
  8. I concentrate on overall nutrition, Protein first of course, but can't wrap my brain around cutting out that much good nutrition to do the low carb thing - it may help some who need an extra push beyond the VSG to reach goal or those who have diabetic issues, but for me to get to goal in six months rather than seven (assuming that it works as advertised) isn't worth the added health issues. Simple carbs have been limited, and I don't have as much fruit as I normally would in order to keep the calorie count in line (1000-1200 for me) but I do work to keep as much variety in my diet as I can. And yes, that includes potatoes sometimes (a good source of potassium, which is hard to supplement without prescription, and is a more efficient source calorically than most low carb alternatives,) and whole grain breads. I'm six and a half months out and within 7 lb of goal - so low carb is by no means essential to our weight loss. As LilMissDiva notes, caloric deficit is the key to our weight loss. If adding low carb on top of the VSG works for you, great, but if it doesn't, don't agonize over it- do what does work for you.
  9. I don't know if there is a "better" overall, but there may be a better for you at this time. If you aren't satisfied with your loss rate, or if you are stalling a lot, then try a change and see if that shocks your system into action. Initially, I needed six small meals a day but as I have progressed and could eat more different things, and more of them in a sitting in some cases, I have dropped one or two of those smaller meals to keep my daily calorie count in line. Smaller meals have classically been used to smooth out the insulin spikes during the day and to keep from getting too hungry and over-eating. Changes in intake or exertion are often used to break stalls; some find that upping their calories for a short term breaks a stall, fooling the body into thinking that it's no longer starving; trying the very low carb diet for a while, if you haven't already been doing so may do it - the shift into ketosis mode may tell your body that you're serious about this. Or try the other way around if you have been doing low carb and try adding carbs (preferrably complex carbs rather than twinkies!) - I have found that adding complex carbs in my meal (like some whole grain toast along with some meat and cheese) before a workout allows me to workout longer and with greater intensity than when I have a lower carb salad and meat. Another thing to look at is your workouts and exertion level. Simply changing a routine can often help, or varying the intensity of exertion. I found at around this three month time that my condition had improved enough that my exertion levels weren't taxing me as much as they used to - walking as fast as I could without breaking into a jog previously would get me into that 80% max heartrate zone (around 130+ at my age) that's often recommended for optimum cardiac and calorie burning effect but by the third to fourth month that same pace could barely get me to break 100 - it didn't feel all that much easier, but my body could sure tell the difference. Lots of things to try, good luck in ramping it up!
  10. I am close at 53 and had my VSG in early May. I'm down about 95lb and within 10 to goal and overall have had an easy recovery and post-op period. I had a few days the second week where my lower GI couldn't decide of I should have diarrhea from the soft/liquid diet or be constipated from the residual pain meds and that kept me close to home and didn't get in as much walking as I should have that week, but before that I was starting to outpace my wife on the walking trails. I had very little restriction for liquids which helped in the early days which meant that in the early days I could have enough Protein drinks to be able to experiment with small amounts of other foods and still get in the requisite protein - enough that the doc was telling me to add veg to the diet by day 10. My system hasn't rejected anything that I have tried, so I have been able to keep a reasonably well balanced diet through all of this despite the volume restrictions (and yes, there sure is a restriction when it comes to solid proteins) and have been able to have a good variety of foods, both at home and when eating out. My wife had a DS (a VSG plus intestinal rerouting) when she was 55 and she, likewise, had a boringly average recovery while losing over 200lb. She wound up being lactose intolerant afterward, and still is to some extent, and had more tolerance issues than I did during the recovery and loss phase, and strangely had more liquid restriction than I ever had despite her nominally larger stomach - her Protein shakes had to be so concentrated to get in enough protein that they were ghastly to her. Just one of the variations between us all. Good luck down your chosen path,
  11. RickM

    Eating Out -- What Do You Eat?

    I'm pretty much having the same things now that I had pre-op, but less, though I now choose things that are more doggie-bag friendly. Soft tacos from Chipotle were an early addition and good for when I was travelling - leave the tortilla behind, but most everything else in them were in my mush/soft Protein plan - chicken, rice&Beans, salsa, cheese, guac; you can order a single taco, or get the standard meal of three and have two leftover for other meals. Steaks work fine, and then I have leftovers that I use in salads that I make at home. Fajitas are a good choice at mexican places, as are the tacos and enchiladas - I will have the corn tortillas in the enchilada now at six months out, but I have been somewhat lucky in that protein hasn't been a big problem for me so I have some flexibility in what I have. Chicken Parmesan at our local family Italian place is also a routine dish - I can usually get three or four meals from one of Vito's dinners (and still have room for a bite of his Tiramisu)! At places like Panera, I will get their half sandwich and small soup or salad and have one for the meal and the other for a snack later or the next day. I don't have a lot of entree salads like I used to, mainly because they aren't that doggie-bag friendly. So, you are not deluding yourself on that issue - it may take you a longer or shorter time to get to the point of having semi-normal restaurant meals, but it will happen - that's one of the benefits of the VSG; it's just that, as before, we do need to be careful of the overall calorie count of restaurant meals, particularly if they are a regular thing long term.
  12. I still have the sleep apnea six months out and almost 100lb down (almost to goal) though it's not nearly as bad as it was. I slept without the machine three nights this week and am getting reasonable rest, though my wife says that it's still there sometimes. So, I'll use it a while longer and try again. On the diabetes front, which my wife had for about twenty years before her DS a few years ago, just short of needing insulin, it resolved in her over a few months, sometime between 6 and 12. Our doc said that in his experience, typically the longer that you have had the diabetes, the longer it will take to resolve post-op. So some will drop their meds in the hospital and never need to pick them up again while others will take a few months for it to resolve, though the meds can usually be decreased during that time.
  13. RickM

    4 weeks post op - is it too early for salad?

    As my doc's program instructs, try new things one at a time, testing for tolerance, and if it doesn't sit well, try again in a couple of weeks (or later, as you feel like it.) Good luck,
  14. RickM

    Carbs and lifting weight

    As Thomas noted, carbs (preferably complex carbs) before and Protein after a workout is the common nutritional advice. I've never been into the low carb game (was never mentioned by doc or his program) but continued working on high density nutrition along with the requisite protein intake. I have started experimenting with more complex carb (rather than my typical lunch salad) before workouts and do find that it helps with my endurance and intensity in the pool, though haven't seen much difference in the weight room, even though it is typically a 75-90 minute workout. I do still use the Protein shakes after the strength workouts, but a more typical greek yogurt/fruit/nuts after the pool. At the level that most of us are working strengthwise, I suspect that we won't see much benefit from overloading either carbs or protein in our Quest for lean mass preservation, as opposed to serious body building, but a more normal carb/protein/fat profile is probably better than the trendy ultra low carb/ketosis diets for those into fairly serious exercise. At this point, as others have noted, just getting started at a measured pace to get used to things without overdoing it is probably best; once you get comfortable in a routine and building intensity after a couple of months you may find the need to start tweaking the diet to better fuel things.
  15. RickM

    4 weeks post op - is it too early for salad?

    Like Thomas, I was starting to play with salads somewhere around the four week mark - mostly chopped spinach instead of lettuce, and other chopped veg - avo (ok, a fruit...) tomato (a maybe fruit...) green onion, pepper, carrot along with a couple ounces of leftover meat.
  16. I believe that it is one of the facets of whether or not a surgeon requires it - some require them for all, some only for their heavier patients, and some not at all. My doc doesn't require it and I don't know of any of his patients who were required to go through it, even the SMO 60+BMI ones like my wife was. But then, he also does biliopancreatic transplants aside from his bariatrics practice, so it seems as if crappy liver condition doesn't particularly bother him, or that there is enough change from the diet to make it worthwhile for him to require it (though he is rather anal about liver care post-op) and it is likely that he has skills and experience in that area that exceed the norms for most bariatric surgeons. My general point, however, is that while some docs seem to be comfortable with things as they are without pre-op diets and others feel that they do better with them, that you should follow your doc's instructions - he's the guy with his hands (directly or remotely) inside you reworking your insides and you want him to be as comfortable as possible while he is doing so. If your doc doesn't require it (and he is an experienced at bariatrics) while others do, don't agonize over it; just as one shouldn't agonize over their doc not requiring a trendy low carb post op diet while others do - if his experience with his patients indicate that it's not necessary, there's little need to argue about it, but if it makes you feel better, then have at it.
  17. No need to worry about it - if your doc needed you to do it, he would ask you to do it. Some docs have the skills and experience to work around any such problems while others need all the help their patients can give them. If you doc gives you such instructions, follow them as you want him to be as comfortable as possible while he's messing around with your insides; if he doesn't, then be thankful for his skills and experience.
  18. It mostly depends upon how soon you are able to get enough Protein from "real" food, and that's a variable depending upon different doc's programs and individual patient tolerances. i was usually able to get enough in after about three weeks that I didn't routinely need the Protein shakes, though I still do sometimes use them now, at six months, for workout recovery as they do have rapidly available protein which is useful after strength training. As to other supplements, those are also dependent upon how well you can get them from food, though some supplements will probably be needed long term/permanently due to our reduced food volume. B12 is likely to be a permanent supplement as our small stomachs don't produce enough of the intrinsic factor that's needed to properly break down and absorb what we eat. Calcium will depend upon what your long term post-op diet looks like - I used to get enough in pre-op but long term post-op it is unlikely that I will have as much dairy or other calcium rich foods as I used to. Likewise, postassium - which is difficult to supplement without prescription - I used to get in the typical RDA of 4700mg through my normal diet, but am only at 40% that level these days (and low carb diets would make that worse); so far blood levels are fine, but it is something that we are watching.
  19. It seems like you may have developed a lactose intolerance, which happens with some after WLS, and is usually (but not always) temporary. Whey protein is often considered to be the most absorbable form, and the most desirable form of that is isolated whey protein which is lactose free. It is also the most expensive form, so it is often blended with cheaper non-isolated whey protein. If you can find a protein mix that is 100% whey protein isolate, and they do exist but you may need to go to a GNC, Vitamin Shoppe or other such store, that should work for you. As noted by others, you can try soy based protein supplements, and while they may not be considered as good as whey based products, if that's what works for you, you go with it.
  20. RickM

    Best Protein ??

    I guess it depends upon how meaty the "meaty soup bones" are, but it sounds plausible - better and more palatable than the commercial broths, and a lot less sodium (which is probably what would make me gag if I had to have that much of it.) I think that if you depended upon it as your primary Protein source that you would tire of it quickly (I sure did, and only used Soups for a week or two post op.) I don't find the powders to be all that objectionable, though I have been playing with them for several years, finding blends that suit me. The unflavored powders can be put into Jello for some variety (though that is another thing I tired of and haven't revisited since) and the chocolate or unflavored varieties can be made into instant SF puddings for a hi-pro snack (which I still use.) The bigger challenge will be finding enough variety to keep you sane, particularly if your doc is one who goes into extensive liquid post-op diets. Thankfully, between my tolerant stomach and surgeon, I was able to progress to more real foods fairly quickly and maintained my sanity through it all. Good luck to you,
  21. RickM

    time to surgery

    It took me about eight years, though there were distractions of my wife going thru this during that time. We decided that we needed to do something about our mutual problem. The RNY was not a solution that we could live with but when she found the DS in her research, that sounded like it did what we needed and allowed a reasonably normal postop life, so we started going to the support group/seminar meetings for the brothers Rabkin in SF (one of the few practices that did both the DS and RNY at the time, so we felt we could get a less biased view on things from them). It took a couple of years to get her on the table after the insurance denials and going into self-pay, but it was worth it for her (six years out and still maintaining 200+ down.) In the meantime, with the normal insurance 6 month roadblock diet/exercise program I found that I actually liked going to the gym (was nice getting back into swimming after years away from it) and lost around 50 lb of my problem and some more before settling back at the down 50 level. After losing that and maintaining it with a continually evolving sanity diet and moderate gymwork, I was uncertain about needing something as strong as the DS, and the RNY was not going to happen - i'd keep the weight I had rather than subject myself to that (nor were the silly bands under consideration,) and the VSG was too new as a stand alone procedure to have enough history or insurance backing. So, I let it go for a while, maintaining what I had lost but not making any more progress (didn't want to get into any of those unsustainable diet programs that have, maybe, a 5% success rate.) When our insurer started covering the VSG last year, it was time to look at it again with the confidence that I had regain issues under control so that I didn't need to do the DS with its better regain resistance. We had continued going to the support group meetings fairly regularly so it was pretty seemless in starting the process again, mainly more formally documenting the diet and exercise efforts for the obligatory insurance 6 month deal (surgeon doesn't have any special pre-op program) until all the paper could be put together for submission. So, eight years is the long answer, but after deciding finally to go for it, it took around ten months to get all the insurance nonsense together and take the walk into the OR (yeah, they walked us in there...) Six months later, I'm down 90lb with another 10-ish to go, depending upon how the body composition ends up.
  22. RickM

    Ketosis

    I don't get along with the ketosis concept, but as the OPs doc suggested, it may accelerate the weight loss. For me, it's not worth the downsides to get to goal in six months rather than seven, assuming that it works as advertised. We are malnourished enough as it is with the limited volume and high protein requirements without adding the ultra low carb restriction to it as well. If I were starting out heavier and needed every trick in the book to get to goal, then it might be worthwhile. At this point, I seem to work better with a reasonable amount of complex carb in my diet, burning more calories with longer and more intense workouts, than when keeping lower carb. But we are all different in how we respond to these things - try the low carb/ketosis diet and see how it works, but don't be afraid to go to a more balanced diet if it doesn't do much for you.
  23. My doc is one of those who does mushies from the hospital on out, as patient tolerance permits. Of course, liquids are still permitted and encouraged (still have to get in your 64+ oz of water, etc) but they have found that patients do better the more real foods that they can tolerate. They've been doing sleeves for about twenty years, so I trust that they know better than most what the sleeve can handle (as opposed to the primarily RNY guys who are just getting thier feet wet with the sleeve.) They told me to start adding veg at the ten day mark as I was getting in more than the requisite protein at that time; fruits and other simple carbs in general were to be minimized, though things like mashed potatoes, oatmeal, rice and beans, etc were acceptable early mushies before meats were tolerated.
  24. My doc didn't do any pre-op diet either, other than the clear liquids the day before, and they've been doing sleeves and DSs for around twenty years; I'm not going to argue with him!
  25. When my wife and I were first looking into WLS about eight years ago, the official NIH mortality figures for obese people having surgery (any surgery, not just WLS) was about 1 in 200 simply from anesthesia. It seems like those figures have improved some since then, but it did illustrate that surgery is not risk free, and that such elevated risks would continue to be with us as we aged and needed other surgeries to live. That also put some urgency into getting the WLS sooner rather than later, and with a surgical team, particularly the anesthesiologists, who were experienced with dealing with obese patients.

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