justmeandmysleeve

I am going to the gynocologist this week to ask the same question. I really do not want to get anything implanted since my husband and I would really like to start a family 18-24 months after the sleeve. I'll let you know what my doctor says. I am hoping to go back on the pill. I've been off the pill for a year and trying, but because of my weight we were not successful in getting pregnant. I am having the surgery to give us a better chance of having a HEALTHY family! Good luck!

hi FM- I am a SoCal girl myself and have chosen the NEW Program in Newport Beach. A close family friend of mine had her sleeve done there. I actually went for a consultation a year ago, but wasn't being supported by my husband and family. Good news is, now they are on board so I am back at testing and getting my mind ready. I highly recommend the NEW Program so far, they have been extrememly efficient and really helpful. Let me know if you have any other questions. ~Carly

That is funny because my husband keeps asking if I am going to get skinny and leave him. I assured him that my focus is to be healthy NOT skinny. To be honest I've never been skinny and I don't think it's my natural state. Good luck! Convincing the husband also

Kim, Hang in there! That is my worst nightmare. I am going to be sleeved on July 19th and I am sick of the stigma that I am taking the "easy" way out. I don't think there is anything easy about the decision to take your life back into control. I'll be praying girl! ~Carly

This is a hilarious thread! My husband is just like all of yours in that he wants to see how I do first. Us women have to do it all I am actually excited to show him that it can be done. I get sleeved July 19th!!! Good luck Ladies!

Hi Harleymb- I am a newbie as well. My surgery is scheduled for July 19th! I have never wanted bypass because I have seen the effects of malabsorbtion with a friend of mine. In my life sleeve makes the most sense because my husband and I are trying to have a family and I will have a better chance of having a healthy pregnancy without the malabsorbtion. My doctor recommends bypass only when patients have a major addiction to sweets. I don't know if you are a sweet or savory lover? Good luck whatever you choose!!!

I have had fears of getting pregnant while obese, I was worried about everything you have confirmed. I hope that once I have lost my weight and I am in maintenance I can have a healthy pregnancy....not to mention keep up with a little one. I'll let you know what my OBGYN says. Congrats, you are almost one week post-op! How have you been feeling?

I am absolutely considering birth control, I just don't know which kind. I am really not wanting to be back on th pill, but I also do NOT want to have an unhealthy baby while I am supposed to be getting healthy myself. So you recommend depo......thank you!

Benjammin- I am most worried about the "head hunger." I know I am an emotional eater and I don't know how to stop using food as my comfort. I am afraid that post-op I will turn to another addiciton because I haven't properly dealt with the emotional issues behind the eating. My pre-op diet is three weeks and from what I already know consists of Protein shakes, bars and veggies....that's really it! I am nervous that I will be a raving lunatic those three weeks; starving, moody, tired, etc. Thank you for your input. Luckily the doctor is only a car ride away, hopefully my husband doesn't drive like your van driver did

Ladies- My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for about a year. I was recently diagnosed with PCOS which is the major reason I am having the sleeve on July 29th. I don't feel comfortable with going back on birth control since I finally got it out of my system. What did you do post-op to ensure you wouldn't have a pregnancy before your body was ready? Thank you!

As my sleeve date rapidly approaches (July 19th) I am trying to learn everything I can about life before and after the sleeve. I am doing my best to have an "eyes-wide-open" approach, I want to know everything I can before I fully commit myself to making this life change. From those of you who are in this process; What did you wish you knew before surgery? Was there anything that suprised you negatively or positively? What has been the most difficult thing to overcome? What has been the easiest? Do you have any hints for getting through the pre-op diet? Thank you in advance!

Thank you ladies. Great advice. I am going keep things confidential until I feel comfortable telling the outside world. I have only discussed in length with my parents, husband, 2 close friends and my sister-in-law. I have another round of tests on Wednesday for pre-op; ultra sound, blood, etc. Keep me in your prayers so that hopefully I can keep my scheduled date of July 19th. Not looking forward to the 3 week diet, but trying to start now with little changes. I made it through the grocery store today (with my husband) and we didn't buy any junk! A small victory, but baby steps are being made. Did either of you join support groups or see a therapist? Thanks again!

I am a newbie to the site! My sleeve is scehdule for July 19th!!! I am overwhelmed but so many emotions, but here are the fears that are driving me crazy; Telling my younger brother- he thinks surgery is the "easy way" to deal with obesity Telling my boss and friends at work, they'll be watching my every move! The way my weight loss will change my relationship with my husband The way my new lifestyle will change my relationship with my husband What if after I loose the weight, I STILL cannot have a family? Will I be able to sucessfully complete the 3 week liquid pre-op diet? Being able to face the ugly truth once I take away ability ot overeat....why do I use food as my addiction? I know I am not the only one with fears. What have you done about yours? Thank you for the feedback!

Wow, that had me in tears. Praise God for giving you the tools to minister to others about your struggle. I am only beginning my journey, July 19th, but I know that God is going to pull me through it. You are truly inspirational.