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I was on mushies/puree/soft proteins, as tolerated, from the hospital on out. Lots of variations in programs out there.
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Anything is possible, but the sleeve procedure is quite flexible in that regard - you can readily add calories when you want to, to the degree that some fail because of it. It is easy to drink calories since liquids don't offer much, if any, restriction and many foods are "sliders" - so called because they slide right on thru the sleeve with little restriction, while other foods, dense meats in particular, sit in the stomach for an extended time while the stomach works on breaking them down before allowing them to proceed to the intestines. So, by altering the composition of your diet, it is fairly easy to tailor the amount of calories that you consume. I was also a relative lightweight, with 90-100lb to lose and was also concerned about a large overshoot on the loss front, which is why I went with the VSG over the DS - which offers better regain resistance, but can be harder to stop when you get to goal due to its malabsorptive component. It was fairly easy to start adding more calories as I approached my goal (particularly since that was right around the holidays!) I added back the morning snack that I dropped after the first month or two post-op, increased the fat content thru more avocado in my salads, lowfat rather than skim milk in the Protein loaded puddings that I make, more whole grain breads here and there, so that now I'm consuming 1800 calories or so per day rather than 1100 when I was losing. Also, it's not unusual, or particularly undesireable, to overshoot the mark some as there is inevitably some bounce back after losing so rapidly - most natural systems will do that to some degree, unless they are very slow moving ("overdamped", in engineering vernacular - our bodies are often like a car with bad shocks, bouncing around some before settling at its' new level.)
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I started at around the same level as you, 292 at surgery, after having lost and maintained around 50lb several years before while my wife was going thru this. I lost about 33lb the first month, 14-15 each of the next couple months, and then about 10lb per month thereafter until I hit goal at about 190lb (actual goal was mid teens body fat %, the scale weight goal moved around some as I lost to account for the inevitable loss of some lean body mass.) Overall, the journey has been smooth sailing - some constipation issues early on (pretty much any of the WLS procedures will have some sort of GI issues simply from the change in dietary habits,) and I'm just now successfully cutting back and weaning off of the PPIs for reflux (most people seem to get off of them within a few weeks, but YMMV.) Threat of complications is always on one's mind when going into these procedures and that is where there are some significant differences. While the bands tend to be simpler and quicker to install, they have a lot more complications down the road (on the order of 25% of the bands are ultimately removed due to poor weight loss or regain performance or to structural damage done to the stomach - there is a reason why most of these forums have boards dedicated to band revisions.) The sleeve, on the other hand can have some initial surgical complications by way of leaks or kinks/strictures in the stomach (and we're talking under 1% here,) they are overall rather trouble free as time progresses. Someone on one of these boards posted a great comparison from their surgeon: he told them that if they were to call him in five years time complaining of nausea, vomiting or other digestive distress, if they had a band he would tell them to go to the emergency room, but if they had a sleeve, he would tell them that they ate some bad fish. Long term, the success of any of these WLS procedures comes down to a combination of personal efforts to adopt the lifestyle changes needed to maintain your weight once you have lost it, and the compatibility between you and the procedure. One may experience regain problems with any of these procedures (the DS to a lesser extent, but still possible,) but getting put back into the hospital for surgical complications months or years down the road is very uncommon except with the bands. Long term nutritional issues are going to be similar with both the bands and sleeve as both restrict the amount that you can consume which puts a premium on adopting healthy dietary habits and staying on top of whatever supplements are needed to flesh things out; supplementation is less of an issue than with the RNY and DS which have malabsorptive components that need to be compensated for (heck, most Americans are somewhat malnourished and should be supplementing some simply due to the crappy average American diet, so the sleeve and bands aren't a real big change from pre-op in that regard.) Good luck and welcome to the club (whichever one you join,)
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How Many Carbs Do You Eat Daily?
RickM replied to kayte819's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I never controlled to carbs, only protein and water. I was typically running 70-100 per day the first three months or so and 100-120 per day after that, when I started adding some complex carb to better fuel workout endurance. Now, in maintenance, I'm typically running in the 150-200 range. Not playing the low carb/ketosis game certainly didn't slow down my weight loss (or at least I sure didn't want to lose any faster.) -
One good book that we used in establishing the foundation for our efforts when we started our journey several years ago is: Sports Nutrition Guide: Minerals, Vitamins & Antioxidants for Athletes by Michael Colgan http://www.amazon.com/Sports-Nutrition-Guide-Minerals-Antioxidants/dp/0969527284/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1330465262&sr=1-3 It provides a good rundown of the various nutrients, how the body uses them and appropriate levels for them. In contrast to the standard govt RDAs which have been established primarily to avoid deficiency disease, he has tried to understand and present what levels are needed for optimum health and performance, which can be quite a range given the differing demands of various athletic activities, but you can also get a good idea of what's needed for us less demanding types. It's certainly worth having in your library. The Nutribase program (we use the "Personal Plus" version) is availabe from Cybersoft at dietsoftware.com and can be downloaded for a free trial so you can compare it to some of the online diet trackers that are available, and decide if it's worth its' cost. I don't know how it compares to some of the popular programs like myfitnesspal, but when we got started in all of this it fit our needs better than the online programs available at the time.
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B12 is the only Vitamin that we don't absorb as well post-op sleeve as normal; everything else is dependent upon your dietary habits over the long term. Many people in our society need to supplement without WLS simply because the typical American diet is deficient in many areas. During the loss phase, we are normally getting so little in beyond Protein that we need a lot of supplements, more so if one is doing one of the popular low carb diets, but long term it gets to be pretty individual based upon dietary preferences along with the usual age, sex and medical condition considerations. Now, in maintenance mode, I sometimes see days when I don't need any calcium supplements to reach my 2000mg target, though one 5-600mg supplement is the norm now (two was my doc's standard plan recommendation) and I can usually get in 70-80% of the RDA of potassium (which is difficult to supplement without prescription.) So, what you will need for life will vary, which should be good incentive to continue doing regular labs and tracking your intake to see what you really need to supplement over time. Good luck,
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Calcium Vs. Calcium Citrate
RickM replied to Happy Camper's topic in Protein, Vitamins, and Supplements
Just be careful that not all Citracal products are calcium citrate, despite the implication of their brand name. Their gummies are not the citrate form (they aren't carbonate, either, but another compound that I forget now - don't have the bottle anymore.) Read those labels! -
I have been working to optimize nutrition pretty much throughout this whole process, within the limits of our restricted volume/calories and high Protein requirements of our sleeve – to me, the popular ketogenic diets leave too much nutrition behind to be worth whatever benefit they’re supposed to provide. From relatively early on I have regularly had small salads with a couple ounces of meat, mixed in an ounce or so of raspberries with my greek yogurt, frequently along with some almond and oat or wheat bran for added Fiber. I averaged a 2-3 nominal fruit/veg servings per day (against 7-8 pre-op). Potatoes were frequently present as an efficient source of potassium and mid-way thru the process some whole grain bread was added strategically as a complex carb source for fueling extended workouts. Now, in the transition to maintenance mode for the past month or so, I’m getting in 4-5 fruit/veg servings per day and my stretch goal is to minimize supplements long term. A few days have avoided Calcium supplements (2000mg per day is my target) and I sometimes see 80- 85% of the potassium RDA (that’s a tough one to supplement without Rx.) I have added back the morning snack that I dropped early on in the loss phase and sometimes have two small afternoon Snacks as needed to boost the calories and nutrition. Today’s menu as follows – B: 3 turkey breakfast sausage, with wheat toast/butter (good pre-workout profile for morning personal trainer session.) S: non-SF instant breakfast (the moderate sugar dose aids in transport of protein to muscle cells: SF version used where appropriate. I used to use Protein shakes for this but don’t need that much of a protein load anymore.) L: salad with chopped turkey breast, spinach, avo, tomato, snap pea, carrot, broccoli, yellow pepper, green onion, cheese S: can of low sodium V8 (great source of potassium), greek yogurt w raspberries and almond granola D: pot roast, roasted potato, broccoli S: protein loaded pudding on a piece of eggface protein cake. I have been evolving my practices of high density nutrition for several years, since my wife when thru her WLS journey with a DS several years ago and worked toward beating her down the scale (only partially succeeded, but did attain good weight stability prior to going with the sleeve to finish the job.) There’s no particular single source that we’ve used but a combination of various nutrition (as opposed to “diet”) books and the tracking software we have long used (an offline program called Nutribase, which is a slightly lightened version of what is marketed to the professional trade, as we weren’t satisfied with the online resources such as Fitday that were available at the time,) along with continued fiddling with recipes and personal preferences. As I had already worked out healthy dietary practices (other than the volume problem solved by the sleeve,) I was rather averse to the idea of doing any of the fad diets, medically supervised or not, which have such a low probability of success instead of WLS (and certainly wasn’t too keen on doing any of them post-op, either – thankfully my doc hasn’t gotten caught up in any of those fads.) With the lower volume available with the sleeve along with the general protein and caloric restrictions involved (I averaged 1000-1100 cal per day) I was able to adjust my pre-op dietary practices to my post-op needs by emphasizing the protein and dropping some of the less nutrionally dense items off the menu during the weightloss period, but generally still maintaining a reasonable nutritional balance within the remaining calorie allotment. Now, in the maintenance phase, I can add back some of those less nutritionally dense items as I work to optimize things, and don’t have the problem of having to wean off of a special deficiency diet back to normal practices – the downfall of most of the special ultra low cal type diets. I never needed to make major philosophical changes to my diet to make the sleeve work, nor to move into healthy maintenance practices. Good luck in your efforts,
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Considering A Real Diet
RickM replied to crosswind's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
If by ketosis state you mean going with one of the ultra low carb Atkins/ketogenic type diets, that clearly isn't the case; if you're talking about the biochemistry of fat metabolism that will have you excreting some ketones, then that's a function of chemistry and doesn't require an overly low carb intake - just enough caloric deficit to draw on your fat reserves. I have clearly burned a lot of fat without ever going near that magical 30-40g or below level - I was typically in the 80-120g range thru my loss phase but was not going to get into the nutritional deficiencies that go along with those atkins type diets - but if you look at my labs then, yeah, some ketones were detectable in there. -
whats your opinion about sleeve gastrectomy
RickM replied to a topic in Gastric Sleeve Surgery Forums
While the bypass does have long term data to review, it is unfortunatly not very good reading. What caloric malabsorption it provides is temporary at best - after that it is a restrictive only procedure like the sleeve, and the consensus of study data shows that the weightloss character of both are very similar, averaging in the 70-75% excess weight loss which is better than the bands at 50ish % but less than the DS in the 85-90% range. What isn't temporary about the bypass, however, is the mineral malabsorption, which is with you for life, the most troubling typically being Iron and Calcium. Another long term issue is the problem of the piece of intestine that is joined to the RNY pouch is not resistant to stomach acid like the bypassed duodenum (the part of the small intestine immediately below the stomach that is also the entry point for bile and digestive enzymes from the liver and pancreas.) This means that the suture line between the pouch and intestine never really fully heals and often weeps a small amount of blood, which compounds the iron malabsorption issue. This is also the reason that NSAIDs are not to be used by RNY patients for pain relief - for life. Regain resistance with the RNY is also not very impressive - being calorically a restriction only procedure like the sleeve, you are pretty much on your own to make the long term lifestyle changes to keep the weight off; there is a school of thought that the sleeve may be somewhat better on the regain front due to it keeping an intact pyloric valve in its reduced stomach. If one is interested in a malabsorptive procedure, they should seriously check out the duodenal switch which does offer long term caloric malabsorption and better regain resistance, less severe mineral malabsorption since the duodenum is only partially bypassed, and like the sleeve (which is a part of the DS) has no limitations on NSAID use. The DS is a more technically challenging procedure than the sleeve or RNY which is why you don't find as many surgeons offering it, but those that do tend to be at the top of the class. All of these procedures have benefits and detriments that need to be evaluated relative to individual needs. but overall the RNY comes off as the less attractive procedure for most - it has similar weight loss and regain performance to the sleeve but at greater cost in lifestyle and medical treatment limitations, but poorer performance to the DS at a similar or greater cost. -
The various charts and calculators are guidelines that tend to apply more to populations on average rather than individuals. Various body composition indicators give a better overall view of an individuals health. My goal was to get into the middle teens on body fat %, which is the middle of the normal range for men of our advancing age (the range it typically sited as 11-22%, give or take a point or two on each side depending on the source) which. at 5'10 and 190, still leaves me "overweight" on the BMI scale. When I started out, I targeted 200 as my initial goal as that would put me into my target body comp range under the admittedly gross assumption that only fat would be lost; I readjusted the target on the way down as my body comp changed and settled into the 185-190 range as a healthy weight for my musculature. Also, be cautious on the "big boned" label as that is almost cliche amongst us when we are heavy, and some of the classical measures can change with substantial weight loss. By the measure of fingers around your wrist, I was always about medium framed on their scale, but am somewhat below that now. So that's a guide, but about as valid as any of the other quick measure guides like the calculators - take it with a few kilos of salt. Good luck on your loss.
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It's all part of being a healthy male, and we are all getting healthier now - less weight, better circulation, more exercise, hormones, hopefully more attention from those of the XX persuasion.....
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Ok So My Surgeon Has Me Second Guessing My Choice...
RickM replied to dreamkin's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
It is hardly emerging science, as this has been known for years, though they are still trying to fully understand the mechanism involved. When my wife had her DS 6-7 years ago it was thought that the intestinal rerouting was responsible for the success in resolving diabetes - there is certainly more to it than simple weight loss or enforced dietary changes as many see their diabetes resolve at the outset. As noted by others, the DS also resolves diabetes, and at a rate somewhat better than the bypass (on the order of 98+% for the DS vs around 90% for the bypass from the figures I've seen), however, the sleeve has also been showing good success at early resolution of diabetes, so the docs are now hypothesizing that there are hormonal changes involved with the stomach changes that are also influential on the diabetes front (that is the more emerging science.) It is certainly understandable that your doc advises that you go with the bypass, although how much of that preference is technical/scientific and how much is liability concern would be uncertain. (Put yourself in your doc's position - he may believe that the sleeve is the better choice for you overall, but the bypass has a longer documented history of diabetes resolution than the sleeve, so the bypass is the more legally defendable position should your diabetes not resolve. Unfortunately, defensive medicine is a fact of life in our society.) A further complicating factor in your decision making - (my wife was a type II diabetic, treated for around twenty years and nearly at the end of med only treatment for its control when she had her DS) my wife's doc told her that in his experience, the longer one has had or been under treatment for diabetes, the longer they typically take to resolve post-op, which is why hers took around nine months or so to resolve while others walked out of the hospital with it resolved (and yes, there will be long termers who resolve quickly and short timers who take a while to resolve, but on average that relation holds). This implies that the longer you have had the diabetes, the stronger the tool needed to resolve it, so if you are a long timer with it and seriously want to resolve it, then the DS should also be under consideration. So, research, research research this to become comfortable with it. As noted by others, the sleeve is having good success at resolving diabetes, but doesn't have the hard data behind it yet. The bypass may be better (and the DS better still,) but has more hard data to show for it. Not an easy decision, but good luck with it. -
That's a great point, given the relative newness of the sleeve, particularly to the insured world - looking for an experienced DS surgeon gets you a lot of sleeve experience, and as with most surgical procedures, it's hard to beat experience with the particular procedure one is interested in. Bands and RNYs, while both bariatric procedures, aren't the same as sleeve gastrectomies, and they all have their subtleties that make a difference toward success. Generally, one should look for a surgeon who has done at least 300-500 sleeves or DS's to be reasonably proficient with the sleeve.
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Typical Calorie Intake
RickM replied to im sooo excited's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
From the second week on out I was taking in 900-1100 calories per day; we had no distinct mushy or liquid stage, just a combined liquid/mush/soft protein as tolerated for the first month moving on to most anything else within tolerance after that. That worked well for me, providing a fairly consistent 2-3lb per week loss, but I'm a fairly large (final weight) guy who's fairly skinny at 190lb goal weight. YMMV -
What Is The Limit On How Many Grams Of Fat We Can Have A Day?
RickM replied to AllForMy4's topic in Food and Nutrition
At 9 calories per gram of fat, that doesn't leave a lot of room for your Protein. At this point (and for most of your weightloss period for that matter,) you should be concentrating on getting in your requisite protein (60-80g per day is typical, more for some) and not worry about fat and carbs until you are consuming more, as in about 800 cal per day if you go that high. Even at that, I never worried about fat and carbs, but just protein, Water and then getting the most nutrition from the remaining calories in my day (which for me was typically 900-1100 overall). -
I alternate days between cardio (which is primarily swimming) and strength training, and just do maybe five minutes of cardio on those days to get things warmed up. Arguably, we don't need a lot of cardio for fat burning as our enforced caloric deficits from the sleeve are already doing that for us, and we get more benefit from building/preserving muscle mass to enhance our metabolism and burn more calories long term. I tend to combine the two with circuit work by switching between muscle groups rather than resting between sets. There are rules of thumb all over the place for the amount of Protein that we need, but it's hard to see any of us needing more than something in the low 100's. Someone into serious body building may need more than that, but the consensus of those not into selling protein supplements seems to fall into the 160-200g per day range being the most that anyone can benficially use. Our (wife and I) trainer is fine with the 100g per day range for our moderate strengthening/toning. I would agree that generally the free weights are preferred for providing compound movements and strengthening, though the machines are great early on for isolating muscle groups and avoiding over-doing the abs and core when that part is still healing (never did like hernias!) Our trainer is big on core work, but we mix it up between free weights, machines, TRX, and stretching/flexibility work.
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What Is The Limit On How Many Grams Of Fat We Can Have A Day?
RickM replied to AllForMy4's topic in Food and Nutrition
I was typically running in the 30-40g of fat per day, with some days down in the 20's and others in the 50's. I didn't control fat or carbs, just protein and overall calories and trying to maximize the nutrition within those limits. I don't/didn't specifically try to go low fat, but at 9 calories per g of fat, my brain sure wanted to make the most of those calories, but if your protein and calories are in within your guidelines (or close), go for it. -
Recently Post Op And My Losing As Much As Expected.. Could It Be...?
RickM replied to tiffanye's topic in Gastric Sleeve Surgery Forums
That's right - mostly likely the dreaded three week stall, which hits most everyone to one degree or another. This article - http://www.dsfacts.com/weight-loss-stall-or-plateau.html gives a good explanation of what's happening. The bad news is that when you resume losing it will likely be at a somewhat slower rate, but the good news is that now it will be primarly fat, which is what we are here for in the first place. So rejoice, and enjoy the trip. -
Yes, they're an online product (questproteinbars.com); I haven't found any over the counter retailers for them (though I haven't really looked, either. They do have a spot on their website for inquiries from prospective retailers, so you may find them somewhere) On the other hand, they're local SoCal for us, so you'll get your order in a day or two.
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I had settled on the Pure Protein bars as the best compromise that I had found at 20g protein for 200ish calories, and then I tried the Quest bars. I am now struggling to use up the Pure Protein bars that I still have around. The fiber in the Quest bars is sure a help for many of us who have had problems getting enough in, and most of them have no or minimal sugar alcohols which don't sit well with many people. My wife had settled on the Atkins bars as her favorite meal replacement and has been converted to Quest as well. They are certainly worth getting their sample box and explore their flavors. Even their unusual flavors like lemon cream pie and cinnimon roll have a quite plausible resemblence to their stated target without any of the odd flavors that are common to protein bars.
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How Many Calories Should I Be Eating?
RickM replied to jabsimmons's topic in Post-op Diets and Questions
This is another area where there is a fair bit of variation between plans and individuals. Some plans limit calories to 6-800 per day and ultra low carb, while others are less specific and people doing well at 1000-1200 per day. A lot of it depends on individual metabolic rate, how much one needs to lose and individual activity levels. I was a relative lightweight at a BMI of about 42 and around 100lb to lose, averaged 1100 calories per day without any particular regard to carbs and got to goal in 7-8 months. Most tracking programs will throw up some warnings at very low intake levels, as those are generally unsafe without proper medical supervision (surgery or no surgery.) The very low calorie levels can lead to various nutrient deficiencies that need to be monitored which we presumably are getting one way or another; the more restricted our diets, the more the need for wider monitoring to keep things in check. -
Almost One Year Out..what Are You Eating?
RickM replied to Sara Ann's topic in Post-op Diets and Questions
The stock answer from many on these boards is that anything over 6-800 calories or 40g of carbs will bury any chances of weight loss for the rest of your life, and while I have never been an adherent of such extremes, it does seem to me to be on the high side for continued weight loss for the majority of us, though that can be quite dependent upon activity levels - some who are budding marathoners may require quite a bit more while still losing. I also had about 100lb to lose and I averaged around 1100 calories thru most of my loss period and never tried to limit carbs, preferring to maintain a better nutritional balance within our Protein limits; I typically ran 80-100g carbs in the first few months, rising to the 120 range later on as I selectively added more complex carbs to better fuel workouts - timing of that intake seemed to make a bigger difference to me for that function than overall carb level. A pre-workout meal/snack of moderatly high complex carb (like in the mid-20's), moderate protein and low to moderate fat is a common fitness nutrition guideline. I adopted a small sandwich of whole grain bread with some meat and cheese an hour or two before a workout as a workable solution for me. Crackers and light cheese was another suggestion by my RD. That strategy seems to work well if I'm swimming beyond a mile at a time, but doesn't seem to make much difference on days that I do strength training, even though those workouts are also in the 60-90 minute range. As a reference point now that I transitioning into maintenance mode, I have lately been running around 15-1600 calories and 150g carbs and 120g protein, and talking to my RD today we are looking to move toward 1800 cal and 180 carbs to stabilize things and move away from supplements to the extent possible, so at least with my metabolism, moving into the 1400 cal range would certainly have slowed me down. Some people find that they stall out if they move beyond the very low cal/carb limits quoted in some plans; some find that they stall out at those low levels and need to boost their intake to break stalls. What are your typical recent cal/carb levels? If you are running in the 1000 cal range, it might be helpful to boost your intake toward your NUT's suggestion temporarily to see if that gets things moving, or dropping things a couple hundred cal to see it that stimulates things - change of some sort is often useful in breaking stalls. Going too low can sometimes be counterproductive as that can slow down your metabolism, while increasing activity or exertion levels can increase metabolism. I found after 2-3 months that I had lost enough weight that low level exercise like walking lost a lot of its value as my heartrate for a given pace had dropped substantially - I could no longer get my heartrate up into that recommended 80% max rate range for heart health and fat burning. It's something that just crept up on me - it sure didn't feel much different but the monitor sure knew the difference, so that's something to check on, and another reason to change up the workout routine. Good luck in working this thru, -
Does Your Schedule And Amount Of Food Change
RickM replied to SleeveDreamer's topic in Food and Nutrition
I have never been restricted on liquids, even in the hospital, though some do have a harder time with them (a tighter pyloris, perhaps?) I don't restrict liquids before eating since they go right thru me, but do wait the half hour or so to drink eating (if I remember, which I usually do.) I may occasionally take a sip of Water while eating if necessary. Early on, a cup of milk with Protein powder was no problem at a sitting, and I often made a 2 cup batch with the second cup reserved for later if I needed more protein. On the other hand, when my wife went thru this a few years ago, she was pretty much restricted to her nominal stomach size in liquid capacity which meant that her Protein shakes had to be overly concentrated for her to get in the protein she needed, while mine could be relatively dilute with other flavors added to make them more palatable (even tasty.) That's just from the variations in how our bodies respond to the procedure. I was probably a couple months out when I was shifting from sipsipsipping water to drinking more normally (and being able to take pills several at a time rather than one at a time, sipsipsip), and not long after that when I was drinking pretty much the same as pre-op when exercising (I was never into chugging in college, so that level of drinking was never normal for me!) I often eat more than 4 oz at a meal (i'm about 8 months out and at goal, but this has applied for many months) but am still restricted to about 3 oz of firm protein. If I cut that back to 2 oz of meat, I can add in around 3-4 oz or more of veg to make a salad, stew, chili, or stir fry. I've never had much of a problem getting in the protein (doc started adding veg to my diet at day 10), so I can cheat some on the "protein first" rule if I know how much I will be getting in for that meal and the day. There are lots of things that are so-called "sliders" because they slide on thru your pyloris, and many consider them to be an evil thing, which they are if one is talking about twinkies as sliders. But if one is talking about veg and some fruits that are very nutrient rich and low in calories, then they're a nutritional bonus that helps you on your way to normalcy. I have long had a snack of 4oz of greek yogurt along with a couple oz of berries and some chopped almonds. So, it's mostly a matter of how different foods fit you comfortably, and fitting them within whatever calorie (and carb, if you are into that,) restrictions you are using. -
I would second (or third,) the motion for the Y if you have one in your area. When my wife and I started getting serious about this before her WLS some years ago, we joined the Y to start the insurance required diet/exercise program. The first time we drove into the parking lot we saw a morbidly obese woman walking in, and said to ourselves, "this is the place!" Most of them (at least in our region) have a special introductory program for those just starting out, providing some individual instruction using a separate workout room and machines so one isn't so intimidated by working out in the main room with all the mirrors (which I always called the "Narcissus room"). Overall, a very friendly environment.