The Dora Milaje

I have dumping, but I had it for years (pretty much all of my life) before surgery so it's not surprising it would continue for me. I have dealt with this so long and any food can cause it for me so no rhythm or rhyme to it.

This video was what I needed to see yesterday. I have been struggling with some emotional drama with my SO and reverted to my old bad habits -- eating trash to deal with my feelings even though I felt like trash afterward. This was just Thursday and Friday so I didn't get all the way off course but he's right. I have to change my relationship with food AND with others. Have to. Also, I realized I was self-sabotaging. I have been fat for so long (see first diet at 5) I'm not sure I believe I deserve to be a healthy weight. I talk a good game but deep down I have doubts. I need to work on showing myself the same grace I would show to a friend who was going through this process. I will discuss with my therapist and I appreciate all the information and support here.

Love. This. I am type 1, first diet at 5.

Your numbers are a lot like mine. I'm losing slowly but steadily. Don't worry about it, you will be fine

No idea but whatever it is it works for me. I will say my NUT said that you get your monies worth from my surgeon. I will agree.

Come back and show us pics and progress!

Personally I said dump him because I assumed she had already discussed all of this with him since she has had the surgery already. The journey is hard enough why add on struggling with a boyfriend over it?

Sorry for the dupes

Ok well dump him. Don't even waste the energy trying to make him understand why you made the decision you did. Life is too short.

Ok well dump him. Don't even waste the energy trying to make him understand why you made the decision you did. Life is too short.

Ok well dump him. Don't even waste the energy trying to make him understand why you made the decision you did. Life is too short.

Ok well dump him. Don't even waste the energy trying to make him understand why you made the decision you did. Life is too short.

Girl you betta slay! Any "secrets" to your success that you can share with those of us still in the beginning of our journey?

Is this your boyfriend or husband? My answer varies depending on the level of commitment.

What would you say were the "secrets" to your success?