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Thanks Sissy! I understand in a sense their side but its so irritating when people assume u r weak .i guess when it comes to food I am! He just isn't open minded to anything he doesn't agree with or understand ..and that is frustrating! I'm hoping when I reach my goal weight oneday when the surgery actually happens he will see me happy !thanks what I'm banking on anyway;-)

Wow!! Congrats!!!! Will b praying for u!! Keep us all posted!

Anyone using him?or used him? I got to him today and I'm super excited!

Any one have bcbs peehip alabama? Just wondering how easy/ difficult they are to work with and get approved?

Aww Ty!! I have been praying hard about this journey.. I just want to be healthy & happy! I am a believer in Christ and I know He will guide me every step of the way! Congrats to u keep me posted on ur progress! Ty again for ur sweet words!:-)

I have bcbs alabama hopefully they will b easy to deal with: praying!

I think that anyone who has never struggled with their weight seems to be the most "judgmental".the only people who know I going to do this is my hubby &my oldest daughter ,I am a mom of 4.my daughter is super supportive.My dad would flip..due to worry,my in laws would just tell me how stupid I was..and just lose it naturally..easy comming from a mom n law who has been tiny her whole life.i am 5'8 and never know what it was like to be in her shoes..I just want to be happy and healthy in my own skin without worrying about people's comments ..this is why I have chosen to be selective about who I tell!

I had to attend a seminar my appoint with surgeon is tomorrow..they also require me to go to one support group in which they provide you with a certificate to prove you go.i def.think everyone should go to the seminars they are very helpful.

Lawd lol u could b right! He's my younger man tho!! Lol

Ty ladies;-) y'all r right I am sure. I just want this so badly and it can be a little hurtful sometimes.i started my 6 month diet on oct.6..I go to surgeon for first visit tomorrow(superexcited) hubby never ask any info therefore I am not forth comming of any..I told him ill just let him know when my day of surgery is! Lol love this forum!

Ty girl! Wow congrats to u ! Wish my day was tomorrow! I really believe he's worried but he's just negative about things like that ..it is very hurtful! Thanx again for ur words! Keep us up to date on ur progress! Will b praying and thinking of u!!

Just curious what insurance u have? Congrats! I go to my first appoint tomorrow my insurance requires 6 month supervised diet which I started oct9...so I am in the beginning stages!

Ok my husband has somewhat resided to the fact I AM Doing this! Now that I am the insurance provider ..before he was and refused for me to do the surgery..he let me know really quick today I was taking the "easy way out".while I some what understand this mentality ..I just don't understand why he can see how important this is to me? Our marriage in my eyes is secure we have a great and I do mean great relationship .anyone else going or gone thru this?