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lynn2win

Gastric Sleeve Patients
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  1. Hello guys for those with Aetna if you were denied was it because of recent weight gain.. I did my last weigh in and I told them its the time of the month and also going through other things I put on couple of lbs I wanted to scream..but I hope I don't get denied I will prob be devasted...thanks for any help!


  2. Thanks Janet I do still try to talk to her...I was driving to work yesterday and I have been saying please send me a sign your out their and then I was driving and said send me a sign( but actually from a song) and a big flew right in front of my car and then when I turned the corner a bird flew again....yes I still cry multiple times a day and I asked her to send me a good friend and also great husband to marry....I wish she was still here I have no one to go to for advice,,,even though she was older than I...she was still my best buddy.... I need to get motivated and get out of the house I just work and come home and lay in my bed...Thanks again everyone

    Lynn, I had tears rolling down my face when I read your post. I did the exact same thing when my best friend passed away from breast cancer. It changed my life forever. Our husbands were best friends, our kids were best friends, we went to church together, we celebrated holidays together....then she died and everything changed. I was in denial when she got sick and was in shock when she died... it took so long to find a sense of normalcy again but it did come eventually with time. Yeah, you are going to miss her a lot and that empty hole in your heart is going to seem so vast but through the grief process you will learn to fill that hole with new relationships and new experiences. That doesn't mean you will ever forget her...you will keep her with you forever but you will become more open to other friendships. It is so wonderful to have a friend in life that you have been able to love so deeply...many people never get that opportunity. It will get better with time but in the meantime...it is perfectly okay to cry. Keep talking to her because I bet she still hears you. Sending you healing hugs {{{{{ Lynn}}}}} Take care, Janet

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