In the begining I chose not to tell anyone I was having wls. I wanted to process my decision and get use to the idea before telling anyone else.
Then my plan was to tell only family, for support, and incase something were to happen. There is always a risk factor when having surgery, and I thought it was a good idea because of traveling. I am also a single parent, and I wanted my older children to be aware of what I was doing, and the changes that would follow. My children were all for it. They were a little nervous, but I was able to put ghem at ease a little when I told them all the research I'd done. Big suprise to me, the rest of my family were not supportive at all and tried talking me out of it. It was mainly about going to Mexico to have the surgery.
Then I asked my hairdresser what she thought about going to Mexico for surgery, because she had just recently been sleeved herself. She told me that she actually had her surgery in Mexico but didn't tell many people because she didn't want to hear the negativity. Then I tell my Chiropracter I'm having the surgery, and she says, "Great!" Then proceeded to tell me that she knew several that had gone to Mexico to have it done. By this point, I'm amazed. We live in a very small town in the south. I was really suprised how many people had gone to Mexico for the same procedure.
Now I've told several close friends, who are excited for me and supportive of my decision. Almost everyone says they know someone else who's had wls done in Mexico! I'm glad I finally told the ones I did, because I really needed the support group. However, I've opted not to tell any more family.