mumof2boys

Hey there folks...just a little weekend update. Had yet another wonderful weekend (no drama this time). Went to the Redskins game yesterday...finally...a win. I found out that the Super Stalker Ex-girlfriend has been running her mouth about me...I think it's pretty funny. She's very immature and can't let it go. Apparently she called me a dog on her facebook wall. Pretty funny, given the fact that she's a hot mess:tt2:. Anyway...my "friends" daughter has asked me to take her shopping for a homecoming dress. His kids adore me and I think it's just wonderful. Things are looking great...just gotta really get working on the divorce papers. I'm preparing for the Breast Cancer walk that starts on Friday. I'm 50% through my fundraising goals...got lots of work to do to get there but I can do it. Wish me luck guys. Thanks again to all of you for being here for me...I appreciate it.

Hello everyone. My name is Tina and I have been on this board for over two years now and have met some amazing people. I wanted to reach out to everyone in an effort to get some support for the upcoming 3-Day Breast Cancer walk that I will be participating in. I did the walk last year and enjoyed every minute of it. Because I have lost the weight and I have the ability to walk 60 miles, I want to continue doing this walk for as long as I can. I am asking that you please support my fundraising efforts so that I can participate. I must meet a minimum of $2,300 in donations or I cannot participate. The walk is October 9-11 and I have quite a ways to go before getting to my fundraising goal. If you are able to make a donation, regardless of size, I ask that you visit my web page at: Welcome to the Washington DC Breast Cancer 3-Day: I appreciate your attention and pray that my fellow lapbanders can help me. Thanks again.

Thanks, Val. Every little bit helps. I truly appreciate it. I'm so determined to get to that amount so I can walk. I'm so excited but a little nervous that I'm doing it by myself this year. Last year I put together a team and there were five of us walking together...this year I'm all alone. Wish me luck.

Alright, just a little update. I never responded to her messages and I know that's just burning her up. I don't believe her and I know that she's very desperate to come between us and I'm not going to let that happen. She is off the hook and needs to move on. I'm still enjoying life and smiling all the time. I am concentrating on getting my divorce papers done so that they can be filed so I can get divorced in March. We're trying to do things ourselves so we can save money and not pay an attorney. It's such a headache and part of me just wants to pay someone to do it for me but I don't have the money. Anyone out there do it themselves and live in Maryland? I sure could use some advice. Thanks, guys.

So...the walk begins in 11 days and I still have a long way to go before reaching the minimum goal set by the walk. I'm asking you guys for your help. Participating in this walk is very important to me...I really want to do it again. Last year was very inspiring and I can't wait to participate again. If you are interested in donating, please follow the link on the post above and it will take you to my page. I thank everyone in advance and I hope you all wish me luck. Thanks, guys!

I copied both messages into an email and sent them to him. I believe him...I have no reason not to. I have seen first hand that she is absolutely CRAZY. Remember when I posted about her showing up at his work at 2:00 am? I was sitting right there...she put a CD on his car and peeled out of the parking lot...she's a nut. He blocked her number from his cell phone because she wouldn't stop texting him (he was ignoring her and it drove her crazy). So...after he blocked her number from his phone, she began texting his children so he blocked her number from their phones too. Now...she has no other way to get to him except to get to me. My profile is set to private but on FB you can send a message to anyone. She's truly a hot mess and I feel bad for even letting her get to me like this. I did not respond to her because that's what she wants...she wants to get to me and I'm not going to give her the satisfaction. He's so upset and so is his entire family. She's 24 and very immature and she has a 6 year old child (father took off...she got pregnant after dating him for about a month). Anyway...found out that after she had the baby she sent a dirty diaper to the father in the mail...she's CRAZY. I'm just hoping that I don't come home to a rabbit boiling on my stove. Oh...he knows what I have been through...he has been through it too...his wife cheated on him for almost two years and up and left him and his kids for her boyfriend...

Good morning my friends. Had a fantastic weekend...my and my kids hung out with him and his kids and everything went wonderful. Things are going soooo very good, until last night. Stalker bitch sent me two messages on Facebook telling me that he cheated on me with her. Now...I know that she's a crazy psycho bitch but of course all of those feelings came crashing right over me again. I believe him...I have no reason not too and I have even seen this crazy psycho in action and I shouldn't even think twice about what she has to say but given my past I can't help it. What do I do? I didn't respond to her because that's what she wants. She's crazy because she can't have him. What do you guys think? What should I do? I hate this. I really know in my heart that it's not true but damn...what the hell... All advice is welcome...

I know...he is a hottie, isn't he? :thumbdown: I love that bald head...bald is beautiful! I have ALWAYS had a thing for bald guys (the ex made fun of me...who's laughing now :thumbup:) I'm so giddy and always smiling...I love life!

Hey there ladies...sorry I haven't been on in a while...I'm completely consumed right now spending all my extra time with my "friend". Damn...life couldn't be any better right now (unless my divorce was already final). So...below you will see 2 pics of my man...he is by far the absolute BEST thing that could have happened to me. I cannot even tell you just how awesome he is.

WOW!!!! What a fantastic birthday. I wish I would have gotten online before this past weekend because I so would have told you guys where he's a bouncer because I was there ALL weekend. It's a restaurant/tiki bar in Maryland (Newburg). Saturday night the band sang happy birthday to me after midnight and Sunday was just off the hook...it was so crowded...it was an amazing time. I had a great birthday. One bit of drama though...I was waiting for him in the parking lot after hours (in my car...parked next to his) and some crazy chick came up and sat in her car in front of his...she eventually got out and put something on his windshield (a CD) and drove off like a bat out of hell...she was an ex-girlfriend who is pissed because I'm in the picture :sad: Anyway...he had to set her butt straight and tell her that if she contacted him again he would get a restraining order...she's pretty psycho...I was ready to go home cuz I told him that I didn't have room for any more drama in my life. He got pretty upset and said that I didn't have to worry about it...he would handle it...and he did! So...happy birthday to me! I have a great man!!! :mad:

Well...pics, huh? Let's see, if I can't post pics, you can go see him...he's not too far from you...he lives in King George.

Hey there everyone...how's it going? Thanks for your donations...they are greatly appreciated. So...here's the latest with me...after that horrible week that I had, life has taken a turn back to happiness. I cannot explain just how happy I am. My "friend" is the best thing that has happened to me since the birth of my children. :mad: He is so damn incredible. His children are wonderful too. In fact, his daughter took some of my pictures off of my facebook page and dolled them all up and made an album of me on her facebook page...I shed a tear. I never knew that such happiness existed. So...this coming Sunday is my birthday and I'm getting very excited. Birthdays usually aren't a big deal for me but knowing just how happy I am right now I can only imagine how wonderful my day is going to be. I want to thank all of you guys again for being my back bone and support during this very rough time in my life. I see nothing but a bright future ahead of me. I am working on a rough draft of the divorce papers so that we can file them very soon...after filing them we will have a limited divorce and then in March we can get an absolute divorce. This coming Monday is the 6 month anniversary of him being out of the house...I'm half the way there before my absolute divorce and I couldn't be more excited. I know in my heart that I have made the right choice. I know that I would have never been truly happy in my marriage because of all of the horrible things that happened. I would rather be alone for the right reasons than with him for the wrong. So...to sum it up...I'm one happy camper...woo hoo :thumbup:

Thanks...the burial was very difficult for me but it was necessary. She was my only "daughter"...it was horrible. The man in my life...smokin' hot! He doesn't think so but I do. Funny thing...the night that we met, we stood there are talked for hours (he's a bouncer at one of the places that I go to listen to bands). When I left for the night I told my friend...GIVE HIM MY NUMBER. I have NEVER done that before. Well, low and behold, he texted me two days later and everything since then has been amazing. I didn't know that people like him actually existed. A link to my page for the 3-day walk is: Welcome to the Washington DC Breast Cancer 3-Day: I truly appreciate any assistance that you can provide. I have received about 5 donations from my buddys here on this site...all of you are just wonderful. Thanks again...maybe I'll post a picture of my "friend" :thumbup:

Thanks everyone. Just when I thought things were bad, they got worse. I got home from work yesterday and when I walked in the house it smelled something horrible...the basement had flooded...my fault...I didn't clean the drain at the bottom of the door after cutting the grass (so much to remember since I do everything myself). So...as if that weren't bad enough...here comes the real tough part...I went outside to feed my other dog...well...my POS that I was married to didn't burry my other dog deep enough and there she was...laying on the top of the group following all the rain we just had. I had to dig her up and re-burry her. It was absolutely HORRIBLE. He didn't even wrap her in anything...how cruel. My poor baby didn't even have a proper burial until yesterday. It was one of the hardest things that I had to do. Can you believe it? What the hell is wrong with him? Well...luckily I got through it. My "friend" offered to come do it for me but there's no way I could allow him to do that. He wanted to drop everything he was doing and drive an hour to my house to help me. What a complete sweetheart...at least I have a couple of good things going on in my life...him being one of them. Well...that's about all I have for today, aside from the fact that I have to really rev-up my fundraising efforts so I can do the 3-day walk in October. So much has been going on I have been slacking...it's full speed ahead now...I must do this walk. Thanks everyone for allowing this to be a place for me to be relaxed and vent. You have no idea how wonderful it feels. You guys are the best.

Welcome, Sammy and good luck with whatever decision you make. My only regret is that I didn't have the procedure years earlier. The lapband, along with my will to make it work, has improved my life in ways that I cannot describe. I am the happiest that I have ever been and I feel so very healthy. I know that I will be around much longer now. If you have any questions, I will be glad to help you the best that I can. Good luck.

So...after the horrible weekend that I had...went home yesterday only to find my dog died. She was a Siberian Husky and her name was Denali. I have had her for 9 years. I adopted her when she was four. I got her from a rescue. My other husky is so lonely. I'm so sad...

Hi everyone. Right now I'm at my wits ends. My family has totally turned against me...views me as a failure (among other not so nice names). My brother came after me like a raging maniac on Sunday...screaming and cussing at me...I tell ya...what a life I lead. My ex is NO help to me whatsoever and I'm on the verge of cracking. The good things in my life right now...this board so I can unload and my wonderful, loving friends. The man in my life is beyond wonderful and I can't believe just how great he is being to me...he was sent to me at the absolute perfect time in my life. Without him and my friends I would be in a shell again. Right now I just want to scream...my ex has gone off the deep end and I'm ready to beat the crap out of him. I can't even say any more right now because I'm gonna lose it. Thanks for being an avenue for me to vent. I truly appreciate each one of you.

Hi everyone...just wanted to check in and give you guys an update. I HAVE NEVER BEEN HAPPIER!!!! I went on vacation last week with my boys. We went to North Carolina and stayed with some relatives. We had a wonderful time...they are on vacation this week with their dad so I'm home by myself. So...while I was out of town, my ex was at a bar with a chick. My friends happened to be there and saw him...they snapped pics with their cell phone and sent it to me. I laughed...I am sooooo much hotter than her and I was just loving it (I have never said that about myself...lol). The funniest part of it...they were at the bar where my new "friend" does security (he's a bouncer there). So...my "friend" tells me the following week that he's there again...too funny. I told him...you should kick him out...tell him no a-holes allowed. He said, are you kidding...I want to go thank him for being such an idiot...I wouldn't have you in my life if he wasn't such a loser. I cannot begin to tell you guys just how wonderful this man is...he was married for 13 years and has two children. He's only one year younger than me (there goes my cougar status). He has custody of his children...his wife cheated on him for the last 2 years of their marriage and she left him for her boyfriend. WOW...how much more could we have in common, right? Well...guess what...he's coming to my house tonight and I'm making him dinner. I haven't had a "date" in 14 years. I'm all giddy...Oh...did I mention that he's smokin' hot???? Well...that's the latest on me...I'm on cloud nine right now and loving every single minute of it. I'm enjoying every little aspect of it. I will continue to keep you guys posted on how I'm doing...without you guys I probably would have been nuts by now. Oh...that reminds me...went to my shrink yesterday and told him that I stopped taking my meds about a month ago and I think I'm doing fine...he agreed and I don't have to go back to him...so...turns out I'm not crazy after all... Thanks you guys...you all rock!

Everyones skin reacts differently. Personally, I have lost 131 pounds and I recently had PS. I had a lower body lift and breast lift with augmentation. Following the birth of my first child, my tummy fell to the ground...some people have great elasticity while others (like me) do not. Best of luck to you!

Didn't get the job...neither did my co-worker..she's hiring two people who have never done this work before...gotta love government politics, huh? I hate this place.

Thanks everyone...and Plain...u r too funny! So...got some good news today...went for a follow-up with my PS...no fluid build up in my back so I don't have to go back for a month...woo hoo... I hope that the good news continues...I have a meeting with my boss today at 11:45...it's to discuss her selection for the higher paying position in our office that I applied for...if I get the position I will get an $11,000 a year increase in pay...I don't have a good feeling about it but stranger things have happened, huh? Wish me luck...I'll get back on later and let you guys know...don't hold your breath though...don't have a great feeling about it.