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Ah yes. I had one doctor who was a weight snob and so was his staff. He was one of those: "I don't believe in meds or weight loss surgery because you are just lazy and eat like a pig." doctors. I was going to him almost daily and they would weigh me every FREAKING day. He also gave my daughter a Hep B shot when I requested Hep A and he was a cruddy doctor to boot.

How funny. It will be a holy stomach if I can take communion. Say, has this ever come up? Post op, will I be able to eat the host, drink? I'm Catholic and it's a weekly thang. I sing in the choir and it would be weird if the Eucharist didn't agree and I had to run out the door. You are a smartass, but I told me mother that I was also going to get a tattoo.

Heck Kelly! Why bother? Nobody needs to know what surgeries you've had or that your stomach resembles a banana. It looks like you are almost at goal. I can see people finally telling someone and having them say: "Oh, no wonder! You did it the easy way." First things first. I need that approval. All my insurance requires is a psych eval and a diet history.

I just needed to vent. If I didn't tell her and she found out that I told somebody else and not her she would get bent out of shape -so I tell her and she gets bent out of shape. Yes, the God made you that way so deal with it argument is like the guy on the desert isle that ignores the boat, plane and helicopter because he knows God will save him. He dies and then God says, "come on!, I sent a boat, a plane ..." The interesting thing is that I really don't care if she's supportive or not. I've got plenty of that from my husband, my daughter and you all I expected her reaction, but it irritates me all the same. Basically, I know me. I've had to major abdominal surgeries (C-section and fibroids) and I basically want to be left alone. My mother will not understand and will take it personally no matter how well I explain it. Dee, I like your style. I will smile and nod a lot.

The chicken with the addition of the egg-drop would kick up the Protein. Very good! Since I am getting sleeved soon (hopefully) I was wondering if you had Soups for the people at puree stage? You rock Soup-A-Woman!!! Thank you!

My plan was to use the crock pot a whole lot. Would you share your soup recipes? I'd rather make nutritious things from my own kitchen that spend a huge amount of my on protein shakes. I've never liked those things. I know I will need some, but I like the idea of soup much better.

I can't get my wedding ring off anymore. They may have to cut it off if (NO, WHEN) I get the surgery. You are my sisters and brothers. I pray for all of us to be healthy this time next year. Rootman, it looks like you are all but there already. You give us hope.

To see the portion of the stomach they took out? I'm sorry, but I'm really weird that way. Just curious. On another note: I am so very grateful for this forum. My first appt. with the surgeon is on the 20th of September. I have a PPO and all they require is a psych eval and a record of past diets. I hope is goes smoothly and quickly.

Feeling cold is so much better than me being fat ans=d not being able to tolerate the heat of a California summer anymore. I used to always be outside. Now I huddle inside with the A/C on.

I have eczema on my calves that will spread to the backs of my arms, stomach and back if I flare up. I also have rosacea. The dermatologists could find no cause, no cure and no real treatment. When I lost a lot of weight before, the skin problems went away. One thing to add to the list: Not being able to stand still for any period of time without back pain. I'm in a church choir and must stand through a large portion of the mass. I should be thinking about what's going on, but can't because I hurt.

Being an inch from the steering wheel and barely able to reach the pedals. Not even bothering to go to amusement parks anymore because it's so embarrassing to be sent off a ride for not fitting properly. Being afraid to go out for dinner and being put in a booth that will not accommodate me. Getting in and out of said booths. Being asked to be an extra in a film, but do NOT want to have your fat self in a movie forever. Also, being afraid there will be no costume that fits you. Not wanting people to take pictures of you and having your family pissed at you when you delete/destroy really bad photos of yourself. Not going swimming because any thought of getting into a bathing suit terrifies you (and you don't even have one that fits anymore). Wearing the same 3 pairs of pants because you simply cannot motivate yourself to buy the next largest size. Not being able to put on sandals because reaching around fully to the left side of your foot is now a memory. Not looking good in ANYTHING. Skin problems that I am fairly sure that are related to obesity. Being too tired to do ANYTHING after a full day of work that you used to love like taking care of the house, the garden ... Being too uncomfortable and self conscious for sex (sorry if TMI). Feeling guilty for over-eating. Not being able to horseback ride because your neighbor needs you to be under 200 pounds for the horse's sake. Be terrified of connecting with old friends because they will see you like ... this. It really goes on and on ...

Julie, Up until a couple months ago I was riding my friend's Morgan horse. She was so sturdy that my weight didn't bother her. My friend had to move and sell her. Now I am horseless. I could half-lease with other people, but they all say nothing over 200 lbs and I do not blame them. I'm so glad you have horses. To me there is nothing better than being in the saddle. Don't ever take if for granted. Congratulations on the weight loss. I hope to be on the losers bench soon.

Just for THAT reason it has taken me YEARS to finally start down this road. I had many skinny doctors tell me that since i couldn't lose weight i didn't have the discipline needed for WLS. I asked them for help and they gave me low fat diets to follow or under pressure offered me expensive diet programs like an 8 week Medifast type thing. If I had done this sooner, I would not have the high blood pressure or many of the co-mobidities. What in the hell is wrong with these people? Maybe your surgeon could recommend a local doctor who has his/her head screwed on straight.

Thanks for the pics! Awesome. Yours will be the second blog I am reading. I really have come to appreciate these blogs. I like to know what I might expect and it's sort of like having a friend to go through it all with me.

Don't get me wrong. As stated, I know she cares, but this stems from old issues. On it's face there is really nothing wrong with what my mother said. It's how she views me as a person -- how she always has and it's never been on the mark. Also, every person has their own comfort level about who is in the know about the surgery. I personally want people to just see me as becoming more healthy rather than "The girl who got WLS" as SittingPretty said. That may change later. Who knows. I may even blog about it. I'm reading someone's blog from this forum right now and it's helped me to know what I might expect.

Thanks. I really am pretty private about most things and anyone who knows me would know that I research things to death. That's why I'm here even before the first consult.

Newbee here. I haven't even gone for my first surgical consult yet. I know this is what I want and had to weigh in on the clothing thread. I have clothes in storage from size 16 down to a size 5. I never throw away clothes I like that are still in good condition. I am going to have such fun going back and trying things on. These clothes are not really in any exaggerated style so they will all work. Yes, I did buy a lot of clothes hoping to fit into them at some point. Most of those are in the 14-16 size range. I know I'm getting ahead of myself, but as silly as it seems, I am looking forward to this.

I just can't figure out how they get it through those little holes!

Cool Brooke. Thanks! I like the idea of a blog to get me through the journey.

I hear they have to send it out to pathology. I don't want to keep the thing. Maybe just see it. I was awake for my knee surgery and watched it on the screen above. I was awake for my C-section as well. They showed me what they took out that time I'm hoping the process goes smoothly. It's hell waiting for this first appointment! I want to get this going!

I came here to say the same as all the rest (you look 30 years younger, etc.). One more thing: In the before picture, your eyes looked dead. I'm serious. Now your eyes absolutely sparkle!!! Wish me luck. My first appointment with the surgeon is Sep. 20th.

Thank goodness for this thread. I was considering Lapband because I didn't know Gastric Sleeve existed. After I went to the orientation, it became apparent that the sleeve sounded better (no getting stuck, fills, not being able to eat certain healthy foods, etc.) Now I know that I have made the right decision. I love fibrous and raw/undercooked vegetables. I also like fibrous fruits and Pasta - something i read that most could not tolerate on the band. I would have had to say a permanent goodbye to popcorn and eat all my meat mushed or sauced to death. I know I may still have issues with some things, but I also know that I have a permanent tool with no foreign objects in my abdomen. REALLY, THANKS!!!