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amytug reacted to LipstickLady in I lied.
You aren't, silly! You are the leader of such. Personally, I refer to myself as a pretty, pretty princess.
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amytug reacted to LipstickLady in I lied.
The use of the word "coon" can be construed as extremely offensive, derogatory and racist. That said, the usage reflects much more on the person who uses such words, and not at all on the intended target.
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amytug reacted to LipstickLady in I lied.
You win!! You played the "cool kid" card! Clique, pack, wolves, etc. WOOOOOHOOOO!! Winner, winner, chicken dinner!
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amytug reacted to LipstickLady in I lied.
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amytug reacted to Kristina J. in I lied.
Then does it matter that she's said multiple times to me that she did sleep with him (both before and after the retraction ... with time stamps to prove it)? Does it matter that there is proof of their relationship? Does it matter that I spoke to him about it myself?! lol
I swore I wouldn't comment again, but some of you are killing me! I kept the evidence that I have only to protect myself, because some one messaged me a pretty nasty little message about how I could be sued for slander. Let's be clear though, I'm not worried about a lawsuit one bit. Not only because I only said truthful things, but because Dr. Luna is well aware of what I know, what he and I discussed personally and what has been forwarded to me by the OP.
And I will say again... No, of course there wouldn't have been anything said to his employers if they stayed together and at their wedding we probably would have all laughed about how they met! (Again, not in a position now that I want to put my neck out defending her, but...) The OP didn't post because she was simply a woman scorned. She posted because she genuinely felt tricked into believing it was more than a one night stand by someone she believed, in part, because of his position as her attending physician. She WAS embarrassed and ashamed of falling for it and hopping into bed with him, which is why she posted under a fake name. By the way, there is no anonymity with Dr. Garcia or Ready 4 a Change. They know who she is. But she fully admits that she was wrong too and shouldn't have jumped into bed with someone just because they sweet talked her.
But, all of that is beside the point that a lot of people here are trying to make. Consensual as it was, he was in a position that prohibits the behavior he displayed. He knew very well what the consequences were when he started but likely thought he could talk his way through it, even when she realized he wasn't interested long term... And he almost succeeded!! He got her to retract at least. But in the end, the evidence was just too overwhelming to talk his way out of. And in the US, not only are doctors prohibited from sleeping with their patients (and yes, that definitely includes consensual sex, or even if they were "seduced"), and in some fields, that doctor can actually face CRIMINAL charges for that consensual sex. And as far as that goes, when I worked for a hotel there was a very strict policy against dating guests. We would have long term guests (up to a year sometimes) and if I was caught sleeping with one of them, I would have been let go as well.
As a patient, I was more than happy with every aspect of my medical care from Dr. Garcia and even Dr. Luna. However, when you break the rules of your employment, you lose that employment. There are many reasons why doctors aren't allowed to sleep with patients. If you are arguing against that restriction, then that's a different conversation. But for this topic, it doesn't matter how willing each one was, the rules were black and white!
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amytug reacted to Nicolanz in I lied.
I don't understand why being his patient has anything to do with....well ....anything. My uncle seemed like a great man. Always nice to me. Made me laugh all the time. In my eyes everyone liked to be around him. I wasn't aware that behind my back he was beating my aunt and abusive to my two young cousins.
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amytug reacted to Nicolanz in I lied.
This is what you risk when you can't control yourself at your job. Someone getting upset and blasting you. If you ask me, he asked for it. You can't string patients /customers along by sleeping with them at a place of business and not suffer consequences. Come on. I'm surprised at how many people are defending him and his actions. I'm not defending her by any means, but she wasn't risking her career for this fling. Only her reputation is at stake here. If you break the rules expect the consequences.
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amytug reacted to LipstickLady in I lied.
Obviously she thought it was more and obviously she was wrong.
Do I think she came out with this because she was a woman scorned? YUP.
Do I think she retracted her story because she was sweet talked? YUP.
Do I think she was wrong sleeping with him? YUP.
Did he take an oath to protect his patients? YUP.
Did they both make foolish decisions? YUP.
Does is suck for everyone involved? YUP.
The moral of this story is, keep it in your pants if you can't handle the consequences no matter if you have a genie OR a peenie.
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amytug reacted to ShelPrice in I lied.
Seems like people are missing the point. Doctor's are not to sleep with their patients willing or not. Ever. Period. If nothing else, it confuses the doctor patient relationship as you've seen here. Yes, she's responsible for her actions. It doesn't change the fact he was clearly not acting in the best interests of his patient. That's what being a doctor is about, looking out for their patients. Don't attack people who expect doctors to live up to their obligations. Laura-ven was following her convictions, not launching a vendetta against the guy. Let's be mature about this and let it go. Dr. Garcia has dealt with the situation.
Shel in Kansas - Sleeved 5/21/13
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amytug reacted to LI Gemini NY in I lied.
Yea I think we all had an inclination it was her. I almost choked on my Water when I saw someone asked her how she feels now in response to a post she made that she loved the entire team lmao
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amytug got a reaction from newat52 in Im "overweight!"
I got on the scale today and I am 168!!!! I have not seen that number in my adult life! I've lost 4 lbs in two days- insane!!
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amytug got a reaction from newat52 in Im "overweight!"
I got on the scale today and I am 168!!!! I have not seen that number in my adult life! I've lost 4 lbs in two days- insane!!
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amytug got a reaction from Ms skinniness in I wont be sleeved after all.. :'(
Is a loan an option? It's a small one if its just 2,500. Or maybe apply for a cc that has 0% interest.
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amytug reacted to LI Gemini NY in I wont be sleeved after all.. :'(
Credit card, loan from 401k account, payday loan, care credit, can they do a payment plan? Don't give up you still have time to come up with something.
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amytug reacted to newat52 in Im "overweight!"
Love it! Congrats!
I am sooo close I can taste it! 3 more pounds to get to 163 and I too, will be overweight and leaving obesehood FOREVER!!!
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amytug got a reaction from newat52 in Im "overweight!"
I got on the scale today and I am 168!!!! I have not seen that number in my adult life! I've lost 4 lbs in two days- insane!!
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amytug got a reaction from newat52 in Im "overweight!"
I got on the scale today and I am 168!!!! I have not seen that number in my adult life! I've lost 4 lbs in two days- insane!!
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amytug reacted to Ms skinniness in Im "overweight!"
Good job Amy! I loved the over weight category for a while..... Soon you shall be in the normal weight range! CONGRATS!