mumof2boys

Hi everyone...just wanted to check in and say that I'm alright. I have not seen him but I sure have heard from him. My cell phone blows up constantly and one minute he's calling me a whore and the next minute I'm the love of his life. He has begged for me to take him back but it's just not gonna happen. I have a very good support system and I'll be alright. He even posted on FB yesterday that I was a ho. He swears that I have someone "waiting in the wings" for me. I never thought that he would be like this. A part of me feels bad for him (although please don't even think that I would go back there because I would never). I think that he has the potential to be a wonderful person but not the person for me. He entered into counseling but unfortunately for him, it was too late to have a shot at a life with me. I appreciate your comments and concerns. I'm doing well. My boys and I are going on vacation soon and I can't wait. Life is stressful through this time but it's nothing that I can't handle. I have police on standby, if necessary. Thanks again, ladies...you guys have been here for me through some really tough times and I appreciate you all so very much.

I'm at work right now and have no way home to change the locks. My dad is home and he lives right next door so he knows to look out. My boys are not with me this weekend...they are with their dad. I probably will not go home all weekend. The alarm is set at my house so if he does happen to get in, he can't turn it off and if he does remember the code to the alarm, he doesn't know the password nor is he on the list of people to contact so when he says who he is (if he were to answer the phone when the alarm company called), the police would still go there because he's not authorized. I just can't believe all of this...after the converstaion on the phone this morning I am still getting text messages from him. I have not blocked his number from my phone because I need these messages as evidence...he has gone nuts. I have told numerous friends and family what is going on too so that everyone is aware. I have some friends that are police officers so I may have one of them escort me to my house. All of this is just so damn crazy to me...he cracked like a whip.

So....here I go again...it's been a long time since I have posted and MUCH has happened (again). Well...the honeymoon is definitely OVER with the bf. He turned out to be very controlling and I was not going to have that in my life so I broke it off. Well...he wanted no parts of breaking it off and he went NUTS. He threatened me, called me a whore and an alcoholic. He said that he has pictures and he's calling my ex-husband and he'll make sure that I never see my kids again...says that these "pictures" show me drunk and that he will prove to my ex-husband that I'm an unfit mother. I'm sitting at work right now crying and wondering how did I get my life to turn out like this? Am I that bad of a person? So...there's more...a couple of months ago I took out a personal loan so he could get a vehicle because his credit is horrible and he wrecked his car on the ice and he didn't have money for another one. Looks like I won't see that money, huh? I did have him sign a promisory note but we'll see how that works out. He has the keys to my house and the garage door opener. I'm actually scared to go home from work...how did this happen? Well friends...I sure could use some good vibes to be sent to me right now...I NEED them badly!

I had a lower body lift and breast lift with augmentation in one 5-6 hour surgery. The total costs was $19,600.

I had horrible hair experience. My hair starting thinning after I lost about 50 pounds...tried everything but nothing worked. I have read on here that some do lose hair and some don't. I have always had thin hair so you could really notice it when it was thinning. However...for the past year, my hair has been thick and curly and it's never been like that in my entire life. Plus...the thinning of the hair was well worth the thinning of my body at the same time. I can understand your concern but if it does happen to you, it won't be very long and you could come up with different styles to "mask" it. Best of luck to you!:thumbup:

WOW!!!! Lucky you...I paid for the entire $19,600 for my lower body lift and breast lift with augmentation and I would do it all over again :biggrin: Good luck!

Well...here's my story... April 30, 2007, I had lapband surgery...the best decision that I have made in my life...I was 275 pounds. April 14, 2008, received a telephone call while at work from my husband that he had been having an affair for the last year and a half. Like you...divorce wasn't really an option for me...I was determined to make my marriage work. I immediately started individual counseling and marriage counseling in an effort to save the marriage (for my children). During the time that we were in counseling, I learned some very unfortunately things about the man that I called my husband. I spoke to his "girlfriend" on the telephone and I gotta tell you...what a low class gutter rat she was...she was married with 3 children of her own but that's an entirely different story that I won't bore you with. It was also learned, through talking to her, that during their affair, he told her EVERYTHING about me. That skank new that I was having lapband surgery...knew when I lost 50 pounds, you name it...thinking about it makes me sick. My "husband" had ads on the internet seeking other women, secret email accounts, you name it...he was doing it. January 2009...asked husband to leave...I had NO feelings for him and didn't want to be with him...he was a vile human being in my eyes. March 8, 2009...husband moved out. April 2009...had lower body lift and breast lift with augmentation May 26, 2010...DIVORCED...woo hoo. Now...with that being said, I'm not suggesting a divorce for anyone, but in my situation, it was by far the best thing for me and my kids. My exhusband makes me sick. He's totally hating life now...lonely and has a HOT ex wife (:smile2:) So...in essence, having the lapband saved me...I had to self esteem to get through it all...I was able to make it through it all because I felt good about myself. I wish you the best of luck and I'm here if you need anyone to talk to...no matter what you decide...you can be happy...I'm living proof.

I am just over 3 years out and it's the best thing that I have ever done in my life (besides divorcing my cheating husband). I have had no problems until a couple of months ago...had a slight overfill and had problems with reflux. I'm doing great and loving life.

It totally depends on your skin type. Unfortunately, I still have my cottage cheese thighs