musicalmomma

Gosh, I am SO thankful for this forum!! It has been a WEALTH of information to me and my DH. I didn't even know what a PB was until I found this forum...still don't know what "slime" is. I think I will be much more successful with my band because of all you good people on LBT :myscared:

Hi Deborah!! We have a lot in common I should be banded in April, but had to put it off til May because I have a women's retreat, 1200 miles away in April, that I'm leading worship for and want to be at my best. I cleared my schedule for the summer. I told folks I'd be back as soon as I recovered but wasn't sure how long it would be. I know I won't be playing guitar until the wounds heal, but I have NO IDEA how long it will be before I can sing full voice again. Apparently there are breathing exercises after the surgery and some people have difficulty with full breaths for a few weeks! So, I asked my doc if this surgery could possibly affect my voice for the long term and he said it shouldn't So, is your date set? Are you getting excited? Mines at least two months away and I'm absolutely giddy!!!!!! Best wishes!!!

:omg: WOWIEEEEE Jackal!!!! YOU look FaBuLoUs!!!!!!! :omg: You don't even look like the same person!!!!! Gotta show DH this :clap2:

This is SOOO interesting to me!! Top weight for my height, according to all the charts is 157. But the body composition my doc took (body fat & lean mass ratios) said I would be at 30% fat or less at 180! Hence my goal of 175! What a relief that is!

There's not a bubble for me...but I should be paying $1500 plus copays. So with DH and me both doing this, we figure on putting out about $4000. Fortunately, we opted for flex spending this year and have $100 per pay deducted, pre tax, ($2600 total) to reimburse non-covered medical expenses. Sooooo I figure we'll be tapping the credit card for 1.5k-2k. Nothing next year's tax return won't take care of! Thank God!! Now, I gotta ask my doc how many/long fills are covered in his price!

Hi Danielle I'm in the waiting process too. I've been heavy all my life too! My very own mother tells me "I hate to see you taking the easy way out". She means to be supportive and thinks it's merely a matter of self discipline. It took me three years of serious consideration before deciding to take this route. I finally had to stop listening to my mother and anyone else that would stand in my way. No one knows how hard this is unless they've walked in a fat prison for years. This is not the easy way out. It's merely a tool. It will not fix your psychological dependance on food. That is something you'll have to work on for yourself, or even through counselling, OA, a support group, or something that that helps with finding constructive ways to cope when the cravings hit. Now, this is JUST me, but I would not have been emotionally ready or mature enough to have been banded at 20 and I was married with a baby at that time! I know I would have found ways to "out eat" the band, because I hadn't dealt with my emotional attachement to food. HECK, I'm still working on that one...gained a lot of ground, but I don't know if I'll ever be totally free from wanting to use food as a crutch. I'm only stating all of this to give you some food for thought. I am in no way discouraging you from doing this...only want you to make the most informed decision. Research is very important...but equally important is to be sure this is the right decision at the right time. Keep us posted and best wishes

I'm 5'7 (well 5'6 & 3/4)

well...I weigh nekkid, first thing in the morning, before I eat or drink anything. So, the doc's scale is always 3.5 higher than mine (4 if I have an appt. later in the day).

I am SO there with you Jennifur!!!! My doc said the highest I should be is 157!! I have it in my mind that I will be perfectly happy and satisfied with 175! Like you, when I get there...if I wanna lose more, I can.

That's a good question...my doc said that I'd have to crush ALL pills for life (or get liquid or chewable). What I want to know is...WHY??? If that pill is tiny and I don't have much restriction...can't I just swallow it? For instance I take a pill that is about half the size of a pencil eraser...why should I have to crush it?

Wow...this is so true...I never thought of it this way. I was so worried about the $3000 or so hubby and I would have to shell out, that insurance won't cover...WOW...the guilt is GONE!!!! Thanks :scared:

Yeah it's really frustrating...especially at first when you're doing all the "insurance required" appointments...my husband had a meeting with his boss...told him he was going to have surgery in a few months and will have MANY pre op appointments. His boss was really great about it. However, everyone in the office is now pressing him about "what's up wit all of these appointments??? are you dying or something??". He's a very private person and just keeps telling them he doesn't want to talk about it. Hmmm....how did I get here in my ramblings??? Oh yeah...the office staff isn't thrilled with all the appointments...but his boss is cool...and that's what counts. For me...I'm a stay at home mom...so I gotta lug at least one kid with me to every appointment!! lol

Maybe walking isn't your thing. I HATE the treadmill...I don't mind walks outside, but there are only about 4 fit months here in Wisconsin for that sort of thing. The only excercize I can stand is swimming/water jogging. Have you thought about joining the local YMCA or Fitness club...maybe even Curves? The YMCA also has pilate's, yoga, aerobics, and many other classes available to try My Y actually started a bariatric Water work out at 5:30am for large people that don't want to excercise in front of skinny people. They encourage you to even wear shorts and a T-shirt if it makes you more comfortable. You could also ask your Surgeon's program coordinator to recommend other options. From what I've been told over and over again from the Doc and nutritionist, that it's most important to find an excercise plan you will like. So keep looking

Way to go!!!! Congratulations :clap2:

On the contrary...I love the Lord with all my heart. He didn't only free me from an eternity in hell after this life. He has enriched my life here on earth beyond anything I could ever ask or think. God isn't only interested in my eternity, He's interested in my here and now. So if I came across as only wanting fire insurance, I apoligize. It wasn't my intent I also don't expect others to believe as I do. I only share what I believe and why I believe it, what others do with that is up to them.

I dunno...but when I die...if I find out that there's really nothing after this life, I've lost nothing by professing faith in the Son of God. The opposite couldn't be said by those without faith when they come face to face with God.

Heck, I'd scramble the money and get the fill myself!!! No way I'd be hungry until MAY if there was any way around it. It seems really common for people to get hungry by the 4th week and not have much if any restriction. At least, according to what I've been reading it's common. I was at a support group last night. A lady was there that was 5 weeks out and has gained a little and is very hungry. She is really frustrated too...but gets a fill next week, so she's hanging in there. Good luck

After reading this thread/ "blog"...I am SOOOOO thankful I am not 19 anymore!!!! Being an adolescent is hard enough without looking for trouble.

Considering Jesus' tomb was BORROWED, from Joseph of Areamathea (sp?) it would stand to reason that there would be a family inside that tomb...Josheph of A's family, not Jesus'.

That depends on a lot of factors...some people only have to wait a few weeks....some MONTHS. I am a MONTHS person...insurance is a big factor. If you're going through insurance, call them and ask them to send you the requirements for WLS.

Personally, I would look into another doctor. Get a second opinion and price schedule. Seems weird to me they want another $5k if you don't lose 40-50lbs. And YES...if you lose 50 on your own, you may still want to consider surgery. Many people, myself included, can lose weight with relative ease...it's losing it ALL and keeping it off that trips most of us up. The band lets us know when we're full and is a good tool for acheiving life long health. But it's only a tool. It's not a cure all. I know it's frustrating. I was so mad at how much red tape there was to this and how long it's taking (I should get banded in May or June...insurance stuff). Then I realized...this time is being given to me for several reasons. #1 - am I serious about this enough to see it through for life? #2 - Start making changes to my diet NOW that I know I'm going to have to make after surgery anyway, so it's not so difficult post-op. #3 - prepare myself emotionally for a life long change in eating habits. #4 - begin excersizing so it becomes a habit prior to surgery...etc etc etc. Keep your chin up...and don't just stick with the first doctor at the first seminar you attended. We have three docs in our area and I found the best through research and asking my pcp. Best wishes for a healthy future

Thanks for the encouragment I am getting so excited! Going to my first support group tonight. I hope to be banded by early May, but it all depends on the insurance company.

Oh My!!! I thought it would cost SOOO much more!!! I'm sold!!! Of course, I have to be banded and lose the weight first...but I think this will be a definite 40th birthday present to myself (guess it benefits hubby too, so it will have to be his birthday present too haha!)

I'd be really interested in knowing this too...and if insurance covered any of the tummy tucks (and maybe a boob lift??? LOL!!!)

Guess I'll chime in here... I've been fat all my life...fat baby...chubby toddler...plump kid...bulky adolescent...FAT adult. My mom tried to psycho-analyse me till the cows came home!! Years and years of self doubt and wondering WHY I over eat has led me to this conclusion... I LOVE FOOD! I over indulged all of my life. I used food to soothe hurt feelings, combat boredom, Celebrate lifes big and little accomplishments, and any other emotions in between. It was just my choice of coping methods. Nothing serious ever happend in my deep dark past. I had two loving parents. I was brought up in love and taught morals and values. So, I guess my 'reasons' are boring, but hopefully since I don't have any deeper psychological attachements to food, I will be able to overcome my obesity with the tool of lapband added to exercise and proper diet.