I did see it as I am an avid watcher every season!
People react in different ways and yes you should expect your family to do the "wow, look at you!" thing but honestly, people do not like others to succeed! You are doing awesome and don't let their reactions hold you down or make you think you haven't done enough!
The best reaction is from your husband and he thinks you look fantastic so that is all that matters!
I really want Ada to win the whole thing but my second choice would be Patrick...Frado is too cocky and well Elizabeth didn't do anything, everyone else did it for her!
Take care,
S