SweetTee

I'm sorry to hear that you're having to go through that. Be encouraged and trust that all things happen for a reason. I can sympathize with what you're going through.

OMG! I am waiting for that NSV. I'm so tired of having to get my hubby to look down there to see if I shaved good or when I get a hair bump lol

You all look great! I love seeing before and after pics.

You go girl! Great job, you look so happy and amazing. Every time I see someone's before and after photos it gives me the strength to keep pushing forward. Thanks for sharing!

Great job! I can only imagine results like this, you go girl!

Ok so plan for at least 500-700 extra just in case

Yeah unfortunately I don't have a credit card. They are good in emergencies though

Yeah I will also but I wonder how much extra should I bring

I go Feb 21 and I was told the same thing. I did however see on the surgery info I needed to sign that there may be additional cost if you have a hernia, need an extra day in the hospital or anything else. I'm just wondering. I don't have any health problems that I know of, just would hate to get there and need a 1000 more dollars or something like that.

What about additional charges? Did anyone go to Dr Garcia and run into unexpected problems that required more money to correct?

Good for you!

Way to go! I'm so happy for you! I can't even imagine getting to that point.

You look great! And you could have definitely worn your costume out that night.

Good luck on your journey! Keep us posted.

Thanks! It feels so great to finally have a date narrowed down.

I've finally narrowed it down to a definite date. I'm February 21, 2013 with Dr. Garcia. I'm 37 yrs old 5'1, 232#.

Ok, so originally I was pondering having VSG surgery sometime in November (by being in school and working, November looked like a better month for me) then because I was so anxious to have it done I said screw it, I'm going in October. Well wouldn't you know it, I have a serious schedule conflict with every date I have chosen. I haven't changed my Oct 9th date as of yet, but I know I will have to. If I could only pick a time that wouldn't conflict with work and school! With that being said, I may not be an October sleever after all. I'm now extremely frustrated! I won't update again until I'm leaving on a plane! (or at least until a few hours before surgery)! Signed Severly aggravated

I've had 4 c-sections, an appendectomy, a cholecystectomy, and a laparoscopic hysterectomy. I am extremely nervous about possible scar tissue and the sleeve being a lot harder because of it. For those of you that have had the sleeve already did your procedure take longer? Was your recovery harder? I think it was easier for me to get up and move after my 1st c-section because u knew that moving would help my recovery move along faster.

Hi! I'm SweetTee a 37 year old married mother of four(17,16,8,6). I am a Registered Nurse and a full time Family Nurse Practitioner Student residing in Louisiana. I am scheduled for VSG with Dr Garcia at Mi Hospital on October 9, 2012. I am 5'1 at 232 lbs...well actually 226 now. I have started a pre op-pre op diet and managed to lose five lbs. I've been overweight for far to long and I am ready to claim my life back from obesity! I never noticed I no longer had cheek bones and chin bones until I started looking at the before and after pictures of others! WTH, I've been in serious denial of my addiction to food! Can't wait to start a new journey. I'm nervous but ready!

Had to push surgery back a few days due to scheduling conflict. It's Oct 9,2012 now. So that makes 40 days also. Nervous, praying for a successful surgery, and ready to get it done.

First let me start off by saying that I do not condone drug use of any kind. I hear you saying that he's changed and left the drug usage alone however he still smokes weed? Isn't weed considered a drug? In all actuality that would mean he's still on drugs, right? I can only assume that this must mean he was doing some harder drugs at one time. How will you feel about him doing this around your baby once you guys do manage to conceive again, because If he's ready for a family, he has to ask himself if the marijuana usage is more important to him than you. Second, let me say that I try to never tell a married person to leave their spouse. Many people will have various opinions, but the vows you made were for "better or for worse" and I do believe that people can change if they want to. You said that he changed and left the other drugs alone, so I have to believe that he could also leave the marijuana alone. Living with others can place a strain on a marriage. Especially if your family feels compelled to comment on things going on between you guys. But just being totally honest with you, he sounds very immature and a bit controlling if he doesn't want you to spend time with your family, hell you're living with them! How could you possibly not spend time with them? And he's arguing with you cause he can't smoke weed. He shouldn't want to smoke weed in your parent's house out of respect for them and their property! I'm sure he knows that they would not approve. I'm sure he does feel trapped. Hopefully you guys can get your own place sometime soon. Sit your husband down when the two of you can talk rationally and explain to him how you feel. Listen to his concerns and let him know that you are dedicated to this marriage 100%. Explain to him that you understand that he may feel trapped, but you appreciate him making this effort to make the best out of your living situation. Most men need to feel needed. Maybe he feels as if you don't need him since you're with your family now. Mostly explain to him that you don't want to keep argueing. Sometimes in the heat of an arguement, it's best to say "Baby, I love you, but I don't want to keep argueing with you right now." and walk away and give both of you time to calm down. Once you've stepped back, you can sometimes look at things better and think rationally. I pray things get better, because right now you should be focused on recovery. Good luck and God bless.