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hi!! i keep hearing about Kaiser sunset...where is it at???? is it close by kaiser baldwin park??? i'm sooo overdue also!! tomorrow is my first class and im so excited!!

lol my husband is just worried for me and wants to know all the details as i do!! so i'm going to call and see if i can take him cause my class starts tomorrow!!

omgosh im so excited thanks foe the info! my husband is kinda worried for me and so he wants to be there!!

okay thanks! ooh man i hope they do cause my husband wants to go with me cause he's worried!!

okay i think i will have to call and ask!! my class starts tomorrow!!

AWE thanks my son is my life and because of him i decided i need to change my life!! i wish i could speed up my classes...i'm so excited i feel like a lil kid excited for the first day of school!

okay thanks! i'm so excited! my husband is worried for me and he wants all the info too!! so hopefully they'll let me to come to the first class with me!

Thanks fo the adivce! i guess men can have the same insecurities as women! i did talk to him last night and he understands more where i'm coming from!

ooh man i havent had my yet but thanks for the heads up!!!

yes i'm hoping with time he will see the benefit of it! and he has said " that will mean we can go camping and hiking!" so yes i think he knows but is still scared!

Hi! Are you going to the Kaiser in Baldwin Park? i'm starting classes next week on the 16!! i'm excited to get some more info!

Same as of the the band!! i was all set for it and then i found this site and talked to others and i'm kinda sure i'll be get the sleeve done! i Just started the options class so i have alot ahead of me before i can have my surgery but i was told to look into what surgery i wanted since my ins covers all 3 and to set a surgery date goal! i dont know anyone that has been sleeved but i have a friend that had a bypass but she told me if she could choose she would get sleeved! i'm 25 years old..married and have a one year old son!!

Hello there! i'm hoping to have my surgery in January but i'm JUST starting my options classes next week so will see how it gos!

yup! i got a scaredy cat husband!! lol jk but we talk about and are open with our feelings so tonight i'm going to have to talk to him about it!

Thanks DJaskson! but i've been hit on in front of my husband so he kinda throws that at me like"imagine when your thin?" like really please!! i lett him that if i havent left now i'm not going to!! lol i guess men are crazy!!

hi Lilmissdiva!! thanks for the postive words and support!! i'm hoping once i get the surgery and once i'm recovering he will see that i'm all his and his alone!! i think i'm going to have to talk to him and let him know that i feel he desevers to have his trophy wife!! lol i'm happy to hear that your house is peacful once again!

Hello, i'm just starting with my options classes and i havent had the surgery yet and this is stressful enough without having my husband bug out on me! but my husband has never said anything about my weight ever...and when i ask him he says just more to love or as long as im into you what do you care what others think! so i've be blessed with a thoughtful and supportive husband...i think this is coming from fear..he said he's scared that something might go wrong!? which i understand!

I have never had my husband say that to me before and he has seen me thin and seen me know at my biggest! i think he doesnt want me to have the surgery because he is scared something might happen!?

Thanks!!! I know that he's coming from a place of fear....He told me last night "what if something happens to you?" and said he couldnt be without me...so i think thats why i've been pushing the WLS..because this isnt the first time he said this to me! i've could have had the surgery 6months ago but his fears scared me so i pushed it off! good luck and great job on the weight loss!

Yes Juliarh he is a great husband!! we have been through alot of ups and downs and i think that is why it was so left field for me!! I mean i was "skinny" once when we first got together so why would i leave now after 11years?!! lol ugh men!! iguess thats all i can say! thanks for the support!!

love it!! But for me, my husband knows because he his here with me daily and I need some support! My son is 1 and as of right now he doesnt know whats going on but I'm sure once I'm home and i cant hold him or pick him up he'll pick up on mommy isnt feeling good...i've also told two of my aunts one is trying to be supportive and one not so much...besides that once i get home from my surgery my immediate family will know and as of friends I'm only telling the ones i know that will be supportive! MY MOTHER IN LAW WILL NOT KNOW UNLESS MY HEALTH IS IN DANGER!!!!

Omgoodness!! I just seen how bad my spelling is!! I think I should stop having my son sit on my lap while I type! I'm every new to this and I cant wait for my options class to start!! I need all the info i can get! My husband wants me to do the lap-band because he thinks it safer!!and he thinks we can eat better with the band!!???

thanks so much for replying! i'm just so scared and like i said every new to all this!! i'm trying to see whats best for me and i need something thats has a fast recovery time and hospital stay! i also want to be able to still eat!! lol good luck on TTC! Sending Baby dust your way!