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Tomander

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  1. I'm thankful I haven't had acid reflux since 3 days after my surgery. I suffered from acid reflux since I was 14... it went away 3 days after I was banded (age 39) and I didn't have a hernia. I was self-pay and if I had known the band would have gotten rid of my acid reflux or reduced it and I would maybe not help me lose weight I think I would still be happy. Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs
  2. I don't get it ??? Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs
  3. Hi Don't be too concerned... you may be losing in inches. Did you take your measurements? Having you been keeping a food journal? Sometimes weight loss kicks in on the second fill. Hang in there and let us know what the doctor says. Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs
  4. I was self-pay... my surgeon was WONDERFUL... I have no regrets at all... only wish I had done it sooner. I think that follow up support is even more important than picking the surgeon. Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs
  5. Jewel... just take it one day at a time. Don't go into this journey saying "i'll never be able to eat this or that ever again"... eat each person is different. I can eat ANYTHING except rice and apple skins... and no carbonated beverages. Have you read the post I posted to New Bandsters? This is great site for information. Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs tomander@bell.net
  6. Great !!! Ask lots of questions !!! Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs
  7. Welcome to "Bandland". This is a great site for information. I've leaned so much over the past 6 years and made some wonderful friends. Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs tomander@bell.net
  8. Hi I’ve been banded just over 6 years and have talked about this here a couple of time but I think it’s worth repeating for new bandsters. Try and take it one day at a time. Don’t compare yourself to others. Don’t go into this journey saying “I’ll never be able to eat this or that ever again.” I can eat ANYTHING except rice and apple skins and no carbonated beverages. Follow the guidelines given to you by your doctor. Remember… take tiny bites (the size of your pinky fingernail) and remember to finish what you have in your mouth before you take your next bite. When I was losing weight I checked in every month with my family doctor to get weighed and measured. (I don’t own scales) I also attended two coffee groups for people that were banded. These things really kept me motivated and on track. I still check in every month with my family doctor to get weighed-in and I host two coffee groups. For me support from fellow bandsters plays a big part in this journey. Back when I was banded my doctor suggested something called the “Egg Timer Distraction”. It’s kind of difficult to explain here but I’d be happy to email you the .pdf document. It REALLY helped me with “head hunger. I can’t tell you the number of people in my lapband coffee groups over the years that have said how helpful this “trick” has been in dealing with their head hunger. Also, I’m not really a “diet” book type person but I recommend you pick up two books. Eat What You Love, Love What You Eat: How to Break Your Eat-Repent-Repeat Cycle – by Dr. Michelle May I had the pleasure of hearing Dr. May speak at a conference when she came to Toronto and her book and guidelines really work well with the lapband journey. The second book is: The End of Overeating: Taking Control of the Insatiable American Appetite – by David L. Kessler Please feel free to e-mail me if you have any questions and also if you would like a copy of the “Egg Timer Distraction Document”. Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs tomander@bell.net
  9. I don't' miss the beer or diet pop at all... I started with a 54" waist... now 32"... I sooner have a smaller waist than a beer ! Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs
  10. I've been banded just over 6 years. I was told no carbonated beverages. I've tired diet pop a beer a couple of times... each time I thought I was going to die...the pain was not worth it. I won't be trying the again. Tom, Toronto Band July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs
  11. I agree... follow the stages your doctor has given you.... don't rush it. Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs
  12. Congratulations !!! Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs
  13. You will do fine... just take it one day at a time. Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss; 156 lbs
  14. Well put ! Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs
  15. I had some restriction even before my first fill and I lost weight... a lot of weight. I had 4 fills in total to reach my "sweet spot". Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs
  16. 5 weeks for me... I was self-pay. Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs
  17. Hi Sometimes people notice a change in the fill a few days later... it may take a few days for the fill to "kick in". Were you told to go on Clear liquids for 24 hours after a fill. I had 4 fills in total and I was always told to do clear fluids for 24 hrs. following a fill. Good luck on your band journey... this is a great place for information... I have made many wonderful friends here and have learned so much. If you have any questions please feel free to email me. Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs tomander@bell.net
  18. The only pain I had after my surgery was the left shoulder pain from the gas. I found a heating pad really helped. Mine lasted for 3 days. It will get better. Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs
  19. Sharon recently mentioned on The Talk that she still had her band. Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs
  20. Try a heating pad... I found it really helped with the gas pain... it will get better. Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs tomander@bell.net
  21. HI If you can try and get to a support group. I hearing from so many people that clinics are not offering adequate follow up support. Keep after your clinic with your questions. Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs tomander@bell.net
  22. HI I was banded July 6 06. I started with a 54" waist... now 32". I've lost 156 lbs. My current weight is 134 lbs (and I NEVER tell any one my weight... LOL). I still get weighed in every month with my family doctor... this keeps me on track and motivated. Tom, Toronto tomander@bell.net
  23. Hi Sometimes it can take a few days for a fill to "kick in"... even a 1 cc fill. Take it one day at time... you'll get there. Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs tomander@bell.net
  24. Great... I always get there early... feel free to email me if you have any questions before then. tomander@bell.net Tom, Toronto Banded July 6 06 Wt. Loss: 156 lbs

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