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Wait a minute! They left something IN you? What? How do you get it out?

Nine days out, 17lbs down, and the stomach is starting to sag. Knew it would happen. Prior to any tummy tucks, please give us some advice on how to handle it. What lotions or powders are you guys finding favorable? Any other advice?

Maybe it's my defense mechanism, but I remember my "fat" moments with humor. A friend of mine was having a going away party at a restaurant. We were sitting on the patio in those plastic chairs. Her son and I were playing and he was jumping in and out of my arms. Suddenly, the chair colapsed and I was sitting on the floor between the arms of the chair. What's funny? The people nearby doing their best not to laugh. Got it, we broke the chair. Can't change that. Got another chair and kept playing. But, I laughed at them trying not to laugh at me! Sometimes, people are not being mean, but unintentionally insensitive. Headed toward an elevator that had been waiting. As i stepped on, the time delay buzzer went off, and this short old guy said "you may be a bit too much, big guy!" I WANTED TO SIT ON HIM! But, he was an old fart. I'm sure he had his own issues! Probably just changed his diaper.

I think the biggest bad is worrying about how bad it is. Your biggest asset is a positive attitude. Yeah, you may have to deal with a little discomfort, a little gas, a little nausea, but if you keep your mind on why you're doing it and what you're looking forward to, the rest is consequential. Got my sleeve on the 3rd. No major issues. More discomfort from the hernia repair than the sleeve. I'm already a size smaller in shirt and pants. I teared up when I was able to put on an old favorite shirt again! Losing weight EVERY DAY, and I'll never be this heavy again! Said goodbye to the 380s. In a few days, I'll say goodbye to the 370s. Seems to get better every day. Continue to read these posts. The people on VST are very candid in explaining what they're going through, and it's been the BEST EDUCATION I've received. Great support here! Welcome to the commmunity!

I was actually searching this post looking for gas and constipation remedies. when I suddenly "moved" Now I know my days of discomfort are limited! Oh,yeah!

I'm baaaack! The sleeve surgery went well, but the hernia was narly. Gave me a 6" scar and a 2 night stay! Great staff. Awesome support from the Mrs. I am officially a post-opper! More later.

Ok, I"m headed to the hospitall. The waiting is over. The pre-op diet is over. The shopping for "stuff" is over. What am i looking forward to now? ANESTHESIA! That's right! Get me in there and KNOCK ME OUT! Repair my hernia and slide me the sleeve! I'll deal with everything else when I wake up. My prayers are with all the doctors, nurses, and anyone else that has anything to do with the hospital visit. I EXPECT YOUR BEST! Also praying for the same for everyone else that has made this powerful decision to reclaim the quality of life that we all deserve. Be back shortly!

My surgery is tomorrow, and I'm truly looking forward to it. Great advice from the above. I also recommend that you make a list of what your life will be like once you've lost the weight. There is a thread called "what are you looking forward to?". I really enjoy reading the responses as it confirms for me that I'm on my way to the life I desire. Right now, I'm tired, I'm hungry and I'm craving all sorts of stuff. And I will enjoy EVERYTHING I'm craving a few months from now, in smaller quantities and in a smaller body. And, I'll ride the roller coasters, sit in restaurant booths, shop in dept. stores, and on and on and on.... (Did i mention some quality cuddling?)

Tomorrow! 6'1 375 Goal - 240 for now

As a husband, there would be NOTHING my wife could do or say to have me not be there. PERIOD. As a patient, I do have a concern about her well being, that she will eat, that she will get some rest, that she wouldn't spend her time worrying. I'll leave that choice to her, and I'll be ok with her choice. I've actually recommended that she go home late and come back early. The hospital is 15 mins from our house.

Go check out the thread, "what are you looking forward to?", and add your reply. This has helped me. I love reading what everyone has said. It will confirm that you've made the right decision. YOU CAN DO IT!!

Stay positive, Shannon. I'll meet you at Six Flags in a few months. UNSTOPPABLE!

Here's a man chiming in... I see a couple of issues here: 1. He didn't honor your request and betrayed your trust. He's your husband and should be your safe place, your confidante. 2. He stole your future moment of surprise and awe that we all are looking forward to as a benefit of our choice. Suggestion: have a conversation about who he wants to be for you. Is he your ally, forsaking all others, or is just the person you're married to at the moment? Hmmm.

July 3rd, Austin,TX. Dr. Nancy Marquez. Had a meeting with the Bariatric nurse at my hospital. Great idea! Went over everything again, especially diet. Got lots of sample products. Went shopping today for everything I need to get started. Come on, Tuesday!

Hey guys, for encouragement, go read the thread "What are you looking forward to?". It's got some great stuff! This could help deal with the pre-op challenges. Come on, Tuesday!

So, what is your diet? My NUT just said less than 30 carbs and 70 protein. Am I missing something?

I've been reading posts on how people are nervous about their upcoming surgeries. Mine is scheduled for July 3rd. Not concerned about the operation at all. Everytime I think about it, my mind goes to the things I'm looking forward to. I’m looking forward to the roller coasters, airplanes, restaurant booths, bathroom stalls, concert and movie seats, and clothes that I’ll be able to fit into again. The joy of playing basketball, tennis, golf and going long to catch a pass. The confidence in knowing I can sit in a chair – ANY CHAIR – and not worry about whether it can support me. The amusement parks, Water parks, state fairs that I can enjoy ALL DAY. To have the energy to climb a set of stairs, wash my own car, to help a friend move. To buy a shirt on sale from a DEPARTMENT STORE! To look great in a suit. To go to a conference and wear a 2x t-shirt instead of being the only 6x! I’m looking forward to seeing old friends, family, and business associates; the next class reunion! Oh, what joy it will be to spoon, have great sex, and to walk out of the shower feeling desirable. To not hear the inappropriate comments from people who say they love me (I WANT TO SIT ON THEM!); to hear the same comments from strangers! To get into the floor with my grandkids, knowing that I’m going to get in the floor with THEIR kids some day. My view from the mountain top is so awesome, that the climb is merely a formality! What are YOU looking forward to?

So, what liquids are you drinking?

No wonder I'm not losing weight! Thanks. Which protein shake has the fewest carbs?

My NUT says my pre-op diet should be less than 30gms carbs and over 80gms protein, but no other specifics. I'm concerned I'm not doing it right. Can someone give me more specific recommendations? Should I be doing protein shakes/drinks right now? What exactly are you eating or not eating?

My NUT says my pre-op diet should be less than 30gms carbs and over 80gms protein, but no specifics. I'm concerned I'm not doing it right. Can someone give me more specifis c recommendations? Should I be doing protein shakes/drinks right now?