I understand what you are going through. I lost my marriage a few years go and it was so hard. I am starting this journey with my adult son support he's 20. I am ready to change and save my lif like you did. We are given a choice daily how we want to live. Maybe he still has love for you and you to can get thearpy and save your marriage. My husband tried it was him who took me to therapy but by then it was so hard to still say i loved him. I stayed for 16 yrs. he did not do the things a normal man does for his family keep a job. Turns out he was dealing with mental illness it was something i could not do I was a survior of a mentally ill mother could not keep my teen in son in that enviroment. So he now lives in NYC my husband. I am happier. Work on you the rest will come together. Start counseling to deal with all these new emotions and pray. I am still working the process so soon there will be less of me too. Be blessed strong sister......smile
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I understand what you are going through. I lost my marriage a few years go and it was so hard. I am starting this journey with my adult son support he's 20. I am ready to change and save my lif like you did. We are given a choice daily how we want to live. Maybe he still has love for you and you to can get thearpy and save your marriage. My husband tried it was him who took me to therapy but by then it was so hard to still say i loved him. I stayed for 16 yrs. he did not do the things a normal man does for his family keep a job. Turns out he was dealing with mental illness it was something i could not do I was a survior of a mentally ill mother could not keep my teen in son in that enviroment. So he now lives in NYC my husband. I am happier. Work on you the rest will come together. Start counseling to deal with all these new emotions and pray. I am still working the process so soon there will be less of me too. Be blessed strong sister......smile