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Had to adopt that attitude years ago. Too many people live there lives for intertain others. I live for ME, I'm not selfish at all, I love people, but going broke to please other people is not only rediculous but in sane! I've make my gifts, give them when I feel like it, not on a specific day of the year. I dress the way that I am comfortable, I love my friends, my family, and my co-workers. And they accept me as I am, as I do them. Anyone who doesn't do that, is NOT your friend. Be who you are, never what someone else what's you to be. You'll never be happy any other way.

I ask my husband once when we were dating, "will you tell me if I do anything that aggravates you or that you don't like?" he said "no" I said "why" he said. " I want youto be who you are, if I can't deal with that, then I don't need to be with you, You are who you are". I loved that attitude and we've been happily married for 7 years.

Keep you chin up girl....OXOXOX back atcha !!!

Judy

something else I meant to say, I have always been a compulsive over eater my entire life. Old habits die hard. That is why I had surgery.

I am addicted to food. This has been very hard for me, but I'm making it. thanks again

Hi Chanie, thank you for your sweet message. I probably won't be posting for a while after tonight. I posted the last one before I read the reply from Tracy. She really hurt my feelings. I've never done this before, meaning WLS, I'm not the only cheater on this forum. And there are many hypocondriacs as well. Every one learns from they're mistakes. But that was pretty harsh. I will definatly keep my comments and post to myself from now on. I really don't want to be here anymore. But thank you for your support. I really appreciate it.

Hey Girl...where are you? Are you doing ok?