3 Ky - my heart goes out to you - genuinely. You have had more to deal with in the past few years than many have over a life time. After looking after everyone else's needs, it is about time your hubbie and parents looked after you a bit. Can anyon e hold the fort whilst you have a little break?? It sounds like this is your time now - you very much deserve to feel happier and healthier. Like me, you have a long way to go on your weight goals - but can you imagine how gorgeous we will be when we get there!!!
keep your chin up
Sarah x