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lmattera

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  1. Yes I felt very guilty before and a little bit after surgery. I always struggled with me weight and I always wondered why God "blessed" me with weight issues. I was afraid to tell a lot of my church friends (who are all skinny, who always told me God made me beautiful, not fat) but when I told them they were even more supportive than my family. I'm 2 months post-op and I have lost 17 pounds, the most I've ever lost before was 12 pounds doing weight watchers 3 years ago (which I gained it all back, and then some). I know I couldn't have done it without surgery. I (and I'm sure you are too) did it for health reasons, not just cosmetic. This way I can live a longer, healthier life and spend more time on this earth being the best child of God I can be.

    Best wishes and prayers to you.


  2. Thanks guys, I guess I was just freaking out because I remember my surgeon said something about constant hiccups could be a sign of a possible slip. I'm seeing him Wednesday so I'll bring it up then. I was just nervous because nothing was in my stomach so I couldn't be too full haha.


  3. Hi everyone. I was banded on feb 15th and this morning instead of eating something I decided I was going to have a glass of Water with my Calcium and Multivitamin tablets before i ate something. Doing so I got nauseous and lied down. And then I got the hiccups and they have been ongoing now for the past 15 minutes. I'm so terrified that this is moving my band or something because its only been 2 weeks! Am I screwed? Did I just mess up my band?


  4. I am having just the lap band. I am also most nervous for not being able to have the same relationship with food as I used to. But I know I need to change, and I know I need to use food from a nutrition stand point and not for comfort. The pre op diet has actually helped with the transition. I'm really looking forward to starting a new life with the band!


  5. Lol I didn't realize the forum censored certain words lol. I feel like all of my skinny friends take wearing certain things for granted. Like heels, bathing suits, skinny jeans etc. I pretty much only wear sweat pants right now because I'm uncomfortable in other clothes, but I know that will all change in a couple of months :)


  6. My mom had gastric bypass 7 years ago and her surgeon told her the exact opposite, to not stop smoking right before the surgery because her veins and arteries would constrict and make the surgery a lot more difficult. The morning of her surgery was her last cigarette because after the surgery she had no desire to smoke. She actually got sick when we took her home in her car she always smoked in because of the smell. Maybe your surgeon wanted you to quit a month before your surgery so your veins and arteries wouldn't constrict? That's the only thing I can think of.


  7. I'm getting banded on feb 15th and I have been super nervous for the past week. I guess I thought getting approved would be too good to be true, and nothing good ever happens to me. I honestly was not expecting to be approved because I've been trying to lose weight for 10 years and have never lost a pound. I keep thinking maybe I should stay the way I am now, unhealthy and overweight because I love food so much. Even though a day doesn't go by with me thinking about losing weight and becoming healthy, it would be so much easier to stay fat forever. I don't want to do this, I have to do this. I know I have to change and as scary as it may be, I know the lap band and committing to this new life style will only reap benefits. You got this girl!!


  8. Congrats on deciding to change your life. I was banded at 22. I've lost over 140lbs and am living a healthy lifestyle. It isn't easy but I have no regrets whatsoever.

    I did have some of the same fears you do. It's funny - I was judged my whole life for being a fat person' date=' I was judged for getting WLS, and now I am judged for being "too skinny". Everyone always has an opinion. My boss tried to convince me not to have the surgery. One of the bariatric doctors told me I would fail because I was "too young" and would not take it seriously. Post weight loss, I have had supposed friends say I am now competition for them, that I only lost weight to get a man, that I eat weird, and looked better heavier.

    So basically, you cannot please everyone. Going through this process has empowered me in a way I've never experienced before. I am ok if people don't agree with every decision, because I love this healthy body of mine. Remember - YOU are the one who has to live in your body! If you let friends or family dissuade you from making the needed changes, you are the one who has to live with your decisions, not them.

    If you ever need support, we are all here for you. :)

    Sorry I went on a tangent. I am very passionate about this topic. lol[/quote']

    Don't be sorry!! That's was the greatest bundle of truth :) It's so true- I've been judged for being fat and getting wls and I wouldn't be surprised once I'm thinner if I get judged for that also. All of my thin friends say I'm not "that fat" which I guess they think is a compliment but I'm convinced they don't want to lose their fat friend (Moesha anyone?). Maybe it's because for the longest time I judged myself that I couldn't do it on my own. But I'm not anymore. I'm proud of myself for committing to this difficult yet necessary change. I just wonder why everyone thinks their opinion of a topic they know nothing about is going to decide what I should do with my life and health.


  9. Those are good points, yes the first month is all about recovery and getting used to it, so it can feel uncomfortable In the beginning. Also the 2 that had the sleeve that were already complaining about it were friends of my mom, and she doesn't want me to have wls so she may have exaggerated in order to scare me (which won't work, lol).


  10. I've been debating between the 2 also. I like the band because there is no re-routing or removing things, but I heard the sleeve reduces sweet cravings (I have a huge sweet tooth) and the part of the stomach removed is the part that controls hunger cravings (I don't know how true is this, this is just what someone told me). If I could get rid of cravings I think that it would be more beneficial than just restriction. But 2 people I have talked to that had the band said the first month was miserable, They couldn't keep anything down. I go to school full time so I can't take that much time off to recover, so recovery time is a factor too. But I know whatever decision I make as long as I'm committed to change I will be successful.


  11. I'm getting banded on feb 15th!! As excited as I am for this life changing event, I am pretty nervous for life with the band. I'm not so worried about the surgery itself but for the lifestyle changes afterwards. But hey if I didn't need to change my ways then I wouldn't be needing this surgery. This isn't something I want to do, but it is something I need to do. I can't keep living like this. I considered lap band over a year ago but now I am truly ready and committed to changing my life.

    Good luck to all of you!!

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