runrunpasspunt
-
Content Count
12 -
Joined
-
Last visited
Reputation Activity
-
runrunpasspunt got a reaction from pastor o in Unsupportive Wife
First of all, I love my wife. She does not yet know that i have decided to have the lapband procedure. I have brought the subject up but she quickly dismisses it. She doesn't understand (she has never had a problem with her weight) and she is not interested in listening to me. Part of this is my fault because of all the diets i have been on and failed. When i talk about the lapband she says stuff like "just excersize more and eat less." While that is something i need to do, it is not that simple.
My wife also can' t keep a secret. I can't tell her anything i would like kept confidential because she tells her aunt, mother and sister everything. They are not people i want to know about what i am doing. They are not always positive influences.
I am moving forward without my wife's support. I feel bad that i have to do this alone but i know i can do it and when the time is right, i will tell her, i just need to be prepared to deal with all the side show crap that will come from her side of our family.
Thanks for listening. Any help is appreciated!
-
runrunpasspunt got a reaction from Brandi's Banded in Unsupportive Wife
My wife and I have talked more, she only wants the best for me. We know someone who died with complications from wls (not lapband). She is scared, I don't blame her. I think everything is going to be ok, I need to make sure I do a better job of explaining the what & why 's of lapband
-
runrunpasspunt got a reaction from Brandi's Banded in Unsupportive Wife
My wife and I have talked more, she only wants the best for me. We know someone who died with complications from wls (not lapband). She is scared, I don't blame her. I think everything is going to be ok, I need to make sure I do a better job of explaining the what & why 's of lapband
-
runrunpasspunt got a reaction from Brandi's Banded in Unsupportive Wife
My wife and I have talked more, she only wants the best for me. We know someone who died with complications from wls (not lapband). She is scared, I don't blame her. I think everything is going to be ok, I need to make sure I do a better job of explaining the what & why 's of lapband
-
runrunpasspunt got a reaction from Brandi's Banded in Unsupportive Wife
My wife and I have talked more, she only wants the best for me. We know someone who died with complications from wls (not lapband). She is scared, I don't blame her. I think everything is going to be ok, I need to make sure I do a better job of explaining the what & why 's of lapband